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Is this a red flag?

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99balloonsthatarered · 25/01/2024 09:18

Boyfriend of 18 months. 27 years old. He’s never been a huge social media user or poster, but at the beginning of the relationship he did used to go on instagram. He’d like my stuff and send me memes etc.
When he came to visit me he rarely went on his phone, he said he wanted to make the most of the time with me. Then without me he’d sometimes go on it. Fair enough. He used to post the odd picture of us if it was on holiday or something.

We moved in together 4 months ago and now he literally never ever uses it or even clicks on it. He said he doesn’t care about it anymore. He doesn’t post, send anything or ever go on it. But he hasn’t deleted it.

Is this weird? I asked him about it and he said “why do I need a reason”

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Comedycook · 25/01/2024 09:23

So you're annoyed he's no longer looking at women on Instagram?

vegetableplotter · 25/01/2024 09:22

The opposite of a red flag. He's into spending time with you, not pointless posting on social media.

Comedycook · 25/01/2024 09:22

Eh?

99balloonsthatarered · 25/01/2024 09:22

It’s strange though. He’s never been a poster but I know he used to scroll a lot. I used to see him like half naked pictures of girls (when single - he was an acquaintance before). Now he never even clicks on it, only when I have moved in

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brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 25/01/2024 09:22

Why does he need to delete it ? Is it causing harm ?

m00rfarm · 25/01/2024 09:21

You know you are being weird, don't you.