Do men really do this?

I probably have a different opinion to most, I'm a sex worker and I know that the majority of men who go into a brothel, not knowing what's inside, will probably still stay even though they are not particularly attracted to the lady working. What I'm trying to say is that sex with a random is purely a physical thing...and I think the fact he has been open about this is a good thing and if he's keen to continue dating you then it probably means he is attracted to you, both physically and personality wise, I don't believe it's a bad thing he's admitted this to you ...

Yes, and have fucked holes in fences, vacuum cleaner hoses, etc, etc. The orgasm is the thing for them.

Any hole is a goal. Repugnant scrote

Tbh plenty of men and women use people for sex in that way. I couldn’t imagine sleeping with someone I didn’t find attractive but people manage it. The fact he’s telling you this on a first date is bizarre, for starters I thought a first date is about getting to know someone, I wouldn’t dream of discussing ex partners in a first date. It also screams arrogance (or stupidity)

Yes it’s hilarious that some posters seem stuck in Georgian England and think women only have sex if they are under the impression there is love and commitment afterwards. Sometimes women just want to have sex 🤷🏼‍♀️

I’ve been with dh for a very long time. Before we dated, I also had sex with at least a couple of men I wasn’t particularly attracted to. There was an attraction of some description… or maybe a desire. They wanted sex. So did I.

Who says he was telling truth? Men have insecurities too maybe he was doing a puff-up for you in his own misguided way. A guy once told me about his threesome, years later to find it never happened, the poor lad got into a car accident on the way there(speeding incase you were wondering) and never made it. He's DH now and is a wonderful man, just had a bit of low self esteem. Thought if other women wanted him(in theory) well then I would too!

I've known men to have sex out of politeness, even if they didn't fancy the person. This sounds different though.

They might have been using him too.

I think he phrased it badly, he is obviously no Emily Brontë when it comes to language. I don’t think he comes across well. However, neither men nor women have to be with the worlds most beautiful person to get off during sex.
Logically I could have sex with an ugly, fat man and orgasm so long as he knows where my vital organs are and how to use his hands.
Many people do this. Maybe he isn’t that good looking himself who knows.
I think talking like he does would turn me off though.
Why on earth would he not just say I’ve had casual sex over the last 6 months, then end it there?
I also agree with the earlier comment that many men don't particularly want children. If women insisted on not having children then what would they do? All fight over the ones who do? I doubt it. I think most men would accept it.

Ew why the fuck would that conversation even happen 🤢

I’m interested to know how he introduced the subject. Had this happened between your date and you talking today or had it happened before your date? I’d probably be thinking more about what he thought he was gaining by talking to me about it (rather than how it had worked iyswim) it may be that it hadn’t happened at all. I’m trying to picture a scenario where a man would be talking to me about playing with someone else’s boobs

This is why sex dolls exist

What makes you think the women were looking for more than a shag, though? A one-night-stand with someone who is up for a one-night-stand isn’t using them.

I’ve definitely slept with a couple of men I didn’t really fancy. No idea how attractive they found me, and I can’t say I really care. We had sex, the sex was fun enough, that was all either of us really seemed to require.

Any hole's a goal ... for many men 🙄

Pp saying they know it's the truth but object to him saying it

I can't get my head round that. Surely it's better to know? I mean, imagine being married to someone for 20 years or whatever and finding they think that after all those years.

I will hasten to add the jealousy one was when I was 19.

Tbh I’ve slept with men I don’t find that attractive. Once to make his friend jealous, another time out of boredom. There wasn’t anything better on offer and I couldn’t be bothered with looking. 🤷🏼‍♀️ did I ‘use’ those men? I never promised a relationship or anything and they seemed to enjoy themselves.

Why has he ‘used’ them?

i know this is a thing, but I wouldn’t date someone who freely told me that. Why? It’s a vile attitude towards women

This, with bells on!!!!! Please never see this scum again.

Throw this fucker back OP, he is a pig.

Many women on here post admitting they've never found their husbands attractive/never fancied them.

I agree with this I bet this is a turn on to some men, I’ve heard some stories in my time. My sister use to have a friend who once said a man insisted on putting a pillow over her head when they had sex and when his friends came he asked her to hide in a cupboard god knows why she told us or why she even agreed to that! She wasn’t typically attractive so maybe had low self worth.

You don't need to understand it as he's just foul. Same as trying to understand a rapist or abuser. It's who they are.

He uses women and doesn't have respect for them, himself or you to even disclose it so early on.

He is not the measure of all men, why do you feel the need to understand him or to stop dating based on a loser?

Do you think there are no women who sleep with men they don't find attractive?

Whole point of dating is to find out if you're compatible, if not, you move on.

Haha yeah I definitely agree with that.