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To be disappointed partner booked "holiday" ?

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closemydoormow · 14/01/2024 12:50

So me and partner have 2 holidays booked this year.
Greece in September and a ski holiday in December.
I'm more than happy with this
He has now told me he has booked us 3 nights in Gran Canaria in 4 weeks
I questioned the 3 nights thing and he said they were really cheap flights (under £20 ) so he thought why not
Aibu to be a bit annoyed
It's a long way to go for 3 nights
We land on the Sunday at 10.30 am
We fly back on the Wednesday at 11.30 am

Would you be annoyed going all that way for 3 nights ?

OP posts:
Royalbloo · 15/01/2024 19:25

Omg why are you annoyed?!!!

masterblaster · 15/01/2024 19:23

This whole thread is why climate change will screw us as a species.

Oopydoops · 15/01/2024 19:17

First World problems right there.

Anisette · 15/01/2024 19:17

closemydoormow · 14/01/2024 13:19

Airport is a 25 min taxi ride away but flight is 6 am so will need to book hotel
On way back the flight is to a airport 2 hours away from home
So he's booked a hotel for that night in that city then come home via train next day
It's a lot

Why do you need to book a hotel? It seems mad if you're going to have to leave around 4/4.30 am. Why not just book a taxi from your house?

Madamum18 · 15/01/2024 19:12

Sounds a nice extra treat and a kind surprise. Just enjoy it!!

Ohnoooooooo · 15/01/2024 19:04

We have twice gone to Gran Canaria for winter sun for 3-4 days highly recommend it

EC22 · 15/01/2024 19:03

Id be delighted.

ThatWardrobe · 15/01/2024 19:02

I've been for 3 nights recently - was a lovely little break. Enjoy your unexpected sunshine!

Redrum22 · 15/01/2024 19:00

I went to Gran Canaria last year for 4 nights and it was amazing! Totally worth the plane journey (even better if you fly with Ryanair as they shaved about 45mins off each way!!

AllyArty · 15/01/2024 18:57

Lucky lucky you-count your blessings, give him a big hug and just say ‘thank you’.

pistachioicecream · 15/01/2024 18:51

GinAndJuice99 · 14/01/2024 15:56

I’d be bothered about the environmental impact of flying that distance for such a short trip

Me too, but we're definitely in the minority on this thread. Most people seem to be steadfastly ignoring any environmental concerns that have been raised.

PeloMom · 15/01/2024 18:51

It really is not such a long way…but i used to fly 13 hrs for 2-3 days so might not be the best to judge 🤣 go enjoy your bonus break

BustyLaRoux · 15/01/2024 18:51

No I don’t think it’s annoying at all. I’m going to Marrakech for 3 days next month. Can’t wait!

user1485851222 · 15/01/2024 18:51

No, I'd think great 3 nights away, enjoy

Autumnrain78 · 15/01/2024 18:48

Wish I could afford to go away full stop, I'll happily take your place, let me know 🙂 Go, enjoy and relax!!

CantFindMyMarbles · 15/01/2024 18:35

Yes, you’re being unreasonable and ungrateful. Someone booked something special for you and you’re moaning about it. It’s not like it’s Australia.

WestwardHo1 · 15/01/2024 18:27

What???

It's a lovely thing to do!

Catherhino · 15/01/2024 18:21

That sounds hell OP what a thoughtless, inconsiderate DH. LTB. 🙄🙄

AnotherStripyZebra · 15/01/2024 18:21

I couldn't agree more Mrsgreen100. I hope everyone with the financial privilege to enjoy multiple flights are offsetting their carbon.

ncforthisthreadonly24 · 15/01/2024 18:07

I'd be pleased my partner had taken the initiative tbh! I'd love this 😀

Reidie · 15/01/2024 18:05

He should have asked you but go , have a good time , life is for living x

Mrsgreen100 · 15/01/2024 18:01

Global warming?
you are taking to much tbh

Zanatdy · 15/01/2024 17:53

No I often go away for 3 nights and it’s not exactly far. I went to Dubai for 4 nights

toomuchfaff · 15/01/2024 17:52

Think you need to explore what you're annoyed at

is it
he booked it without discussing?
he booked it without considering other dependencies?
he booked it and you have other plans?
he booked it but you don't like being told what to do?
that he always does this, never considers what you want to do, doesn't ask, doesn't think?

what is it that you're annoyed about?
Not wanting to belittle or demean your emotions, but you've not explained why you're annoyed ..

QueenBean22 · 15/01/2024 17:51

No I’d love it. How nice for you