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Kyle Walker

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Hocuspocusnonsense · 13/01/2024 14:10

Much as I try to advice this kind of ‘news’ it is everywhere atm.

Anyone else reading this news and thinking if he wasn’t a footballer he’d just be a waste of space cock lodger?

I continue to be amazed at what women will tolerate for the sake of money or in the pursuit of fame.

Basically he fathered a child with another woman whilst being married. His wife stood by him. He publicly declared OW was nothing to him. He’s now admitted he’s the father of the OW’s second child. His wife has kicked him out but I wouldn’t be surprised if she takes him back and it seems the OW is doing the pick me dance.

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nameychangerrrrrr · 18/01/2024 18:31

Beezknees · 18/01/2024 18:23

And Kyle went back to her for more. Are we suggesting that men are helpless to say no to sex, absolving them of all responsibility?

Can't break up a relationship that's truly happy.

No we’re not suggesting that. He’s scum. Your next point?

Vivi0 · 18/01/2024 18:31

InAMess2023 · 18/01/2024 18:17

@Vivi0 oh hey Lauryn you're back 👋

I have no interest in who else he may or may not have cheated with.

But if you think sleeping with a man who you know is in a relationship, and again when he is married, in order to secure your financial future is fine then that says a lot about the type of morals you have.

But if you think sleeping with a man who you know is in a relationship, and again when he is married, in order to secure your financial future is fine then that says a lot about the type of morals you have.

Why do you assume that I think it’s fine? I don’t think it’s fine. Ultimately, though, the responsibility falls on the person who is in the relationship/married. The OW may not be a great person, but she is not the one who was cheating. She didn’t owe the partner/wife anything.

Beezknees · 18/01/2024 18:29

I'm actually beginning to think you're someone who knows Annie. You seem way too invested in what Lauryn is doing.

Beezknees · 18/01/2024 18:27

InAMess2023 · 18/01/2024 18:25

@Vivi0 and they weren't my comments

@Beezknees you supported her being able to claim her historic debts off him! Wtf

@Angrycat2768 yeah she was paying her mum £2k a month but she demanded Kyle also pay for a nanny even after the boy turned 18 🤣 can't see how she ever has any time for parenting when she spends all day online posting from her burner phones and blocking people who follow Annie

Please show me exactly where I said that. Quote it.

InAMess2023 · 18/01/2024 18:25

@Vivi0 and they weren't my comments

@Beezknees you supported her being able to claim her historic debts off him! Wtf

@Angrycat2768 yeah she was paying her mum £2k a month but she demanded Kyle also pay for a nanny even after the boy turned 18 🤣 can't see how she ever has any time for parenting when she spends all day online posting from her burner phones and blocking people who follow Annie

Beezknees · 18/01/2024 18:23

nameychangerrrrrr · 18/01/2024 18:16

Let’s not forget she claimed to be “infertile”. He’s of course to blame for cheating yes but Lauryn Goodman has unleashed a four year campaign of harassment and hate against that family. She’s continually
baited Annie despite shagging her husband, knowing she has three kids. Kyle made it clear he couldn’t be involved with her kid and was trying to rebuild his family yet Goodman deliberately
continued to harass them. Don’t you recall the puma incident where she started a petition because Kyle had his and Annie’s children’s names on his boots?!

And Kyle went back to her for more. Are we suggesting that men are helpless to say no to sex, absolving them of all responsibility?

Can't break up a relationship that's truly happy.

Vivi0 · 18/01/2024 18:22

InAMess2023 · 18/01/2024 18:04

Also publicly supporting someone who thinks a quick bunk up = payment of a lifetime of debts and a nanny until the age of 21 🤢 wow

I don’t think anyone really cares enough to be “publicly supporting” anyone in this situation. Lol.

I’m commenting on a thread where, surprise surprise, the woman in the situation is getting more hate and blame than the man who has humiliated his wife and destroyed his family.

I’m not supporting anyone, but there’s no way I’m going to read comments suggesting that the OW’s children should be removed from her and adopted because the OW asked for a fucking nanny from a multimillionaire in a court hearing on child support, and say nothing about it. That’s not public support, it’s calling out an unbelievably deranged comment!

Angrycat2768 · 18/01/2024 18:22

Beezknees · 18/01/2024 16:17

Many parents aren't good parents. Mine weren't particularly great. I still would not have wanted to be adopted. That can also be damaging.

Hasn't she dumped them on her mother to bring up? Although frankly, her mother did a shit job of bringing her up. Poor kids didn't ask for those two as parents.

Beezknees · 18/01/2024 18:21

InAMess2023 · 18/01/2024 18:15

@Beezknees completely and utterly different circumstances. One had kids with a man she'd been with for years, a natural product of a long term relationship.

One had kids to secure cold hard cash (note by the way her kid running around in the cheapest football boots going while she spends on designer for herself). She's been trying to bag a footballer her entire life, anyone would have done. The fact she asked him to pay off her pre existing debt shows you exactly what she's like.

I can see we're never going to agree on this but you carry on supporting 🤦🏼‍♀️

Who is supporting? I don't like any of them. Just because I'm not ass kissing the wife doesn't mean I love Lauryn.

InAMess2023 · 18/01/2024 18:17

@Vivi0 oh hey Lauryn you're back 👋

I have no interest in who else he may or may not have cheated with.

But if you think sleeping with a man who you know is in a relationship, and again when he is married, in order to secure your financial future is fine then that says a lot about the type of morals you have.

nameychangerrrrrr · 18/01/2024 18:16

Vivi0 · 18/01/2024 18:13

It's KW and LG to blame here

You’re wrong. It’s Kyle that’s to blame here. The OW didn’t turn Kyle’s head or “deliberately target” him. Kyle can’t keep his dick in his pants. I can well imagine the number of women he has cheated on his wife with being in the triple figures. The OW is one of many. Are they all to blame too? None of these women owe his wife anything. The only difference is that the OW happened to fall pregnant.

Let’s not forget she claimed to be “infertile”. He’s of course to blame for cheating yes but Lauryn Goodman has unleashed a four year campaign of harassment and hate against that family. She’s continually
baited Annie despite shagging her husband, knowing she has three kids. Kyle made it clear he couldn’t be involved with her kid and was trying to rebuild his family yet Goodman deliberately
continued to harass them. Don’t you recall the puma incident where she started a petition because Kyle had his and Annie’s children’s names on his boots?!

InAMess2023 · 18/01/2024 18:15

@Beezknees completely and utterly different circumstances. One had kids with a man she'd been with for years, a natural product of a long term relationship.

One had kids to secure cold hard cash (note by the way her kid running around in the cheapest football boots going while she spends on designer for herself). She's been trying to bag a footballer her entire life, anyone would have done. The fact she asked him to pay off her pre existing debt shows you exactly what she's like.

I can see we're never going to agree on this but you carry on supporting 🤦🏼‍♀️

Vivi0 · 18/01/2024 18:13

InAMess2023 · 18/01/2024 18:02

@Beezknees well fucking good for you. However I swore I'd never let a man treat me badly yet I put up with cheating and all forms of abuse for years because it was all I ever knew, because I felt it was all that I would get in life but mostly because regardless I STILL LOVED HIM. And he wasn't even rich.

Absolutely baffled why anyone is blaming her trying to secure a better future for herself and the kids by marrying him. It's KW and LG to blame here

It's KW and LG to blame here

You’re wrong. It’s Kyle that’s to blame here. The OW didn’t turn Kyle’s head or “deliberately target” him. Kyle can’t keep his dick in his pants. I can well imagine the number of women he has cheated on his wife with being in the triple figures. The OW is one of many. Are they all to blame too? None of these women owe his wife anything. The only difference is that the OW happened to fall pregnant.

nameychangerrrrrr · 18/01/2024 18:13

Kyle Walker is a disgusting cheating scumbag who doesn’t give a shit about his kids. I hope Annie takes him to the cleaners and moves on. Smart woman getting married after his previous incidents.

Lauryn Goodman is a convicted benefit fraudster and gold digging narcissist.

Beezknees · 18/01/2024 18:07

InAMess2023 · 18/01/2024 18:02

@Beezknees well fucking good for you. However I swore I'd never let a man treat me badly yet I put up with cheating and all forms of abuse for years because it was all I ever knew, because I felt it was all that I would get in life but mostly because regardless I STILL LOVED HIM. And he wasn't even rich.

Absolutely baffled why anyone is blaming her trying to secure a better future for herself and the kids by marrying him. It's KW and LG to blame here

I'm not blaming her trying to secure a better financial future. I'm just saying I think the whole "childhood sweetheart, true love" thing is a load of crap. I don't respect a woman who is happy to let her husband treat women and his own children like crap any more than I respect a woman who sleeps with a married man or a bloke who has the morals of an alley cat. Also it's double standards to then moan about Lauryn trying to secure a financial future for her kids too. Kyle willingly shagged both of them and he's going to pay dearly for it, serves him bloody right too.

InAMess2023 · 18/01/2024 18:04

Also publicly supporting someone who thinks a quick bunk up = payment of a lifetime of debts and a nanny until the age of 21 🤢 wow

InAMess2023 · 18/01/2024 18:02

@Beezknees well fucking good for you. However I swore I'd never let a man treat me badly yet I put up with cheating and all forms of abuse for years because it was all I ever knew, because I felt it was all that I would get in life but mostly because regardless I STILL LOVED HIM. And he wasn't even rich.

Absolutely baffled why anyone is blaming her trying to secure a better future for herself and the kids by marrying him. It's KW and LG to blame here

Beezknees · 18/01/2024 17:46

InAMess2023 · 18/01/2024 17:39

@Beezknees they met when still at school. Long before he was even able to sign a professional contract and long before there was any guarantee that he'd go on to any success. Stop pulling 'facts' out of your arse and trying to make out his wife is some sort of gold digger. Unless you've been in that exact circumstance then you've no idea how you would react

And I do know exactly how I'd react, I was in a relationship which turned abusive and I left with my child to live in a hostel rather than put up with that crap.

Beezknees · 18/01/2024 17:45

InAMess2023 · 18/01/2024 17:39

@Beezknees they met when still at school. Long before he was even able to sign a professional contract and long before there was any guarantee that he'd go on to any success. Stop pulling 'facts' out of your arse and trying to make out his wife is some sort of gold digger. Unless you've been in that exact circumstance then you've no idea how you would react

Yeah, yeah. He's been playing academy football since he was a young child, it's clear by the teen years how someone's career is going to go. It's a public forum, and my opinion is that his wife isn't a good person either.

Vivi0 · 18/01/2024 17:42

LadyBird1973 · 18/01/2024 17:27

I think marrying your childhood sweetheart is probably more about love than marrying a well established footballer who already has a reputation.

Spare me the “childhood sweetheart” crap. He was a footballer when they met.

Are you telling me that you really believe that marrying your boyfriend and father of your children who you know regularly sleeps with escorts and has fathered a child with another woman, is about love?

She married him to secure her future. Or “monetised” it, if you will. I don’t have a problem that she will take him for everything that she can in the divorce. Nor do I have a problem with the OW asking for a nanny and for him to clear her debts. If Kyle doesn’t like it, maybe he shouldn’t have got married and maybe he should have used a condom, or better yet, not cheated prolifically on his wife.

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes!

InAMess2023 · 18/01/2024 17:39

@Beezknees they met when still at school. Long before he was even able to sign a professional contract and long before there was any guarantee that he'd go on to any success. Stop pulling 'facts' out of your arse and trying to make out his wife is some sort of gold digger. Unless you've been in that exact circumstance then you've no idea how you would react

Beezknees · 18/01/2024 17:30

LadyBird1973 · 18/01/2024 17:27

I think marrying your childhood sweetheart is probably more about love than marrying a well established footballer who already has a reputation.

He was well off and already playing for England when they met, he's 3 years older than her. He wasn't sweeping streets for a living.

LadyBird1973 · 18/01/2024 17:27

I think marrying your childhood sweetheart is probably more about love than marrying a well established footballer who already has a reputation.

Beezknees · 18/01/2024 17:25

Vivi0 · 18/01/2024 17:20

I think the other children's situation is different in that they aren't being directly monetised in order to provide income for their mother.

That is an entirely subjective viewpoint.

I’m sure after she had her first child, Kyle’s wife wasn’t losing sleep over her future if she and Kyle broke up.

If they had split then, her income would have been solely from child maintenance too - the same as the OW.

As has been said on this thread, she was really smart to marry him when she did to ensure that she did not simply walk away from the relationship with child maintenance only.

The marriage was strategic in order to secure more income from Kyle than child support. By your logic, that would be morally reprehensible too, right?

Edited

Yep. No reason to believe Kyle's wife wasn't only after his money either. That's the reason most of these women date footballers, after all. I highly doubt there are many cases of "true love" in these scenarios.

Vivi0 · 18/01/2024 17:24

whatsitcalledwhen · 18/01/2024 17:14

Bad enough to be put up for adoption though?

As someone adopted, who is familiar with the system, it's absolutely not an appropriate or proportionate suggestion based on the circumstances we know.

It’s the most ridiculous thing I’ve read on Mumsnet in a long time.

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