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Kyle Walker

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Hocuspocusnonsense · 13/01/2024 14:10

Much as I try to advice this kind of ‘news’ it is everywhere atm.

Anyone else reading this news and thinking if he wasn’t a footballer he’d just be a waste of space cock lodger?

I continue to be amazed at what women will tolerate for the sake of money or in the pursuit of fame.

Basically he fathered a child with another woman whilst being married. His wife stood by him. He publicly declared OW was nothing to him. He’s now admitted he’s the father of the OW’s second child. His wife has kicked him out but I wouldn’t be surprised if she takes him back and it seems the OW is doing the pick me dance.

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Mywhoopdeedoo · 14/01/2024 18:46

Posting ‘this will be a memorable Christmas … for everyone’ knowing full well you’re going to destroy his wife is such a spiteful thing to do.
And there are no words for what an utter disgrace he is

InAMess2023 · 14/01/2024 18:46

All credibility for her wanting his money to support the kids went out of the window when she asked for a £1500 LV nappy bag, £1200 fendi changing bag and £1500 a month for beauty treatments before their first child was even born! She claimed she needed a nanny because she was too debilitated by her endometriosis to get out of bed for a week... that same week the judge caught her out shopping every day and she spent £17k! So more than twice the months maintenance in a week!

(by the way she now pays her mother £2k a month to look after them while she sits on her burner photos all day)

InAMess2023 · 14/01/2024 18:42

@whatsitcalledwhen oh I know and he's a million percent in the wrong but the way she lied about being infertile (which I am and it is due to endometriosis so maybe made me more angry than most) and then has tried to make out like she's some sort of victim in all of this is disgusting.

Saying she had to tell his wife well there shouldn't be anything to have to tell her! And claiming he was living a double life... I'm no expert but I'd imagine it's pretty hard to do when you're a nobody let alone a famous footballer who I'm sure would have been spotted if he was spending half his time in Brighton rather than at training etc

LadyBird1973 · 14/01/2024 18:40

@Beezknees fair enough about the house, if it's in his name.

whatsitcalledwhen · 14/01/2024 18:39

InAMess2023 · 14/01/2024 18:28

@Anjea she's a nasty, vindictive, greedy, lying SKANK. I have no qualms about calling her what she is when she knowingly set out to get pregnant by a married man. You clearly don't know much about her at all if you think she's anything but

@Beezknees she told him she was infertile. I agree he should still have worn a condom given her reputation but he's not the brightest is he. She makes a mockery of people who have genuine endometriosis and fertility problems. The judge caught her out lying on that one too

Then when he found out she wasn't infertile and was a liar, he had unprotected sex with her again and she got pregnant again. This time when he wasn't on a break with his wife.

He knew full well she could get pregnant. He just didn't give a shit enough to not shag her.

LadyBird1973 · 14/01/2024 18:37

Children aren't commodities to be used to make their parents richer. And that what is happening here when an ow is demanding way more money than it actually costs to support the dc. It's about propping up her lifestyle. If that behaviour gets rewarded, more of these trashy people will continue to have children for financial gain. And that's just rubbish for the kids. I'm not feeling sorry for KW and I certainly think he ought to be forced to make long term provision for his children. I just don't think the ow should be benefitting.
Yes, she's a single mum and he's not going to help raise those children but she knew that when she had the second. I don't think he owes her a better lifestyle than she could provide for herself without him.

Wives are different to ow - marriage still means something legally, and it commits each person to rights and responsibilities.

Beezknees · 14/01/2024 18:30

InAMess2023 · 14/01/2024 18:28

@Anjea she's a nasty, vindictive, greedy, lying SKANK. I have no qualms about calling her what she is when she knowingly set out to get pregnant by a married man. You clearly don't know much about her at all if you think she's anything but

@Beezknees she told him she was infertile. I agree he should still have worn a condom given her reputation but he's not the brightest is he. She makes a mockery of people who have genuine endometriosis and fertility problems. The judge caught her out lying on that one too

And then he went and had sex with her and got her pregnant a second time. I have no sympathy for any of the adults involved.

Beezknees · 14/01/2024 18:29

LadyBird1973 · 14/01/2024 18:20

I'm not saying he should pay absolute minimum child support - of course not. But I don't think he should be buying the ow an expensive house or new cars or settling her previous debts or any of the other stuff she wants to offload onto him. I think he should pay what it costs to support his kids decently, but that doesn't mean he should be forced to give the ow thousands of pounds per week because that's not for the kids benefit. Id willingly see him have to put money in trust for their education and futures etc, but not just hand over wads of cash to the kind of woman who would have children with a man purely to monetise them!

The house isn't for her, it's in his name for the children to live in with her until they're adults. Then she'll have to move out. I agree regarding settling her debts, that's her responsibility.

InAMess2023 · 14/01/2024 18:28

@Anjea she's a nasty, vindictive, greedy, lying SKANK. I have no qualms about calling her what she is when she knowingly set out to get pregnant by a married man. You clearly don't know much about her at all if you think she's anything but

@Beezknees she told him she was infertile. I agree he should still have worn a condom given her reputation but he's not the brightest is he. She makes a mockery of people who have genuine endometriosis and fertility problems. The judge caught her out lying on that one too

LadyBird1973 · 14/01/2024 18:20

I'm not saying he should pay absolute minimum child support - of course not. But I don't think he should be buying the ow an expensive house or new cars or settling her previous debts or any of the other stuff she wants to offload onto him. I think he should pay what it costs to support his kids decently, but that doesn't mean he should be forced to give the ow thousands of pounds per week because that's not for the kids benefit. Id willingly see him have to put money in trust for their education and futures etc, but not just hand over wads of cash to the kind of woman who would have children with a man purely to monetise them!

StaunchMomma · 14/01/2024 18:19

He's on 9 mill a year. I hope she rinses him real hard.

We could all judge his wife for staying with him after the vids of him flobbing his chode out in Wetherspoons last year but WE DON'T HAVE KIDS WITH HIM! Is it really that hard to imagine why a woman wouldn't flippantly break up her family when she has little ones?

I hope his wife moves on to a much happier life BUT I find it really sad that you're so judgmental of her, seeing as HE is the massive twat in the scenario.

TypicalCoach · 14/01/2024 18:17

Beezknees · 14/01/2024 18:14

Well you should do, since it's sexist and misogynistic. Slag off her actions by all means but we really need to move on from that kind of talk. We're in 2024.

Thanks for telling us the year like it makes a single difference

Beezknees · 14/01/2024 18:14

OhmygodDont · 14/01/2024 18:12

I feel no harm over someone calling a knowing other women a skank tbh. She’s famous for shagging a married man well done 😂

All she’s ever wanted was to be a rich women who doesn’t have to work. Her sister bagged. A footballer she bagged being a wankers side piece with a wife.

Well you should do, since it's sexist and misogynistic. Slag off her actions by all means but we really need to move on from that kind of talk. We're in 2024.

OhmygodDont · 14/01/2024 18:12

I feel no harm over someone calling a knowing other women a skank tbh. She’s famous for shagging a married man well done 😂

All she’s ever wanted was to be a rich women who doesn’t have to work. Her sister bagged. A footballer she bagged being a wankers side piece with a wife.

Vivi0 · 14/01/2024 18:12

LadyBird1973 · 14/01/2024 17:37

Personally I think any woman has a right to 'bellyache' about her husband cheating, regardless of what he does for a living or how much money the wife has at her disposal!

I think what's particularly distasteful is an ow getting pregnant purely to secure access to a rich man's money. To treat her own baby as a meal ticket is more grotesque than the cheating imo.
And that's why I believe the only way to stop a certain kind of woman from doing this is to not make it financially rewarding for her. The man should have to pay what it really costs to support his children and I'm all for having money put aside in trust for when the kids go to university or need a house deposit, but not buying the one a massive house and paying for her to live a luxury lifestyle. She should be on the hook for her own 50% of the cost of raising the baby.

What a strange position to take.

You feel that a man, who is amongst the highest earning in the world, is being hard done by because he is paying child maintenance at a significantly lower rate in proportion to his earnings than any other person who pays child maintenance in the U.K.. Utterly bizarre!

Beezknees · 14/01/2024 18:09

InAMess2023 · 14/01/2024 18:03

@Anjea you're just believing the other woman when she said Annie wouldn't allow him to see the child, it's in the court papers in his words that he wanted nothing to do with him he made that clear from day 1. No not the child's fault but she chose to keep the baby when Kyle made it clear she would be doing it alone.

Also '3 is the magic number' referred to the fact that Man City had just won the third of their treble of trophies, nothing to do with the number of kids despite what skank Goodman would have people believe

Maybe, just maybe, if he didn't want a child with her he should've put a condom on. A shocking concept to some men.

Anjea · 14/01/2024 18:08

InAMess2023 · 14/01/2024 18:03

@Anjea you're just believing the other woman when she said Annie wouldn't allow him to see the child, it's in the court papers in his words that he wanted nothing to do with him he made that clear from day 1. No not the child's fault but she chose to keep the baby when Kyle made it clear she would be doing it alone.

Also '3 is the magic number' referred to the fact that Man City had just won the third of their treble of trophies, nothing to do with the number of kids despite what skank Goodman would have people believe

Nah. She knew what she was doing with the 3 is the magic number.

I'm not a fan of Lauren, if no idea who she was if it wasn't for this but I'd never call another woman a skank.

Beezknees · 14/01/2024 18:06

LadyBird1973 · 14/01/2024 17:37

Personally I think any woman has a right to 'bellyache' about her husband cheating, regardless of what he does for a living or how much money the wife has at her disposal!

I think what's particularly distasteful is an ow getting pregnant purely to secure access to a rich man's money. To treat her own baby as a meal ticket is more grotesque than the cheating imo.
And that's why I believe the only way to stop a certain kind of woman from doing this is to not make it financially rewarding for her. The man should have to pay what it really costs to support his children and I'm all for having money put aside in trust for when the kids go to university or need a house deposit, but not buying the one a massive house and paying for her to live a luxury lifestyle. She should be on the hook for her own 50% of the cost of raising the baby.

To be fair you could say the same thing about his wife.

InAMess2023 · 14/01/2024 18:03

@Anjea you're just believing the other woman when she said Annie wouldn't allow him to see the child, it's in the court papers in his words that he wanted nothing to do with him he made that clear from day 1. No not the child's fault but she chose to keep the baby when Kyle made it clear she would be doing it alone.

Also '3 is the magic number' referred to the fact that Man City had just won the third of their treble of trophies, nothing to do with the number of kids despite what skank Goodman would have people believe

Vivi0 · 14/01/2024 18:01

LadyBird1973 · 14/01/2024 17:37

Personally I think any woman has a right to 'bellyache' about her husband cheating, regardless of what he does for a living or how much money the wife has at her disposal!

I think what's particularly distasteful is an ow getting pregnant purely to secure access to a rich man's money. To treat her own baby as a meal ticket is more grotesque than the cheating imo.
And that's why I believe the only way to stop a certain kind of woman from doing this is to not make it financially rewarding for her. The man should have to pay what it really costs to support his children and I'm all for having money put aside in trust for when the kids go to university or need a house deposit, but not buying the one a massive house and paying for her to live a luxury lifestyle. She should be on the hook for her own 50% of the cost of raising the baby.

You think the OW is worse than Kyle Walker because she is legally pursuing him for child support?

She didn’t get herself pregnant you know. No one forced Kyle to have unprotected sex with her regularly enough to produce two children.

She should be on the hook for her own 50% of the cost of raising the baby.

Well, a Judge didn’t agree with that. Kyle earns £700,000 a month. He doesn’t want to share any care for his children. The Judge decided that in fact, he does require to pay more than 50% of the bare costs of raising a child.

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 14/01/2024 18:00

I feel sorry for the wife but mainly the kids in the middle of it all

lovelymango · 14/01/2024 17:59

Gowlett · 13/01/2024 17:46

Only married 2 years (together since teens) so that means he was back in the sack with OW within 6 months of wedding…

I worked with a guy who told me he wanted sex with me. I found out later he had got married two weeks before. Men can be bastards unfortunately

Anjea · 14/01/2024 17:54

None of them look good. I'm sure that I read that Annie said she would only get back with him after they split, and the first baby was conceived if he never saw it didn't she? If so that's awful. It's a child. Then she did that 3 is the magic number post bragging about them making memories with their daddy.

It's all pretty grim.

Dacadactyl · 14/01/2024 17:54

Of course Annie would've been angling to marry him after he cheated. She's no fool. Marriage isn't about love, it's about security. Security she has none of if she's just a "partner".

I'd have been promising him the earth to get him down the aisle after he cheated...just so I could rinse him blind in a divorce.

InAMess2023 · 14/01/2024 17:52

@LadyBird1973 she'd have a job tho when she only made £300 in a year as an 'influencer'. Not sure how many people would want to employ a convicted benefit cheat with questionable moral standing! Eek😬