I saw the doctor today for mental health problems and all they seemed concerned about was putting me on contraception (have a newborn and 3 year old) namely the mirena coil as she said you only need to have periods if you want to get pregnant, otherwise get rid of them. I told her I didn’t want anything at the moment as we haven’t decided our family is complete yet and may want a third child (took a long time TTC DC1 after the pill so didn’t have hormonal contraception between the 2 children), at which point she said (and completely seriously not as a joke) “what would you want to do that for” when I didn’t answer as I was in shock she said “more children would just be more inconvenience wouldn’t it”. I can’t believe she said that, especially as it was infront of my 3 year old who understands a lot. I did not link my mental health to having children and just can’t believe this happened today.