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Swimming lessons

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Flowerpowerr1 · 04/01/2024 20:34

My 4.5 year old started swimming lessons beginning of September, he really enjoyed it at first then after a while he started to dislike it because he didn’t like wearing the goggles and he didn’t enjoy learning to swim after a few months I had to keep nagging and persuading him to go. He started to hate his lessons and even cried a lot of times but I still persevered as I wanted him to learn.
In the end I decided it was not for him and I could no longer force him, I paid for the Autumn term till Xmas 23. He only went to 2 lessons and didn’t go for the rest of the term as I couldn’t get him to go.
So I get a invoice from his swimming company saying I need to pay for the next term, and I obviously haven’t paid because I didn’t intend on continuing and I said I want to cancel it because my son hasn’t been enjoying it (they know this too) because they’ve helped me get him in the pool.
They then told me I needed to give them a 4 week notice to cancel so I need to forward them £52 or DS can continue coming in for 4 more weeks! Although he can’t because he’s frightened and doesn’t want to swim!
I didn’t know about the 4 week notice as it’s not even a direct debit you just send money to their account.
I can’t be sending someone money for no reason in a cost of living crisis!
I’ve already wasted so much money with the previous term where he didn’t go in.
AMIBU??

OP posts:
TheWalkingDeadly · 04/01/2024 20:48

When does the £52 take you till?
It may have been you needed to let them know before the term start or week before

Youcancallmeirrelevant · 04/01/2024 20:48

YABU, were you not even going to tell them he was no longer attending?! It was on you to check, i suppose it depends whether they sent you their T&C's which says the 4 week notice period or not (whether you read it or not doesn't matter)

TheWalkingDeadly · 04/01/2024 20:46

You needed to check. And could have let them know if he only went to 2 youce had plenty of time.
They will not have been able to get another child booked in.
Take him yourself a few times or wear goggles in bath or shower.
However he is stilo pretty young

Flowerpowerr1 · 04/01/2024 20:44

I don’t think this something they will allow ?

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Flowerpowerr1 · 04/01/2024 20:44

I never knew this though otherwise I would have.
No I never signed anything, when DS started I just got email of a few details, invoice and terms times that’s all.
They could’ve made it more clear at the start

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Scrantonicity2 · 04/01/2024 20:41

Do you know anyone who wants to take the place for a few weeks who could share the cost?

Scrantonicity2 · 04/01/2024 20:39

If you need to give a 4 week notice then that's what you need to do. They won't know if you wanted to cancel or just couldn't come for a bit.
Did you sign a contract or Ts and Cs?

MerCatsSpawScience · 04/01/2024 20:37

Sorry OP, whilst its frustrating paying for something you aren't using, I think you are being unreasonable.
Most classes have a notice period, and it's always worth checking these things to cancel. I don't really know any classes or organisations that don't have a notice period so would be surprised if you didn't agree to one when you signed up.

I say this as someone who also has a child who hates swimming lessons, so I do sympathise.

ShoePalaver · 04/01/2024 20:37

You probably need to check if you received any contract or terms and conditions to see if a notice period is required. £12.50 a lesson seems very steep though!

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