I have been in the kitchen all day making dinner that I have just eaten with DH. He had finished his dinner first and was about to scrape out his plate and put it in the sink, however I normally do this for him because I’m quite particular with how I like the dishes put in the sink and he doesn’t scrape his plate out the way I like. I told him it was okay and to leave it, saying I’d do it, and his reply was ‘oh okay are you gonna finish it?’ As in, am I going to eat his scraps of meat and little pieces of leftover Yorkshire puddings (when I was still eating my own food). I just wondered whether I’m being over sensitive or whether this comment would upset others? It makes me feel like a fat pig tbh. And just for context recently he has made little ‘lighthearted’ comments about me going through a pack of biscuits quickly and stuff like that.