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Rick Astley

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idontlikealdi · 31/12/2023 23:37

Personally I think he's great and he's clearly living his best life but the demographic of the crowd. Middle aged white men and women. The lack of diversity is quite shocking.

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iklboo · 01/01/2024 20:37

Ah, you are perhaps thinking of Vino Veritas. I am stone cold sober. I do not need to be drunk to speak my truth at how sad I am to see what is happening to my country. However, you are boring me now so I will leave you. I am off to read Enoch Powell's Rivers of Blood speech.

I hope there's a grown up to help you with the big words.

CliveinRyde · 01/01/2024 19:50

You're entitled to your opinion but why "bloody awful"? I am usually first one to drag poor performances, but think theirs was v well matched.. ?
But we can agree to differ, not like this stupid stupid race argument (and my partner is black; don't need silly billies putting their so so counterproductive oars in, when there's real racism going on.. in my head original poster is 14 year old middle class girl maybe studying social sciences at school, commenting on something that in actuality she knows absolutely nothing about personally..

allmyliesaretrue · 01/01/2024 19:01

KarenNotAKaren · 01/01/2024 01:03

When I saw him (actually saw him in 2016 too when I was pregnant, didn’t realise and drunk myself into a stupor Blush) he was even very kind and gracious to the alarming number of women chucking their knickers to him on the stage.

Bon Jovi - another great performer with incredible audience interaction.

Beyonce, Lady Gaga, Jess Glynn, Bruno Mars - all of them boring and self indulgent performers. Lady Gaga has a great voice but boy does she love the sound of it talking

Saw Bon Jovi over 30 years ago at Wembley. Amazing!!

Last year seemed to be the year of the concert oldies for us - seeing all the ancients we missed in our youth! Lionel Richie, Human League, Tom Jones, Sting, Blondie - all so good, and put on an excellent show! I don't think Sting has aged at all...!

I was never a Rick Astley fan but I was impressed last night (though that might have been the G&Ts and the Baileys as well 😂)

newnamethanks · 01/01/2024 17:56

Come on Rishi, find Cruella a job, she's snaking around on spreading 'her truth' on MN as she's bored without a job. Take her back. She can job share with Cleverly. She can do xenophobia and he can handle the misogyny brief. A match made in heaven.

Startingagainandagain · 01/01/2024 17:40

Whatever happened to common sense?

It seems people these days have nothing better than to find a reason, any reason. to be offended...

This is simply the demographic who is interested in seeing him perform.

It makes sense that he attracts middle-aged people who remember him from their youth and are after some nostalgia, ie a very limited audience.

What will you be offended by next?

Will you get offended if you see a majority of teenage girls & women at a One Direction reunion concert and complain that there should be more teenage boys and middle-aged men there? RA is has never been a cool entertainer or a great song writer/singer. His music is bland, manufactured pop. Although of course he come across as a nice, charming guy.

Will you get offended if you see lots of gay men at a Kylie concert because you think there should be more straight people in the audience?

Will you get offended if you see a Norwegian death metal concert with a lot of young people with tattoos and long hair in the audience and complain that there should more pensioners wearing tuxedos and buzz cuts?

Will you get offended if you see a majority of black teens at a Grime concert because you think there should be more white middle aged opera lovers there?

Frankly I would say most black people will have better musical taste and won't want to fangirl over Rick Astley...

LoreleiG · 01/01/2024 17:36

spanishviola · 01/01/2024 12:00

I don’t get Rick Astley. I never heard of his stuff in the 80s and thought he was dire last night. If he was always that bad I’m surprised he’s got anyone in the audience.

Lol. Isn’t the point of late 80s pop that it is so band it is good?

Loved Rick, have seen him live twice (recently) and glad he is living his best life. My kids love him too.

43ontherocksporfavor · 01/01/2024 17:21

He was great. Wasn’t even thinking about diversity but he is a white middle aged guy so what did you expect???

12menandtrue · 01/01/2024 17:18

Ah, you are perhaps thinking of Vino Veritas. I am stone cold sober. I do not need to be drunk to speak my truth at how sad I am to see what is happening to my country. However, you are boring me now so I will leave you. I am off to read Enoch Powell's Rivers of Blood speech.

NoMoreFalafelsForYou · 01/01/2024 16:23

12menandtrue
😂
It's January 1st, maybe a good challenge for you would be Dry January as it sounds like you could do with stepping away from the drink 😁

ShelleyCarpenter · 01/01/2024 16:14

baileybrosbuildingandloan · 01/01/2024 13:54

I'm the first to advocate for diversity and representation but the audience for a live performance just doesn't come under that umbrella.

And as a PP said, what have you got against middle aged white people? We're not all bigots, you know.

Personally, I loved the interaction between the religious, straight, middle aged Rick Astley and Rylan Clark. In our household we thought it was great representation of interaction between two very different men who were performing.

Diversity is about a lot more than race and age.

Loved seeing Rylan there!

12menandtrue · 01/01/2024 16:04

Bye sweetie. Nigel Farage for Prime Minister.

newnamethanks · 01/01/2024 16:01

Yes I know. I guessed, bye.

12menandtrue · 01/01/2024 15:59

And I would do that gladly along with all the other posters who thanked me for my post.

newnamethanks · 01/01/2024 15:57

Hello @12menandtrue. You are in the wrong place. Kindly go away and take your poisonous opinions with you. Nigel Farage is just over there with his mate Yaxley Lennon. They'll be glad to embrace you.

12menandtrue · 01/01/2024 15:51

The basis was that I am sick of apologizing for being white.

12menandtrue · 01/01/2024 15:50

They are scared of the truth of what a great deal of people really think.

NoMoreFalafelsForYou · 01/01/2024 15:44

Didn't take Mumsnet long to delete my post. What wrong Mumsnet. Are you racially prejudiced or is it because I is white
🤣 Didn't see what you wrote to be deleted but "is it because I is white" says it was most probably deserved 🙄😂

12menandtrue · 01/01/2024 15:42

Didn't take Mumsnet long to delete my post. What wrong Mumsnet. Are you racially prejudiced or is it because I is white.

baileybrosbuildingandloan · 01/01/2024 13:58

@TheThingIsYeah
BBC productions have tickets that are available for people like any other show. They don't just fill the audience up with their families!

baileybrosbuildingandloan · 01/01/2024 13:54

I'm the first to advocate for diversity and representation but the audience for a live performance just doesn't come under that umbrella.

And as a PP said, what have you got against middle aged white people? We're not all bigots, you know.

Personally, I loved the interaction between the religious, straight, middle aged Rick Astley and Rylan Clark. In our household we thought it was great representation of interaction between two very different men who were performing.

Diversity is about a lot more than race and age.

newnamethanks · 01/01/2024 13:34

Shocked OP? Be careful not to accept a ticket to a Cliff Richard concert. Or how about a Jim Davidson comedy night? Horses for courses.

iklboo · 01/01/2024 13:26

Personally I think he's great and he's clearly living his best life but the demographic of the crowd. Middle aged white men and women. The lack of diversity is quite shocking.

How do you propose increased diversity? Forcibly Rick Roll people á la Clockwork Orange?

PeterWaylander · 01/01/2024 13:12

I just enjoyed the show not sat there checking the demographic of the audience.Im sure there are concerts with mostly ethnic minority audiences get a life.

NoWordForFluffy · 01/01/2024 13:06

Although the kids that managed to stay up were all besides themselves that the first thing to happen to them in 2024 was being rick rolled.

Our DD (10) was tickled pink at how many people were Rick Rolled by him! Xmas Grin

Hadjab · 01/01/2024 12:55

idontlikealdi · 31/12/2023 23:37

Personally I think he's great and he's clearly living his best life but the demographic of the crowd. Middle aged white men and women. The lack of diversity is quite shocking.

As a non-white person, I’m fairly confident that within my circle of both white and non-white friends, very few of them are into Rick Astley, certainly not enough to pay money to see him. I, however, would have given an arm and a leg to have seen him at Glastonbury. I’ve loved him since 1987, but have never got around to catching him live.

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