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Moonshine5 · 28/12/2023 10:12

Mumsnet was always a safe space to me, a community of women for women and recently I have noticed an influx of husbands on here.
Can't women have anything just for themselves?I t's getting on my nerves!
(I'm not talking about same sex marriage / partners and I believe in equality).

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JamSandle · 28/12/2023 10:17

People can post where they like. Policing the Internet is silly.

betterangels · 28/12/2023 10:16

Nowhere on the Internet is a safe space.

Iwishiwasasilentnight · 28/12/2023 10:16

I like the idea of me seeking out advice about parenting and general mental load. Women as whole want men to equally pull their weight and good for them for taking the initiative to do something about an area where they lack knowledge or want advice.

Tiffanysepiphany · 28/12/2023 10:16

Well they sometimes need educating too I guess

BarneyMcBugle · 28/12/2023 10:16

It's not the men who annoy me.

It's men (and women) who think they're on reddit.

Copy pasting OPs from reddit is the worst.

nutster · 28/12/2023 10:15

“safe space”?

have you read some of the threads on this site?!

nutster · 28/12/2023 10:15

d I believe in equality

well that’s good of you! 😂

MabelMoo23 · 28/12/2023 10:14

WTF there are lots of different topics on Mumsnet that are applicable to either sex.

My husband might google something to do with our daughters - and it directs him here - should he not look because he has a penis?

nutster · 28/12/2023 10:14

teeny teeny tiny minority

just ignore and move on

but the idea of campaigning against men from posting on the site simply on the grounds of fact they are a man is pretty abhorrent to me.

Spend 3 mins perusing some of the chats and you will see that someone’s unpleasantness is not linked to their sex