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spaceandstar · 2023-12-16T03:42:47+00:00

I mean, what's the standard amount of pints a man has when they go for drinks? DP drank on an empty stomach, 7 pints and is now throwing up for the past 2 hours (making noises that mean I can't for the life of my sleep). To be honest, I'm emetophobic so I just want the clarity that that amount of alcohol *makes sense* to end up throwing up and that it is not likely to be some sort of contagious virus.

MissBuffyAnneSummers · 16/12/2023 08:40

That's a weeks worth of alcohol in one night so yes excessive

PaperDoIIs · 16/12/2023 08:39

He hasn't worked out by his age that binge drinking might make him sick? My teen knows his limits.

It doesn't always work that way. I got sick twice in the past 20 years, and both times I drunk within what I knew to be my limits. For some reason those two times(this year and 5 years ago) it just hit me funny. Possibly eating too much/quickly beforehand.

Flamingogirl08 · 16/12/2023 08:39

People are so crazy, selfish arsehole for having 7 pints on a Christmas night out when he hasn't been out drinking all year? Hilarious!

He enjoyed himself, he will pay for it today. No big deal.

AvengedQuince · 16/12/2023 08:36

@Peacheroo DS knows his limits because he has drunk too much before. As did I, it's what you do in your teens or early twenties, I don't believe anyone hasn't figured it out by 25.

Peacheroo · 16/12/2023 08:31

@AvengedQuince lol. I'm sure he does. But at some point, he will be throwing his guts up while his wife sighs. It happens to the best of us. We all know until we don't know or there is a change. We have all misjudged at some point, even if it's just to embarrass ourselves and no vomit.

Pipistrellus · 16/12/2023 08:29

User2856948 · 16/12/2023 07:57

It is if you don't drink much but if you are regularly knocking back pints it's not.

Binge drinking is harmful whether or not you are used to it.

AvengedQuince · 16/12/2023 08:26

PaperDoIIs · 16/12/2023 07:55

Yes he has. He's deliberately drunk 7 pints of beer. It's not an accident.

What he didn't do though is deliberately drink it knowing he'll be sick and worry his wife.

He hasn't worked out by his age that binge drinking might make him sick? My teen knows his limits.

Missingmyusername · 16/12/2023 08:05

Oh gosh your DH is a raging alcoholic LTB- 😆

7 pints?! 🤣🤣🤣🤣no it’s not a lot. Ever dated a rugby player?! lol

As you’ve said he doesn’t drink and drank on empty stomach. Hence vomit.

GaryLurcher19 · 16/12/2023 08:02

geckofrog · 16/12/2023 07:12

I agree. It's over the recommended daily limit

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Indeed, you should take 2 weeks to drink it. Of course it'll go a bit flat and the landlord will eventually kick you out. 😉

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spaceandstar · 16/12/2023 08:02

@Peacheroo I made him go and sleep downstairs - think he fell asleep a few hours ago.

I'm alright now. Definitely reassured that it is 10000% his stupidity and not a possibility for a lingering bug which was my only panic.

He definitely was a huge dumbass testing his limits because he has work and Christmas shopping to get done today so if being sick all night didn't teach him, I imagine the rest of today will!

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Peacheroo · 16/12/2023 08:00

PaperDoIIs · 16/12/2023 07:55

Yes he has. He's deliberately drunk 7 pints of beer. It's not an accident.

What he didn't do though is deliberately drink it knowing he'll be sick and worry his wife.

I'll bet money that he didn't know he was going to be sick...

User2856948 · 16/12/2023 08:00

I would probably be sick after two pints but it doesn't take much with me, alcohol does tend to upset my stomach

Peacheroo · 16/12/2023 07:59

spaceandstar · 16/12/2023 07:57

@Peacheroo 100%. First time this year he's actually been out for a few drinks, very non habitual for him!

Bless him. How is he this morning? And how are you after hearing it all?

Azandme · 16/12/2023 07:58

Peacheroo · 16/12/2023 07:38

Why do people call people in this situation selfish arseholes? He clearly hasn't done it on purpose. He doesn't even usually drink by all accounts.

On an empty stomach, it's always a delayed reaction. You think you're fine then boom, you're not. A few weeks back we went out, had no food in and it was too late to order a takeaway. I only ate some toast. The next day my stomach was in absolute pieces.

Last night I had 4 doubles and a can of peroni but was fine (a lovely warm fuzzy drunk) as I'd eaten. Another time I've had 7/8 doubles and been as sick as OPs husband thinking I have a bug. Never have I been berated by my partner, angel among men, who leaves me to it as he knows I'm mortified and passes me water every now and then. It's not a regular occurrence by any means (5 times in our 17 years) but each time I love him a little more. If he called me a selfish arsehole I'd be gone.

I agree. Noone deliberately drunks enough to vomit. And anyone who claims to have never made an error of judgement whilst sober is a liar, so it's not surprising people make them whilst drinking. It doesn't sound like OP's DH has done this before, so I'd cut him some slack. It was a mistake. If he continues doing it, THEN he becomes a self arsehole.

Is it also selfish of an emetophobe to impact their family, if they haven't sought treatment?

My SIL has emetophobia. When her children are ill she moves out and my MIL moves in - the kids want their mummy but she won't stay in case they vom. She won't allow them to go on rides, and theme parks are off limits, in case they vom. She says no to them trying any foods she considers "different", in case they vom.

She's never sought treatment, she just allows it limit her children's lives. I think she is a selfish arsehole.

Treatment doesn't always work. But it's definitely selfish to not try it and expect everyone else to just adapt around it.

Obvs OP may have tried all sorts. But if not, it would be a good idea.

User2856948 · 16/12/2023 07:57

It is if you don't drink much but if you are regularly knocking back pints it's not.

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spaceandstar · 16/12/2023 07:57

@Peacheroo 100%. First time this year he's actually been out for a few drinks, very non habitual for him!

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PaperDoIIs · 16/12/2023 07:55

Yes he has. He's deliberately drunk 7 pints of beer. It's not an accident.

What he didn't do though is deliberately drink it knowing he'll be sick and worry his wife.

Peacheroo · 16/12/2023 07:50

@geckofrog yes but wasn't expecting this result. Sometimes it just hits you differently.

TinySaltLick · 16/12/2023 07:45

Well it depends on the strength of the beer. If it was 3.5pc then it isn't dissimilar to drinking a whole bottle of wine over the same period

geckofrog · 16/12/2023 07:39

Peacheroo · 16/12/2023 07:38

Why do people call people in this situation selfish arseholes? He clearly hasn't done it on purpose. He doesn't even usually drink by all accounts.

On an empty stomach, it's always a delayed reaction. You think you're fine then boom, you're not. A few weeks back we went out, had no food in and it was too late to order a takeaway. I only ate some toast. The next day my stomach was in absolute pieces.

Last night I had 4 doubles and a can of peroni but was fine (a lovely warm fuzzy drunk) as I'd eaten. Another time I've had 7/8 doubles and been as sick as OPs husband thinking I have a bug. Never have I been berated by my partner, angel among men, who leaves me to it as he knows I'm mortified and passes me water every now and then. It's not a regular occurrence by any means (5 times in our 17 years) but each time I love him a little more. If he called me a selfish arsehole I'd be gone.

Yes he has. He's deliberately drunk 7 pints of beer. It's not an accident.

Peacheroo · 16/12/2023 07:38

Why do people call people in this situation selfish arseholes? He clearly hasn't done it on purpose. He doesn't even usually drink by all accounts.

On an empty stomach, it's always a delayed reaction. You think you're fine then boom, you're not. A few weeks back we went out, had no food in and it was too late to order a takeaway. I only ate some toast. The next day my stomach was in absolute pieces.

Last night I had 4 doubles and a can of peroni but was fine (a lovely warm fuzzy drunk) as I'd eaten. Another time I've had 7/8 doubles and been as sick as OPs husband thinking I have a bug. Never have I been berated by my partner, angel among men, who leaves me to it as he knows I'm mortified and passes me water every now and then. It's not a regular occurrence by any means (5 times in our 17 years) but each time I love him a little more. If he called me a selfish arsehole I'd be gone.

pinklemonata · 16/12/2023 07:14

I would be very sick after 7 pints on an empty stomach. Nothing to worry about OP, if you can get some water and paracetamol into him it will ease his head in the Morning

geckofrog · 16/12/2023 07:12

BlueberryVelvet · 16/12/2023 06:36

You mean 7 pints over 2 weeks as a legitimate and healthy timeframe.

7 pints in a day, no matter how far apart they’re spaced is binge drinking.

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I agree. It's over the recommended daily limit

geckofrog · 16/12/2023 07:11

That's shit loads and he needs to grow up and have some self control unless this is a regular thing and he's an alcoholic and then i'd understand and try to get him some help, I'd have no sympathy for him

EmptyYoghurtPot · 16/12/2023 07:07

Given the date I’m going to assume Christmas do, probably with his mates egging him on and a one off. Yes it’s an excessive amount to drink but he’s made it home in one piece and is now suffering for it so unlikely to do it again in a hurry.
He’d get no sympathy from me the following day but it wouldn’t be something I’d worry about .