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LylaLee · 13/12/2023 09:21

Met up with friend in a cafe for a catch up - the last one was before COVID. Her DP came to pick her up after.

He was wearing joggers but he very clearly was not wearing anything underneath. Outlines of everything. I didn't say anything but AIBU to think it's grim to go out in public like that?

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NoNoNanette · 13/12/2023 09:42

sunlovingcriminal · 13/12/2023 09:34

No- I'm with you OP. I don't want to see the outline of someone's knob particularly whilst I'm eating my croissant. Call me a prude...

A banana would be worse, but seriously - I think it's creepy and so does DH (I just asked him). I'd be thinking, not of the manly meat and two veg, but rather of the skid marks and pooh-y sweat at the back and piss leaks and dick smell at the front. Underwear was invented for a reason.

AgnesX · 13/12/2023 09:38

I'm not keen especially as some people's hygiene is dubious but in sometimes it is anyway.

When I was growing up no underwear was a sign of poverty.

YeahIsaidit · 13/12/2023 09:38

sunlovingcriminal · 13/12/2023 09:34

No- I'm with you OP. I don't want to see the outline of someone's knob particularly whilst I'm eating my croissant. Call me a prude...

I don't know why the mentioning of the croissant made me laugh so much. Knobs and croissants hahahaha

Catsmere · 13/12/2023 09:35

My BIL dresses like that and lets his bits flop into view. Revolting!

MagpiePi · 13/12/2023 09:35

Breaking news!! Men have a penis and testicles!!

In other news….everyone is naked under their clothes.

(Except for Granny Weatherwax) 😁

sunlovingcriminal · 13/12/2023 09:34

No- I'm with you OP. I don't want to see the outline of someone's knob particularly whilst I'm eating my croissant. Call me a prude...

YeahIsaidit · 13/12/2023 09:24

I don't wander around looking at people's crotches and don't think I'm in the minority with that one so most likely wouldn't notice. So long as people don't have their bits and bobs fully exposed, it's up to them how they dress and what they're comfortable with.

Would you think the same about a braless woman with untamed boobs?

MiddleagedBeachbum · 13/12/2023 09:23

Why?

Firstly you shouldn’t be staring and secondly that’s like people that think women shouldn’t go braless.

Who really cares? Stop judging other people, it has no effect on you what their appearance is!