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Skipping the Que

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LindaHoney · 10/12/2023 20:46

Now that I am calmer, I think perhaps I may have been a jerk but I was so annoyed earlier.

I was catching the train to work with about 20 minutes to spare. I stopped off at the deli near the trainstation (also petrol station), Sunday morning close to Xmas, the que was longer than usual and the staff were slow enough.

This lady skipped the que and approached the men at the top and asked if she could stand in, as she was in a hurry as she had a baby in the car.

I was annoyed but whatever. She then did the same thing in the que to pay.

She left the shop and while I was in the que to pay, and by now, barely going to make my train due to the slow deli, she came back in, picked up a bottle of water and approached the man at the top of the que.

I was second in the que, she had the same story. “Sorry is it ok to jump in, I just have a baby in the car”.

he said it was ok. It was not ok with me. I piped up and told her no it wasn’t okay, everyone’s got places to be and I’m in a hurry too, she’s after skipping twice and wants to skip the third time? Get to the back of the que and wait your turn.

she started yelling I was very rude, very rude indeed, turned to the sales assistant saying how rude I was and the sales assistant served her.

the man who let her go ahead of him also let me go ahead of him.

I didn’t complain to the sales assistant but I called the shop immediately after I got on the train, complained to the manager and he called me back there tonight to say he watched the cctv back and he is after reprimanding the assistant in question.

OP posts:
AdobeWanKenobi · 10/12/2023 22:49

MarmitePizza · 10/12/2023 22:43

It’s THEIR spelling not “they spelling.”

Gosh you’re so smart I’m in awe.
It was clearly an autocorrect, but you carry on being a condescending fuckwit if that’s what gets you off 😂

SurelySmartie · 10/12/2023 22:49

If you can’t be bothered que sera sera.

BustinJeiber · 10/12/2023 22:48

TheresaCrowd · 10/12/2023 21:12

Oh FFS why must people always jump in to correct an OP's spelling, despite the fact some twat has got there and done it long before them?

The thread just fills up with pages and pages of knobs.

So many knobs, including the one who said the OP had ‘anger issues’.

CluelessVegetarian · 10/12/2023 22:44

This thread is hilarious!!

Op, next time just write 'q'. It's pronounced the same as queue and saves you another two letters. :o)

Yanbu to be annoyed about the queue jumper. I also can't believe that anyone would leave their baby in the car that many times. The shop assistant should have spoken up when it happened again but I'm sure he (thankfully) won't get fired for this. I hope you made your train!!

BogRollBOGOF · 10/12/2023 22:43

theduchessofspork · 10/12/2023 22:08

Because in this instance everyone old enough is imagining the poor asst as Manuel.

¿Que?

At least OP didn't mention the war.

MarmitePizza · 10/12/2023 22:43

AdobeWanKenobi · 10/12/2023 22:36

It’s a shame some posters comprehension isn’t as hot on as their spelling correction or they might just have twigged that someone in the dozens of posts before had already corrected the OP.
Maybe they could work on that reading comprehension next now they’ve apparently mastered they spelling.

It’s THEIR spelling not “they spelling.”

MarmitePizza · 10/12/2023 22:41

Muchof · 10/12/2023 21:35

So why didn’t you knock two letters of any other word that would save time too. 🤷‍♀️

My favourite post! Exactly!!!

Anisette · 10/12/2023 22:37

I know how to spell it. I’m just unbothered by bad spelling, sorry.

What bad manners when you know it bothers other people

AdobeWanKenobi · 10/12/2023 22:36

It’s a shame some posters comprehension isn’t as hot on as their spelling correction or they might just have twigged that someone in the dozens of posts before had already corrected the OP.
Maybe they could work on that reading comprehension next now they’ve apparently mastered they spelling.

WhereIsBebèsChambre · 10/12/2023 22:31

stepintochristmas1 · 10/12/2023 22:24

Sorry but can't help laughing at all the jokes . I can't even remember what the OP was about 😁( I don't think I even read it )

Did you complain about the view op? That you couldn't see the sea?
(Showing age with all the Fawlty jokes)

Pyramintdreamer · 10/12/2023 22:24

Why am I finding this thread so entertaining 😂😂😂

stepintochristmas1 · 10/12/2023 22:24

Sorry but can't help laughing at all the jokes . I can't even remember what the OP was about 😁( I don't think I even read it )

fuckssaaaaake · 10/12/2023 22:18

Poor baby in the car, thank fuck it's not summer 😬

RedHelenB · 10/12/2023 22:11

AmazingBouncingFerret · 10/12/2023 21:11

The manager lied to you. There’s protocols for accessing and viewing CCTV and looking for queue jumpers is not one of them!

This. Obviously told OP.what she wanted to hear for an easy life.

ChicagoBears · 10/12/2023 22:09

I loathe a queue jumper too but don’t think I would have called the store as it wasn’t really the sales assistants fault

theduchessofspork · 10/12/2023 22:08

TheresaCrowd · 10/12/2023 21:12

Oh FFS why must people always jump in to correct an OP's spelling, despite the fact some twat has got there and done it long before them?

The thread just fills up with pages and pages of knobs.

Because in this instance everyone old enough is imagining the poor asst as Manuel.

theduchessofspork · 10/12/2023 22:06

Americano75 · 10/12/2023 21:33

Literally my first thought. Guarantee there was no baby.

There was no baby

There was no CCTV

So was there even a que????

theduchessofspork · 10/12/2023 22:04

MonsteraMama · 10/12/2023 21:46

This isn't true at all. When I was a shop manager I had access to our CCTV and could view it whenever I wanted. There's protocols around sharing it with a third party, but not around the management viewing it.

Actually on reflection I suspect the PP is right - why would the manager bother?

So actually you don’t need to feel bad about the asst OP

Tawlk · 10/12/2023 22:04

Jaysus, queue skippers are very annoying, but the poor ould sod on minimum wage whom already has to listen to shite from entitled customers everyday is now getting a bollocking for letting someone skip a queue. Why phone up the shop and complain?

theduchessofspork · 10/12/2023 22:03

It’s queue.

It was arsehole like to complain to the shop and get the asst (who was only trying to prevent a scene) told off. Fine to reprimand her, but you can’t control other people if they want to be arseholes.

Bloom15 · 10/12/2023 22:02

LindaHoney · 10/12/2023 21:24

I didn’t spell it to upset anyone? It’s shorter to write que than it is to write queue, I was going to just write q but that seemed very lazy.

Also shorter to skip the queue?! 😂

VisionsOfSplendour · 10/12/2023 21:59

LindaHoney · 10/12/2023 21:24

I didn’t spell it to upset anyone? It’s shorter to write que than it is to write queue, I was going to just write q but that seemed very lazy.

Come in people, when writing 10 paragraph OPs about lack of time missing the letters off the key word in the situation is a valid way to gain back those lost seconds, how is that not obvious?

Terfosaurus · 10/12/2023 21:59

I hate queue jumpers with a passion, and agree that just because the person at the front says its OK doesn't make it OK

I wouldn't have phoned and complained though.

WhereIsBebèsChambre · 10/12/2023 21:58

SBHon · 10/12/2023 20:59

Unrelated but every single time I read ‘que’ I heard Manuel from Faulty Towers and smiled.

There's too much butter on those trays....

Noo Mr Fawlty Uno, Dos,Trés

HollaHolla · 10/12/2023 21:57

Queue. Not que. We are not Manuel.