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Skipping the Que

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LindaHoney · 10/12/2023 20:46

Now that I am calmer, I think perhaps I may have been a jerk but I was so annoyed earlier.

I was catching the train to work with about 20 minutes to spare. I stopped off at the deli near the trainstation (also petrol station), Sunday morning close to Xmas, the que was longer than usual and the staff were slow enough.

This lady skipped the que and approached the men at the top and asked if she could stand in, as she was in a hurry as she had a baby in the car.

I was annoyed but whatever. She then did the same thing in the que to pay.

She left the shop and while I was in the que to pay, and by now, barely going to make my train due to the slow deli, she came back in, picked up a bottle of water and approached the man at the top of the que.

I was second in the que, she had the same story. “Sorry is it ok to jump in, I just have a baby in the car”.

he said it was ok. It was not ok with me. I piped up and told her no it wasn’t okay, everyone’s got places to be and I’m in a hurry too, she’s after skipping twice and wants to skip the third time? Get to the back of the que and wait your turn.

she started yelling I was very rude, very rude indeed, turned to the sales assistant saying how rude I was and the sales assistant served her.

the man who let her go ahead of him also let me go ahead of him.

I didn’t complain to the sales assistant but I called the shop immediately after I got on the train, complained to the manager and he called me back there tonight to say he watched the cctv back and he is after reprimanding the assistant in question.

OP posts:
Poudretteite · 11/12/2023 17:07

No idea what the original query was but great thread!

*queuery

TheresaCrowd · 11/12/2023 16:43

WeAreBorg · 11/12/2023 16:07

This thread has really cheered my gloomy Monday. It’s not just the ‘que’ but how many times ‘Que’ was used in the original post, then the persistently determined ongoing use despite the correction, then the UPROAR about the focus on the wrong spelling instead of the AIBU topic, Manuel gifs, more frothing

No idea what the original query was but great thread!

Makes me think the OP is quite the master and the puppets didn't disappoint Wink

WeAreBorg · 11/12/2023 16:07

This thread has really cheered my gloomy Monday. It’s not just the ‘que’ but how many times ‘Que’ was used in the original post, then the persistently determined ongoing use despite the correction, then the UPROAR about the focus on the wrong spelling instead of the AIBU topic, Manuel gifs, more frothing

No idea what the original query was but great thread!

KnickerlessParsons · 11/12/2023 15:53

SBHon · 10/12/2023 20:59

Unrelated but every single time I read ‘que’ I heard Manuel from Faulty Towers and smiled.

Same!

TinyTear · 11/12/2023 08:47

readymealeater · 11/12/2023 08:45

😄

I would rather if they had written Q to be honest!

TinyTear · 11/12/2023 08:46

DERAIL: I would rather bloody Cue than Que as as least it's pronounced the same way

@LindaHoney you are VERY unreasonable for keeping on writing Que

And also unreasonable to phone the shop

readymealeater · 11/12/2023 08:45

😄

Skipping the Que
Pleasebeafleabite · 11/12/2023 08:42

flowerchild2000 · 11/12/2023 08:36

Oh no, are you clutching your pearls?

I’m surprised you’ve even heard of pearls. You’re so modern.

readymealeater · 11/12/2023 08:41

I very much doubt the assistant got into trouble. It's hard filling these kind of jobs at the moment and it's no bloody wonder!

The assistant was paid to serve at the counter and presumably she does that well and is not there to referee squabbles between overgrown kids.

The queue jumper woman probably got to jump the queue because the assistant knows from past experience that the pushy mouthy ones really kick off and it simply isn't worth arguing with them. In fact, it makes the whole wait even longer for everyone, so in the end it's easier to let them have their way.

The queue jumper would probably have complained about her too, if she hadn't got her way. Can't win for losing!

I've done a bit of hospitality work many years ago and most people are great. The few pains we had to put up with who complained - well, if the complaint was vexatious, the manager made all the right noises and we'd have a good laugh about it afterwards 😂

flowerchild2000 · 11/12/2023 08:36

Sexlivesofthepotatomen · 11/12/2023 08:30

A Karen move? People are still using this insult, seriously?

Oh no, are you clutching your pearls?

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A Karen move? People are still using this insult, seriously?

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sergeantsalt · 11/12/2023 08:13

The woman was annoying. It was weird and ott to call the shop after. As someone who worked in retail management, the manager made up a story to satisfy you.

hangingonfordearlife1 · 11/12/2023 08:12

Woman was an ass for jumping the queue but you really are a sad act for calling the shop. Its not shop assistants concern if she's asked other people to jump in. Honestly people must have very easy lives with no problems if this is what makes them so upset.

Bobtheamazinggingerdog · 11/12/2023 08:07

ElFupacabra · 11/12/2023 08:00

Oh my god. WHO CARES! Every cunt and their gran can tell what OP is saying. She KNOWS the correct spelling and another poster whining and spitting feathers about it isn’t going to change it!

I mean, letters and spellings aren't interchangeable. You can't just decide to spell a word randomly and say well I know that's wrong but that's how I want to spell it. Most people will struggle to read it because that's how reading comprehension works. Letters make meaning when used in particular combinations. Using the wrong combination means the reader's brain won't ascribe the same meaning. It's involuntary and makes reading something much more difficult.

People are also ridiculing the OP because it's either totally mad behaviour to randomly choose to spell a word wrong or she's lying about knowing the correct spelling and both options are funny and worth laughing at. Nobody would be laughing at her if she said she made a mistake with the spelling and then corrected it.

ElFupacabra · 11/12/2023 08:00

penjil · 11/12/2023 01:39

For Pete's sake, it is spelt QUEUE!!

People have told you this on every page, but you still carry on and spell it incorrectly afterwards!!

Read and understand!!

It's spelt queue.

Oh my god. WHO CARES! Every cunt and their gran can tell what OP is saying. She KNOWS the correct spelling and another poster whining and spitting feathers about it isn’t going to change it!

Holidayhell22 · 11/12/2023 07:51

Is anyone else feeling sorry for the man at the front of the queue?
He obviously didn’t want to look like a dick and refuse ‘a mother’ her right to push in.
Then the op has a rant and so he lets her push in.
If I was him I’d be thinking sod this, next time I’ll either make myself a pack up or go hungry, rather than face that again.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 11/12/2023 05:32

Sexlivesofthepotatomen · 10/12/2023 21:01

Same Grin

Same again!

penjil · 11/12/2023 01:39

For Pete's sake, it is spelt QUEUE!!

People have told you this on every page, but you still carry on and spell it incorrectly afterwards!!

Read and understand!!

It's spelt queue.

SurelySmartie · 11/12/2023 01:24

CouchCat · 11/12/2023 01:11

Proper spelling matters. The repetition of 'que' was so irritating I didn't really get the gist of the problem itself.

Definitely. The constant que just kept distracting me to the point that I couldn’t focus on what the op was about.

CouchCat · 11/12/2023 01:11

Proper spelling matters. The repetition of 'que' was so irritating I didn't really get the gist of the problem itself.

beanontoast · 11/12/2023 00:17

OP didn’t have time for someone to skip the queue, OP didn’t have time to write queue instead of que…OP may I suggest investing in a watch, your time management needs some work

Bambi1449 · 11/12/2023 00:16

I don't understand why you deliberately spell queue incorrectly but you take the time to spell pretty much everything else correctly? When I see the word "que" I read it in my head as "kay" as that's how it's pronounced. It's really distracting (as well as grating and really irritating) to keep seeing the foreign word "que" in the middle of English sentences.

ValerieVomit · 11/12/2023 00:09

WotNoSanta · 10/12/2023 23:04

YABVVVVVU Knowing how to spell queue but deliberately spelling it que..... many many times. I couldn't read your post as Manuel kept popping into my head every time "que" appeared and I was having to convert it from Que to queue. I gave up 😂😂😂

That's nuts. Not only is it distracting but why is it just that word that isn't spelled properly? Why did the OP not say that "I no ow to spell it Im just unbovvered"? It's just as ridiculous.

ValerieVomit · 11/12/2023 00:06

Me too! AIBU for saying that it is a queue?