I’ve recently joined a sports group which is very sociable. There are a lot of regulars and it’s 3 times a week with drinks after and a proper social every month.
Ive been there 5 months and I’ve still not been added to the WhatsApp group.
I’ve got friendly with a few people but feel frostiness from a couple. One of them is one of the main organisers for things, otherwise I wouldn’t care. I’ve tried to be friendly but She only responds to my questions, doesn’t ask me anything back and I’ve caught her looking me up and down a couple of times.
I was talking to someone in the group and she was behind us talking to someone else (someone I’ve become friendly with). The person I was talking to through they were talking about us so he turned and said hello to them.
the girl in question just said how they were talking about how people’s boobs can shrink. I was wearing a low cut top that night. Seems like she might have been talking about me?
the guy she was talking to said something to me the next day to imply that they were talking about me and the other guy and wondered whether anything was going on romantically between us.
love the group but hate the negative energy from her. AIBU to think she has a problem with me? Any advice? Thanks!