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Please help! My head is infected!

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colincaterpiller1 · 30/11/2023 21:08

posted on here already back when it started but I’ve NC since and can’t find it now!

I had surgery roughly 6-7 weeks ago now on my head. It healed really well apart from the end where the stitch was sticking out (it’s the dissolving stitches) and it just never quite healed. It’s been red, sore, crusty and weeping pus for the last 4 weeks or so. I’ve had various antibiotics but nothings helped. The surgeon gave me antibiotics and I’ve also been to my GP and tried different antibiotics but nothing has taken this infection away. It hurts to lie on that side of my head and when I touch it pus squeezes out like a spot. It’s red and crusty.

i honestly don’t know what to do now. None of the antibiotics have helped and the rest of it has healed completely fine alert from this. Tonight when I was bathing the area a large crust came off and took the last stitch with it- the rest of it has healed and stitches are dissolved apart from this end bit of which has now come out, does this mean the infection will be more likely to heal now? Or could it get worse?

just so tired of it all, I really thought it would be healed by now

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NcSlt · 05/12/2023 20:13

I can’t really see from the photo.. If your skull was cracked in an injury or in the surgery then don’t stop pestering doctors until it’s sorted and don’t be afraid to go to a&e. Hoping all the people saying put honey on it know something I don’t from previous threads and that it’s superficial/skin only! Even then i’d get it sorted by professionals.

Whatnowfgs · 05/12/2023 20:06

@colincaterpiller1 How are you now?

Filamumof9 · 05/12/2023 09:01

With raw honey, I mean honey straight from the hive, no supermarket honey. Husband is a beekeeper, and raw honey is abundance for us.

MycoBug · 01/12/2023 15:12

It could be fungal, maybe that why antibiotics not working

needs swabbing really

IAmcuriousyellow · 01/12/2023 15:04

Even Gales honey in the squeezy bottle has osmotic and antibacterial action. I used manuka on my mothers leg ulcer (I’ve got photographs of each of the 30 days it took to resolve) and when my sister had a failed abdominal surgical wound the NHS used Activon medical grade honey along with an alginate fleece and that resolved within 20 or so days. It’s not widely used anymore but perhaps antibiotic resistance will change that.

PickleSmith · 01/12/2023 14:42

@IAmcuriousyellow that's not correct. It has to be medical grade honey and it has to be under the direction of a health care professional.

Don't just slap on honey on the say so of some posters. Get proper advice

Whatnowfgs · 01/12/2023 08:31

I think you have had some good advice here so I am just going to summarise the best bits.

It is likely to heal better now that crusty bit and stitch has come away.

Get medical advice ask about some of the ideas here (i) prescribed manuka honey dressings (ii) surgical spirits to clean (more suitable than hand sanitiser but is also alcohol based. (iii) trying antibiotics again ...fucidin might work now. Fucidin with a Steroid is called "Fucidin H"
But I would also listen carefully to the medical advice. Any advice from a medical practitioner will always be better than an internet forum. Not just because of their training but also as they have access to_ your whole medical history!
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Lastly if it hasn't been swabbed would consider asking for it to be swabbed and cultured to see if can identify an antibiotic it would be sensitive too.

Unless you feel very unwell this is probably better and more quickly managed in General practice.

Eatbetterthisweek · 01/12/2023 08:25

This guy uses medical grade honey on his wound. I watch these things for entertainment because once you’ve worked in wounds it’s just what you do!

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Eatbetterthisweek · 01/12/2023 08:22

You need medical grade honey only not stuff off the supermarket shelves.

I used to love using leeches, maggots and a myriad of natural remedies on wounds when I worked in HC.

Filamumof9 · 01/12/2023 01:42

You do not necessarily need Manuka honey, any raw and unprocessed honey will do. We normally mix the honey with antibacterial oinctment half/half. It has saved my family and our animals many times from nasty wounds and ensured that it healed without scarring tissue. Even for my dog, whose flesh was turning black on her leg.and whose bones were almost visible at a few points of the leg, we managed to heal the leg with this combination completely back to normal.

NotEvenThought · 01/12/2023 00:39

People are really daft if they think the OP should use honey. The op needs to call 111 or go back to see her doctor.

saltinesandcoffeecups · 01/12/2023 00:34

Don’t try random remedies off of the internet. That’s clearly not healed. Go back to the doctor!

unsync · 30/11/2023 23:54

Avène Cicalfate is really good for helping skin heal, it minimises scarring too. Now the last stitch is out, things should be better. It's always the last stitch that causes issues.

OhIlovetosew · 30/11/2023 23:31

Charlingspont · 30/11/2023 21:37

I suspect it was the 'dissolving' stitch that caused the infection. Now that the 'dissolving' stitch (which didn't dissolve!) is out, I think it may well clear up.

Fwiw I hate dissolving stitches. In my experience with two different operations, they've always started to get infected and have to be removed because they didn't actually dissolve!!

This happened to DH, the last stitch wouldn’t dissolve and needed removing, once it was out it healed ok.

Eatbetterthisweek · 30/11/2023 23:20

Last stitch out hopefully should start to heal.

Silver plasters are good but you may need more antibiotics did no one examine it for a rogue undissolved stitch?

Cadenza12 · 30/11/2023 23:16

I'm also thinking that it may well start to heal with the last stitch out. I would consider phoning 111 for some advice.

Baneofmyexistence · 30/11/2023 23:00

I would try the fucidin cream again now that the stitch is out if you still have it? My DD gets raging skin infections behind her ear and that always heals it. Hopefully now the stitch is out it will heal. If you feel unwell at any point though I’d go to A&E.

ClydeBank · 30/11/2023 22:59

Another vote for manuka honey. Used it on a caesarean wound. More recently, my dog had a gammy wound and it was remarkable. Antibacterial and antiviral - used on nhs. Pile it on and come back and tell us if it’s worked. Based on previous use I’d say u shd see it working within 2 days. Good luck.

IAmcuriousyellow · 30/11/2023 22:56

Another shout for honey, manuka is super good but just Gales or whatever is fine. I’ve fixed my mothers leg ulcers with honey.

You can get honey impregnated dressings for ease otherwise you’ll be washing it out of your hair.

I remember your previous thread, I'm
sorry you’re not healed yet. Get the honey on it.

1stTimeMummy2021 · 30/11/2023 22:46

@colincaterpiller1 After my c-section I had an infection and 5 rounds of antibiotics (the penicillin resistant ones worked in the end) and my GP recommended cleaning the wound with warm, salty water using a cotton pad. I'm not saying that will clear the infection, the antibiotics need to do that but I found that cleaning it a few times a day helped the pus go and the inflammation got much better.

LuluBlakey1 · 30/11/2023 22:38

I think the last bit of stitch coming out will probably allow it to heal. It happened to me with a scar on my abdomen and a dissolving stitch that didn't dissolve. It wept and crusted over and there was pus. Eventually, I pulled the stitch and the horrible scab came off with the stitch. It healed really quickly after that. Keep it clean and dry. I'd bathe it daily with warm water and salt and see what happens over the weekend. If it still looks infected you should have it looked at again.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 30/11/2023 22:20

CharityShopChic · 30/11/2023 21:38

I had similar and used leftover hand sanitizer …

Jings my scalp in wincing at the thought , that would STING Shock

SendARavenToRiverRun · 30/11/2023 21:43

Looks really sore OP. Poor you. I think it'll start to heal now that the last stitch has gone. I also recommend manuka honey.

Smartiepants79 · 30/11/2023 21:41

Now the stitch has come out I’d hope that would mean it can heal properly.
I’d keep an eye o it for a day or two as long as I felt well in myself and it wasn’t obviously getting worse.
I’f then give the gp another go for some more antibiotics and take it from there.
Again, if it gets worse or you feel systemically unwell then escalate it.
Are you doing what you can to help your body fight the infection - good food, vitamins maybe, sleep, lots of water etc.

CharityShopChic · 30/11/2023 21:38

I had similar and used leftover hand sanitizer …