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School attendance

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Seekingguidance22 · 28/11/2023 09:30

Posting for traffic not really AIBU sorry.

So I received a letter on DD's book bag yesterday sent out yesterday regarding her attendance, as stated she was off all last week as advised by school as she was vomiting and then after that finished had diarrhoea.

(We've also had a few days scattered off as we caught covid and school states child be kept off for three days after positive test )

Aswell as general bugs which have gave a fever, DD didn't attend nursery so her immune system took a harsh hit when joining school.

The letter states I have a legal responsibility to ensure full time education once a child reaches statutory school age.

Am I wrong in thinking 5 is actually the legal school age? And any attendance made by pupils under 5 is disregarded for the school year? She is a late July so won't turn 5 until six weeks Summer holidays.

OP posts:
Geneve82 · 28/11/2023 09:37

why are you regularly covid testing her?

Foxesandsquirrels · 28/11/2023 09:37

The school sound like they're being helpful. What's the issue? They're right, it can lead to persistent absence. They're offering help..what do you want?

Geneve82 · 28/11/2023 09:36

Seekingguidance22 · 28/11/2023 09:35

I was going to do this, but it's the paragraph dedicated to being at risk for persistently absent which riddles me with anxiety.

There's also a paragraph that states they'd want to make a referral to the school nurse who can talk to me about " medical needs " - suffers with constipation....

just seen this
the school sound great and just trying to help Op. why push back and see shadows?

Seekingguidance22 · 28/11/2023 09:36

Geneve82 · 28/11/2023 09:35

generic letter sent to all parents at your school i imagine

was it addressed
Dear parent

Yes, was addressed parent/guardian off ..DD

OP posts:
Geneve82 · 28/11/2023 09:35

generic letter sent to all parents at your school i imagine

was it addressed
Dear parent

Seekingguidance22 · 28/11/2023 09:35

I was going to do this, but it's the paragraph dedicated to being at risk for persistently absent which riddles me with anxiety.

There's also a paragraph that states they'd want to make a referral to the school nurse who can talk to me about " medical needs " - suffers with constipation....

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DisquietintheRanks · 28/11/2023 09:33

Just bin the letter and get on with your life. Honestly, don't give it a moments thought, it's just auto-generated rubbish.

My eldest missed a fair bit of reception due to picking up things left, right and centre. By year 1 everything had calmed down.