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Do I need a degree?!

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DoIReallyNeedToDoThis · 26/11/2023 18:08

Signed up when DD was little to do a degree, mainly because in my field they tend to be expected. That said I’ve climbed the ladder without issues with just professional quals. But figured learning is good and an Open Degree with the PU lets me pick subjects that enrich and enhance my chosen career. I completed the second year in 2014.

2026 (completion date) always felt ages away, but with 3 years to go and 2 more years of study needed I decided to sign back up in Sept. It’s been a nightmare. I have recently been diagnosed with ADHD and have struggled so much with everything now being online. At the same time work has been mental and I’ve been working 70-90 hour weeks since Sept.

I begged for textbooks for weeks, as the info just doesn’t go in when it’s on a screen. They arrived on Weds this week and it’s so much better being able to scribble on paper. I have an assignment due in at midnight tomorrow and am trying to cram 100 hours of study into today.

I’ve just been offered a new job with a massive salary (despite no degree) and I think at this point I’m
just making life difficult for no real reason.

I can defer and start the course again next year. Or quit completely. Or submit something so much worse than I am capable of and feel like shit if I get a crap mark. Who knows how much harder the next assignment will be.

So, I guess this is a AIBU to stop? What would you do?

OP posts:
WellThatChangesThings · 26/11/2023 20:08

You’ve got a week and you’ve come this far. It will be a headache but you’re on a good path, get it done.

DoIReallyNeedToDoThis · 26/11/2023 19:57

Emailed Tutor who has extended it for another week.

This assignment is only worth 15% of the module.

I don’t know what to do.

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DoIReallyNeedToDoThis · 26/11/2023 19:56

Elfandwellbeing · 26/11/2023 19:50

Defer, I did an open degree and it’s hellish whilst working FT. Defer, at year two all assignments go towards your final degree classification.

I’ve completed year 2 in 2014. This is year 3.

OP posts:
SwedishSchnauzer · 26/11/2023 19:55

Defer.

Elfandwellbeing · 26/11/2023 19:53

The crap mark you fear will impact your degree outcome. So I would suggest deferring and then look for 30 credit modules that take less time if a degree is really something you even want or need.
It’s too late to ask for extension now.

Elfandwellbeing · 26/11/2023 19:50

Defer, I did an open degree and it’s hellish whilst working FT. Defer, at year two all assignments go towards your final degree classification.

WellThatChangesThings · 26/11/2023 19:50

If sounds like you are doing well regardless however it was important enough to you to start it so you should finish it. On the other hand if you now find that don’t want the hassle then just quit, you don’t need to justify it to anyone except yourself.

AllPowerfulLizardPerson · 26/11/2023 19:47

I'd defer

The reasons you say for wanting to do a degree - learning is good, learning enhances - are still true.

Probably too much to do whilst finding your feet in your new job, so I'd wait

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