To think they should have done more

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hello1532 · 14/11/2023 08:41

Apologies about my spelling/grammar as I am typing this quickly and not going to read through as I’m due to start my lesson at 8:45.

so I’m a secondary school supply teacher and yesterday a student he attacked me. Other students were there and they tried to intervene and one went to get a teacher. I sent an email to the senior leaders as told to by another teacher as is the policy, and not one came to see me or check if I’m okay. I was shaken up if I’m being honest, I’m actually okay today. But I need to process this as I have a history of trauma and depression.

I’m also upset with my colleague who I’ve known for a good several months as this is a long term position. At the end of the day yesterday she said “how was your day” and I told her and she said “yes I did hear”. That really upset me too. I’ve been nothing but nice to this lady and sat there listening to her countless problems and the fact she knew why not come and see or at least ask if I was okay.

Thank you for allowing me to process this! I’m sure by mid day all will be forgotten.

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fourelementary · 14/11/2023 08:43

YANBU at all. Sorry you have been so badly let down. Do you have a union rep? I think I would be making an official complaint and possibly having some time off to process.

NannyOggsWhiskyStash · 14/11/2023 08:46

Did the student get any punishment? Do they have form for attacking staff? That must have been frightening.

user1492757084 · 14/11/2023 08:49

Did the school have the Police intervene.
Attacks on teachers should be seen as super important.
The attacker should be formerly charged.
How else will behaviour improve?

Galectable · 14/11/2023 08:49

My jaw is hanging down near the floor!! I can't believe there's been no follow up? A student attacking you is a serious health and safety situation. The school should have protocols to follow. In your shoes I'd be asking someone what you should do, who you need to talk to, since there's been no response to your initial report. I am very sorry you've been left high and dry. I hope you get the support you deserve. All the best.

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hello1532 · 14/11/2023 08:54

They did email me this morning and said they will investigate and student won’t be allowed in my class till it’s done. They’re actually covering my form now whilst I write a statement.

I know this might sound weird but I’m trying to still process it but I’m not angry with the student but more angry with the leaders and especially my colleague who I thought was a friend. She breezily walked in today saying good morning. Would I be childish to stop listening to her countless issues and just avoid as much as possible?

im going to ask mumsnet to not put this thread in trending incase someone realises it’s me!

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