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Fuck fireworks

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FenFairy · 05/11/2023 19:09

Every single person setting them in their gardens is an arsehole.

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Judydoes2 · 05/11/2023 20:07

FenFairy · 05/11/2023 19:44

He has this fantastic thing called a Dad

Sorry OP but this amused me 😂-thank you, I know It's not an amusing thread!

My dog is petrified too. And I agree about war veterans and everyone else affected by them.

It's other animals too. Farm animals. Horses. Rabbits and guinea pigs kept outside. Wildlife-fuck them though, we're entitled to have loud, destructive fun.

Efrogwraig · 05/11/2023 20:08

Cat is fine but son (22) hates them.

friendsfiend · 05/11/2023 20:08

pictoosh · 05/11/2023 20:00

"But you go ahead and enjoy your selfish bullshit entertainment."

Well...I wasn't asking for permission but thanks. I did. Went to see the fireworks last night. They were great. I had a lovely selfish bullshit evening with the kids.

I don't have an issue with organised displays as I've quite clearly said. I'm glad you had a lovely time.

Much better than setting them off in residential gardens.

Coffeerum · 05/11/2023 20:08

WillowCraft · 05/11/2023 20:05

You're being quite presumptuous there. I know a lot of veterans and none of them mind fireworks. They tend to be of the "seize the day" "live and let live" and "man up" schools of thought.

Also a lot of veterans are just as likely to be arseholes, just like the general population. A blind veterans home just seems like the most cliche example that could be imagined!

fuckssaaaaake · 05/11/2023 20:08

FenFairy · 05/11/2023 19:17

Completely. We’ve had them continuously for over 90 minutes now, my dogs and child are terrified and my baby can’t sleep. But some cunt will no doubt come along to tell me why it’s more important that they get to look at some shitty sparkly lights.

Crikey. Pour the wine, sounds like you need it

ClinkeyMonkey · 05/11/2023 20:08

We had them last week for Halloween (am in NI). I do like them, but hate people setting them off in private gardens etc. Mainly because I don't believe for one minute that the fuckers to know how to handle them safely. In saying that, there was a big display near us and it was £12.50 for an adult and £10 for a child for 10 minutes of fireworks which we could see by popping our heads up through our roof windows! I know fireworks cost money, but bloody hell😬

LittleMooli · 05/11/2023 20:09

TeaGinandFags · 05/11/2023 20:07

I like fireworks but I fully accept your point about them being loud.

I think that fireworks should be splashier. More pizazz and colours. A lot of them are too bangy.

This exactly this! Where are the fizzy ones

ScremeEggs · 05/11/2023 20:09

Don't seem to be able to quote properly on here anymore 😕
YABU.
Love fireworks and this time of year, seeing and hearing them all.
Went to a great display last night.
Love seeing all the ones out of the window too, even go out to try and see them if there's a few going off at once.

CardamomGarden · 05/11/2023 20:09

Why do people say they should only be for one night, 5 November? Are they unaware fireworks are used for many reasons? Diwali is next, New Year isn't far away.

I think they really mean that fireworks shouldn’t be going off pfor weeks around each of those occasions. I’m not keen on volleys of really loud bangs and pops which are so popular now (what I can hear outside right now does really sound like a news report on heavy artillery fire!), but thankfully in my area we don’t get them for weeks at a time. Just the occasions you mentioned themselves and a few days around.

CornishGem1975 · 05/11/2023 20:10

Harrysarseinthedogbowl · 05/11/2023 20:07

Much of the unnecessary noise in life is caused by dogs and children, and those who complain about it are advised to suck it up. Tonight it is the turn of the usual suspects to suck it up.

Well quite. Some massive twat walks her two loudly yapping dogs past my house every morning at 6am and wakes us up. But we have to just suck it up. It's life.

WillowCraft · 05/11/2023 20:10

FenFairy · 05/11/2023 20:06

I love how this thread has become ‘I should be allowed to terrorise veterans and kids because a dog annoyed me once’

The vast majority of veterans and kids like fireworks and very few are actually scared of them.

BrexitShmeckzit · 05/11/2023 20:10

My dog is not happy, getting lots of attention and cuddles from us. Not a massive fan of fireworks but I would never begrudge other people having fun a few days a year because I made the choice to have children and pets. According to the OP, having the audacity to say such things makes me a cunt. Yeah, sounds totally reasonable to me.

Giveuprobot · 05/11/2023 20:10

I don't think people can weaponise all veterans for their anti-firework agenda. Our garrison has a firework display.

LadyMacB · 05/11/2023 20:12

FenFairy · 05/11/2023 20:06

I love how this thread has become ‘I should be allowed to terrorise veterans and kids because a dog annoyed me once’

Terrorise veterans??!

The hyperbole on this thread is beyond parody.

CornishGem1975 · 05/11/2023 20:12

I've had kids for over 18 years and never know one to be "terrorised" Confused My own small child couldn't give a rats arse.

Someone shared a video of a dog lying on the floor shaking listening to fireworks. The problem there isn't the fireworks, it's the owner.

FreebieWallopFridge · 05/11/2023 20:12

It’s been over 2 hours already here. It’ll carry on til gone 11 most likely. Same on Friday and Saturday. They started going off sporadically from early October. They’ll carry on now at least once a week most weeks til January, obviously with clusters around Diwali and Christmas and new year.

It drives me mad. It hasn’t always been like this, despite what people say. Even 10 years ago it wasn’t like this. 30 years ago it definitely wasn’t.

FenFairy · 05/11/2023 20:12

Harrysarseinthedogbowl · 05/11/2023 20:07

Much of the unnecessary noise in life is caused by dogs and children, and those who complain about it are advised to suck it up. Tonight it is the turn of the usual suspects to suck it up.

Next time my children make three hours of continuous, window-rattling noise in your house you can call me a cunt fair and square

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stayflufft · 05/11/2023 20:12

Unpopular perspective but we had fireworks in our garden tonight. Cat was fine, both kids now asleep as they still continue around us. It’s one day a year when we do them.

Firewerk · 05/11/2023 20:13

Giveuprobot · 05/11/2023 20:10

I don't think people can weaponise all veterans for their anti-firework agenda. Our garrison has a firework display.

Lmao I agree, if only people who bring up veterans when saying they hate fireworks actually cared about veterans eh.

WeighDownOnMe · 05/11/2023 20:13

stayflufft · 05/11/2023 20:12

Unpopular perspective but we had fireworks in our garden tonight. Cat was fine, both kids now asleep as they still continue around us. It’s one day a year when we do them.

Not unpopular.
Representative of the vast majority of people.

Commonly known as 'the cunts' I think 😁

LittleMooli · 05/11/2023 20:13

FenFairy · 05/11/2023 20:12

Next time my children make three hours of continuous, window-rattling noise in your house you can call me a cunt fair and square

Ooh no not continuous- every so often stop for 4 minutes so they can be lulled into a false sense of peace that it's over

InTheRainOnATrain · 05/11/2023 20:14

Gosh the group we went to the display with included 2 veterans and 1 austic adult. The presumption by OP is so fucking patronising. We get it, you don’t like them and of course you’re entitled to your opinion but for the love of god please stop trying to speak for other people.

BitOutOfPractice · 05/11/2023 20:14

I think this thread has been refreshingly honest. But if you don’t like a certain level of bluntness back @FenFairy i suggest not calling everyone who likes and enjoys fireworks a count first. You sort of set the tone

MissFancyDay · 05/11/2023 20:14

Shouldn't children be a bit more resilient than this? Do a few fireworks really reduce them to crying and shaking wrecks? Mine never batted an eyelid. It's a noisy old world out there.

LakeTiticaca · 05/11/2023 20:14

RedVanYellowVan · 05/11/2023 20:07

MargaretThursday Firework arguments are banned on our local fb page. The admin put up a warning last week. Anything other than strictly factual posts about where events are taking place, or similar, are immediately removed.

I hope they have banned the self scan "I don't get paid to scan my own shopping" argument. Every bit as tiresome as the fireworks arguments and also been around for years (not as many years as fireworks have though!!) 🤣🤣

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