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Fuck fireworks

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FenFairy · 05/11/2023 19:09

Every single person setting them in their gardens is an arsehole.

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Mademetoxic · 06/11/2023 09:27

Memememestillme · 06/11/2023 09:17

"They can be enjoyed at organised displays only and not with idiots lighting them in their gardens, on their streets, through people's letterboxes for so called 'fun'"
Honestly. This is such a bullshit argument. Just because some morons do stupid stuff like throw them doesn't mean they should be banned! Plenty more morons stab each other with knives.
FWIW I wouldn't actually mind them only being available at organised displays, but there would need to be a lot more of them or it wouldn't be fair. As to the idiots saying they should only be allowed on 1 night of the year because of their poor dogs - er no.
I literally have dogs barking waking us up 2 or 3 times a week, every week. There is dog shit all over the pavements and people let their uncontrolled dogs off the lead in all the parks who jump up at people with their muddy feet. So no I really couldn't give a shit if your dog hates them! Also I'd be willing to bet dogs injure more people each year in the country than fireworks do. Let's ban them instead.

Comparing knives, which are useful household tools, to fireworks, are people completely insane.

DevonWindyWeather · 06/11/2023 09:38

pictoosh · 06/11/2023 06:46

There are a lot of silly, angry people on this thread.

Yes, some very angry people who seem to go around swearing and growling at everyone who doesn't agree with them 🙄

VeronicasCloset · 06/11/2023 09:39

WeighDownOnMe · 05/11/2023 22:54

Christmas Eve boxes are the choice of entitled middle-class performance parenting cunts, I believe.

I believe it’s working class, aspiring middle class sub-division.

Skyscrapers921 · 06/11/2023 09:47

Have spent a week huddling my dog in bed, so yeah. Agree. Sadly.

Desecratedcoconut · 06/11/2023 09:49

VeronicasCloset · 06/11/2023 09:39

I believe it’s working class, aspiring middle class sub-division.

If people were aspiring to be middle class I think the reliable route, as detailed by MN, is to adopt the most joyless, fearful and anally retentive stance on every conceivable topic.

Fieldofbrokenpromises · 06/11/2023 09:56

NugatoryMatters · 06/11/2023 09:16

Also think of all the choke hazard foods out there that people simply do not need to be eating. Other foods are just fine to meet nutritional needs.

Let’s ban bubble tea. Those pearls are a dreadful risk. And there’s no need for it. People can just drink liquids. Grapes maybe can be served only by specially licensed chefs.

Edited

I agree and what about all the people choking on fireworks every year - all fireworks and all food should be banned immediately.

Mademetoxic · 06/11/2023 09:58

Fieldofbrokenpromises · 06/11/2023 09:56

I agree and what about all the people choking on fireworks every year - all fireworks and all food should be banned immediately.

I'm sure you would be saying the same thing if you nearly got injured by a firework going off in a subway which was let off by idiots... Missed it by seconds.

Or if it went through your letterbox, like it did with my friend...

InTheRainOnATrain · 06/11/2023 10:05

I’ve lived somewhere where fireworks were illegal for general sale. However, there was an organised display every single Wednesday and Saturday May-September, and again on the 4th of July, also NYE. And of course because some people won’t be told no, plenty of people just letting them off at home anyway as they were legal in the next state so really easy to get hold of. I feel like I hear fireworks really infrequently now I’m back in the UK 🤣

justaboutdonenow · 06/11/2023 10:11

Of course it's another excuse for the moany dog haters to chime in with their constant complaining about dogs.

Fireworks are antisocial, polluting 'entertainment' for people who are obviously easily pleased & have money to literally burn.

I will continue to sign every petition going to urge the government to get them banned from public sale & will rejoice on the day they finally do it.

To those people who love them so much, please find some other, less intrusive way to have 'fun'.

Mademetoxic · 06/11/2023 10:13

justaboutdonenow · 06/11/2023 10:11

Of course it's another excuse for the moany dog haters to chime in with their constant complaining about dogs.

Fireworks are antisocial, polluting 'entertainment' for people who are obviously easily pleased & have money to literally burn.

I will continue to sign every petition going to urge the government to get them banned from public sale & will rejoice on the day they finally do it.

To those people who love them so much, please find some other, less intrusive way to have 'fun'.

Exactly, well said.

Q2C4 · 06/11/2023 10:13

MissFancyDay · 05/11/2023 20:14

Shouldn't children be a bit more resilient than this? Do a few fireworks really reduce them to crying and shaking wrecks? Mine never batted an eyelid. It's a noisy old world out there.

Have you ever come across a child with sensory processing issues? It's a neurological condition where the brain reacts different to stimuli. You can't "toughen them out if it." www.nhslanarkshire.scot.nhs.uk/services/occupational-therapy/learning-disability/sensory-processing-and-learning-disabilities/

MenopauseSucks · 06/11/2023 10:15

Here the fireworks start before Halloween & go on pretty much into the New Year. Everyone thinks they're nice to let off for someone's birthday or any form of celebration so there's no real break.
Doesn't happen the rest of the year.
My cat lives under the dining table...

BitOutOfPractice · 06/11/2023 10:16

I’d say it’s just another excuse for dog lovers to advocate that their pets come before humans but there you go, there’s more than one way to read the thread.

Q2C4 · 06/11/2023 10:17

BitofaStramash · 05/11/2023 20:30

Gosh this thread is really bringing out the best in people.

😂

Isn't it just!!
Seems this could be mainly solved by 1. People being considerate to their neighbours and buying silent fireworks, and 2. A bit more empathy & manners all round.

sunglassesonthetable · 06/11/2023 10:19

Wow. This thread !

It’s not about your shitty opinions, it’s about *the fact that we’ve now had three continuous hours of it sounding like there are bombs falling around our ears. What you think is absolutely irrelevant, it’s what you DO that is causing harm.
*
Seriously? Where do you live OP?

3 hrs of bombs? No wonder your 3 year old is crying and shaking.

My 3 year olds liked to look out of the window with lights off.

Have you thought of ear defenders?

UABVU for bullish approach.

ThatAlbinoCat · 06/11/2023 10:19

There were some wankers letting them off until 11.20 last night, not far from me

justaboutdonenow · 06/11/2023 10:21

BitOutOfPractice · 06/11/2023 10:16

I’d say it’s just another excuse for dog lovers to advocate that their pets come before humans but there you go, there’s more than one way to read the thread.

I mean, my dogs DO come before you, random stranger on the internet, so you're not wrong.

The difference is my dogs & I get on with our lives & don't bother anyone else because I'm a responsible owner who makes sure they aren't a bother or impact on those around me.

Which is more than can be said for the owner of the random stray firework that hit my nephew in the face 2 days ago when he was just coming out of his own home.

SchadenfreudeIstMeinMittelname · 06/11/2023 10:22

NugatoryMatters · 06/11/2023 09:16

Also think of all the choke hazard foods out there that people simply do not need to be eating. Other foods are just fine to meet nutritional needs.

Let’s ban bubble tea. Those pearls are a dreadful risk. And there’s no need for it. People can just drink liquids. Grapes maybe can be served only by specially licensed chefs.

Edited

The first thing in the queue to be banned is obviously the term 'fun'. It is clearly very triggering to some idiots people.

BeadedBubbles · 06/11/2023 10:25

@justaboutdonenow - that's awful. I hope your nephew is okay.

I know someone who for the last couple of weeks most evenings has had teens chucking fireworks at people walking along her street.

sunglassesonthetable · 06/11/2023 10:26

It probably differs from place to place.

Regional city here and not a massive deal. Mostly organised display and then about a week or so of occasional bursts when it runs into Diwali.

Dog gets annoyed. But we are trying to train him.

We do some sparklers and a variety box. So do some neighbours.

II suppose I'm a cunt then x

BitOutOfPractice · 06/11/2023 10:28

It’s also more than can be said for many (most?) dog owners though @justaboutdonenow.

I don’t let off fireworks but I have to encounter people’s badly trained dogs on a daily basis.

So I’d say we’re even aren’t we the “dog haters” and the “Fur babies” brigades 🤷‍♀️

justaboutdonenow · 06/11/2023 10:28

BeadedBubbles · 06/11/2023 10:25

@justaboutdonenow - that's awful. I hope your nephew is okay.

I know someone who for the last couple of weeks most evenings has had teens chucking fireworks at people walking along her street.

Thankyou, he was more shaken up than anything, he reacted pretty quickly & thankfully didn't get burned, but a child may not have been so lucky.

justaboutdonenow · 06/11/2023 10:32

BitOutOfPractice · 06/11/2023 10:28

It’s also more than can be said for many (most?) dog owners though @justaboutdonenow.

I don’t let off fireworks but I have to encounter people’s badly trained dogs on a daily basis.

So I’d say we’re even aren’t we the “dog haters” and the “Fur babies” brigades 🤷‍♀️

I didn't realise it was a competition, but I don't refer to my dogs as 'fur babies'.

Much as I love them, they're dogs & are treated like dogs, not babies.

I don't speak for all dog owners, but not all of them are a problem.

All fireworks OTOH, by their very nature will be impacting someone, or something, somewhere.

BitOutOfPractice · 06/11/2023 10:36

I know you don’t call them fur babies. Just like I’m not a dog hater. Obviously I didn’t make that point very well @justaboutdonenow

Im saying that the people on the extremes (the fur baby idiots and the idiots letting off massive bangers) are spoiling it for everyone.

Calling anyone who lets off fireworks a cunt, or saying all dogs should be euthanised if they so much as bark (I’ve seen similar said on here. Absolutely nuts!) are equally stupid extremes as well.

god I’m tired so if that’s gibberish, forgive me! 😂

Fulshaw · 06/11/2023 10:37

Look, there are wanker dog owners and wanker firework owners. ‘Twas ever thus.