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Fuck fireworks

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FenFairy · 05/11/2023 19:09

Every single person setting them in their gardens is an arsehole.

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Mademetoxic · 05/11/2023 23:50

Willyoujustbequiet · 05/11/2023 23:48

Yes I can definitely see the argument for organised displays only.

But don't agree with a complete ban.

They should be banned for public sale.

Only for one night a year, organised displays only via the council.

fluffyboos · 05/11/2023 23:51

Personally I think they should be banned.

I have several cats who get terrified every year and plus its not good for the wildlife.

I feel sorry for the poor animals that suffer.

Giveuprobot · 05/11/2023 23:52

fluffyboos · 05/11/2023 23:51

Personally I think they should be banned.

I have several cats who get terrified every year and plus its not good for the wildlife.

I feel sorry for the poor animals that suffer.

Are your cats good for the wildlife then?

fluffyboos · 05/11/2023 23:55

@Giveuprobot I have indoor Ragdoll cats that dont go out actually Grin

ScremeEggs · 05/11/2023 23:55

They should be banned for public sale.
Yes, let's ban everything we don't personally like.

Only for one night a year, organised displays only via the council.
Yeah, Fuck other traditions like Diwali for example. 🙄
Who takes precedence? Who gets to decide when is acceptable?
No NYE celebrations, soz - you had your one day allowance in November.
No Diwali fireworks. We've had the allocated one day slot.
Or maybe we should do Diwali fireworks just one day for the year and give up/forfeit Guy Fawkes tradition .
Honestly I swear people don't think through how that would even work

HowcanIhelp123 · 05/11/2023 23:59

I like fireworks, and I think displays on bonfire night, NYE, religious festivals etc are fine.

However, even as someone who likes fireworks I don't think general public should be able to buy them and it pisses me off that people set them off at random on a nightly basis from mid October to February. Absolutely no need and some people are total idiots with them.

DiscoBeat · 06/11/2023 00:01

I love fireworks, and we usually have them at home but we've been buying silent ones these last couple of years. I think those ones are ok. For the loud ones we go to public displays.

knowthescore · 06/11/2023 00:04

Willyoujustbequiet · 05/11/2023 23:47

I have PTSD and love fireworks.

I have PTSD related to sexual assault and I also love fireworks, specifically professional displays with choreographed launching of high-quality fireworks. I don't love DCat hiding under my sofa night after night because of the bangs from neighbours' gardens.

The PTSD I was referring to was the kind of PTSD that a soldier would come home with after a tour of duty in Basra or Helmand, where loud explosive bangs will trigger flashbacks to roadside IEDs and shelling.

SurelySmartie · 06/11/2023 00:06

It’s been constant for hours and hours. Last night as well as tonight. So many I just don’t understand how people can afford it. All these mad loud ones cost hundreds of pounds. They’ve been going off in their thousands across the whole city, where are people getting the money from?

Dontcallmescarface · 06/11/2023 00:07

Oh how I wish it was only a handful of times a year, but no. We live near an "exclusive country hotel" and every time there is a wedding, no matter what time of year it is, up go the fireworks. Although there was one a few weeks ago that had drones instead. I could have personally kissed the couple who opted for that.

knowthescore · 06/11/2023 00:11

Fireworks are legally meant to stop at 11pm. There is still the odd one going off here now. It's calmed down enough for DCat to come out and sit on me at least but he's still jumping a little every time another one goes off.

If people can't be trusted to stop their fireworks at 11pm when folks have got work in the morning, they shouldn't be allowed to have them.

krustykittens · 06/11/2023 00:20

I don't know if anyone has already mentioned it, but police were attacked with fireworks tonight in Edinburgh. I love fireworks but there are too many dickheads amongst the general public. I do think they should be limited to public displays.

SharkBrilliant · 06/11/2023 00:32

Fireworks are currently going off here at half past midnight. Who knows what time they’ll stop tonight…. Last night (Saturday) they were still going off as late as 3am.

I suspect the “have some fun” and “live a little” posters are oooohing and ahhhhing at a pretty display at a sociable time, not listening to constant bangs and crashes when you’re trying to sleep because you have to get up for work in five hours time.

They should be banned for domestic use as there’s too many selfish idiots who don’t care about waking the whole neighbourhood for days and days on end

Costacoffeeeisbettterthanstarbucks · 06/11/2023 04:40

User0000009 · 05/11/2023 20:43

Fireworks are pointless shit. Just an excuse to make noise and disturb people. I think before you are allowed to buy them you should have to answer questions on the history of the 1605 Gunpowder Plot because let’s face it the majority of moron cunts making the racket won’t even have a clue why they’re doing it. Wankers

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ImNotReallySpartacus · 06/11/2023 05:59

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On that basis, should cars, stepladders and kitchen knives also be banned?

ImNotReallySpartacus · 06/11/2023 06:26

fluffyboos · 05/11/2023 23:51

Personally I think they should be banned.

I have several cats who get terrified every year and plus its not good for the wildlife.

I feel sorry for the poor animals that suffer.

Very few of us like to see animals suffer, but they are guests in human society and, like any guest, they have to take their hosts as they find them. Which may from time to time include a few loud bangs. Think of it as payback for all the Pedigree Chum.

TheFretfulPorpentine · 06/11/2023 06:36

User0000009 · 05/11/2023 20:43

Fireworks are pointless shit. Just an excuse to make noise and disturb people. I think before you are allowed to buy them you should have to answer questions on the history of the 1605 Gunpowder Plot because let’s face it the majority of moron cunts making the racket won’t even have a clue why they’re doing it. Wankers

If that logic were applied consistently, nobody would be allowed to go carol singing or attend Christmas parties unless they could answer questions about the Gospel nativity narratives. And turned up at church on Christmas Day.

pictoosh · 06/11/2023 06:46

There are a lot of silly, angry people on this thread.

tpxqi · 06/11/2023 06:54

Mademetoxic · 05/11/2023 23:01

I'm sure everyone on this thread would be up in arms if you were allowed to walk into a shop and purchase a gun for a few days.

You are on the wrong thread. This thread is not about guns.

Bingsbongs · 06/11/2023 07:19

Giveuprobot · 05/11/2023 21:46

Current serving personnel aren't veterans

They're both potentially, aren't they? My husband is a veteran of a number of wars whilst also being a currently serving soldier.

He also has the standard dose of PTSD and famously hurled himself for cover at balloons popping at a birthday party. He hardly loves this week but is aware that this is a 'him' problem and not a society problem.

My husband too has been to a couple of active hot spots,lost friends,came back with injuries, has PTSD, sudden loud noises from behind make him jump and he has 60pcnt hearing loss- but that does not hinder him organising a display for our children who squeal with joy. Our child with asd is terrified of dogs but we cant even go to the park without over half being off the leash- should we call for a complete ban on the dogs?

WeighDownOnMe · 06/11/2023 07:24

😆😆 @tpxq that made me laugh i

crochetmonkey74 · 06/11/2023 07:33

This thread is crazy but I'm loving it.

meatbaseddessert · 06/11/2023 07:35

@ImNotReallySpartacus On that basis, should cars, stepladders and kitchen knives also be banned?

Well no because all those things have a significant function in society. Fireworks have absolutely no function whatsoever.

NugatoryMatters · 06/11/2023 07:41

luxuryinteriors · 05/11/2023 21:56

Halloween: Americanized/begging/ tacky/terrifying OAP's ✅

Bonfire Night: terrified toddlers/crying and shaking/won't somebody think of the sheep ✅

What's the next in the sequence?

It's nice to know that in a world gone mad the same old bollocks is trotted out year after year on MN ❤️

We’ve already had at least one ‘is it too early to put the Christmas tree up?’ thread in 2023.

There will be many of more of them before we get to Boxing Day and all the ‘taking down the tree because I’m fed up with it’ threads start.

In between , yes there will be complaining about 21st century advent calendars (with toys, not even just chocolate) and why can’t people appreciate a nice picture one threads. And complaining about elf of the shelf.

As PP said, also whinging about Christmas Eve boxes, and so many planned and scheduled pre-Christmas activities.

And the ‘have I bought enough presents’ threads mixed in with the people who refuse to buy more than 4 things for their children (complete with reciting that rhyme repeatedly). And threads arguing about bread sauce.

Christmas really is peak MN seasonal
whinging. Halloween and bonfire night are just dress rehearsals for the true bollocks wheeled out at Christmas. 😁

crochetmonkey74 · 06/11/2023 07:45

And for those disingenuously citing ptsd as a reason for banning. There is not one part of ptsd therapy that suggests avoidance as a tactic

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