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"Pumpkin picking" WTF

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HauntedGusset · 29/10/2023 17:21

Driving home from a visit to family today there was an absolutely massive traffic jam caused by cars entering/leaving a farm shop that also has a small events centre attached. I last passed the farm shop a few weeks ago and they had some other event on with cars parked all over the field nearest the road. Anyway today the same field was covered in huge pumpkins with families trudging round in the mud "picking" them - but they didn't grow there, they can't have done as the same field was a car park last month Confused They've just been plonked there. Someone tell me why this is a thing?

(And no, I don't have small DC anymore so I suppose I've missed this becoming popular, I was vaguely aware people pick pumpkins but imagined it to be like picking strawberries where you actually pick them fresh from the plant, not like a crapper muddier version of just buying one from Lidl!)

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OKt · 29/10/2023 20:32

Halloween celebration, don't like that at all.

DiscoBeat · 29/10/2023 20:31

Pumpkins? Whatever happened to the turnip lanterns of my youth?? I don't think we knew what a pumpkin was back in the 60s.

My Dad grew them back then, and we grew up in the 70s with his home grown pumpkins.

DiscoBeat · 29/10/2023 20:29

Please read eatsleepfarmrepeat 's post, as it answers most of the questions on here!
I must admit, in my naivete I used to think the pumpkins lying next to the vines had naturally fallen off. I can see why they would be moved to a more navigable field during this wet weather, considering they had to be cut anyway.

SurprisedWithAHorse · 29/10/2023 20:27

thenightsky · 29/10/2023 20:23

Pumpkins? Whatever happened to the turnip lanterns of my youth?? I don't think we knew what a pumpkin was back in the 60s.

After a large Irish community emigrated to America, the tradition began to shift towards pumpkins, although obviously some places remain traditional. Pumpkins are much better for it; they're easier to hollow out and carve and the smell is less strong.

As before, there's inevitably some cross-cultural influence from Samhain as it shares the date.

JudgeJ · 29/10/2023 20:26

thenightsky · 29/10/2023 20:23

Pumpkins? Whatever happened to the turnip lanterns of my youth?? I don't think we knew what a pumpkin was back in the 60s.

And weren't they sods to hollow out of carve! Don't know they're born these days. When did pumpkins become the 'thing' in the UK?

Itisyourturntowashthebath · 29/10/2023 20:26

Anyone who has tried carving a swede lantern will understand the appeal of pumpkins.

ColleenDonaghy · 29/10/2023 20:25

Jellykat · 29/10/2023 19:35

Small children playing with little wheelbarrows, petting animals, doing a treasure hunt in the woods, toasting marshmallows, playing in a playground, excited on a tractor. None of that feels materialistic to me, it's as wholesome as it gets.

Colleen, sorry i do think its hilarious, that to you the above is as 'wholesome as it gets', its a commercial venture cashing in on Halloween tourism, but hey knock yourself out..
To me the reality of farming here in West Wales is very different!

Nearly missed this.

Geez.

Yes, I think a family day out at the farm is a wholesome activity. We do it a few times a year - usually Halloween, Christmas and a DC's birthday. It's about time together, and time away from commitments. Couldn't give two shits about the reality of farming tbh.

If the farm makes a profit out of it then all the better, it's a small family business and it's nice to see them doing well. As so many have pointed out, there's a CoL crisis.

FlissyPaps · 29/10/2023 20:24

theleafandnotthetree · 29/10/2023 20:16

You took your dog for photos at a pumpkin patch? I have no words....

You trying to belittle and shame posters for enjoying an activity with their pet?
I have no words….

thenightsky · 29/10/2023 20:23

Pumpkins? Whatever happened to the turnip lanterns of my youth?? I don't think we knew what a pumpkin was back in the 60s.

Itsnotchristmasyet · 29/10/2023 20:23

funinthesun19 · 29/10/2023 17:44

It’s all for social media. It’s so the mum can get a picture.

I don’t have social media.

I did it because my child found my child found it fun and I enjoy doing things that my child finds fun.

Pumpkin picking is great!
And the muddier you get, the better!

It is so much more expensive than getting one from s shop though and you know the land owner has probably just bought them for the exact same shop and sold them on for triple the price.

Bluetomaton · 29/10/2023 20:21

Yep we went ‘pumpkin picking’ last year and it was literally just a load of pumpkins plonked in a field which were overpriced. And then a few things set up basically just for Instagram. Dc weren’t particularly interested, the only thing they were into was this pumpkin house thing but they couldn’t even play in it as everyone else was so busy trying to get their frigging Instagram photos we felt they were in the way. Haven’t bothered this year!

Karwomannghia · 29/10/2023 20:21

It’s all a bit fake but like everything you get what you can put of it and my dd enjoyed it, finding the perfect pumpkin, pushing a wheelbarrow round, looking at all the different coloured and sized pumpkins and there was a slide as well! luckily we did it on a gorgeous day pre mud; great way to spend a few hours.

overwhelmed2023 · 29/10/2023 20:20

It's all over Facebook! Can't see the appeal at all haha

DiscoBeat · 29/10/2023 20:19

My only criticism of it is that the place had "fill a wheelbarrow for £37 [I think)" and some people were going a bit nuts.

Maybe they realized they weren't going to sell them all? Then it avoids the food waste. I would have got some for my chickens and made lots of pumpkin soup and pumpkin puree for my dog, so I don't see that as a bad thing (as long as there was enough to go around, of course).

UpInYourHead · 29/10/2023 20:18

I took my dog to one for some photos.

Of fuck, you’ve done it now @Vet73 🤣🤣🤣

SurprisedWithAHorse · 29/10/2023 20:18

chaosmaker · 29/10/2023 20:11

Isn't it just monetizing a pagan festival imported directly from the states. It'd be more exciting to grow your own.

Halloween is a Christian festival. It's on the same day as Samhain but Hallowmas and Hallows Eve were initiated by Pope Gregory III in the 8th century. Allhallowtide is the season encompassing All Saints Day, All Souls Day and Hallowmas. Not hard to see how festivals for souls and saints evolved to become ghostly and spooky.

There will inevitably be influence from Samhain as it shares the date, but it's originally a Christian festival.

Cumbrianlife · 29/10/2023 20:17

Plenty of farmers do this. They're just trying to survive in a crap economic climate. Nobody, unless they're thick, thinks they grew there in perfect rows of freshly laid straw.

theleafandnotthetree · 29/10/2023 20:16

Vet73 · 29/10/2023 19:06

I took my dog to one for some photos. It was free to enter and pumpkins started from £1. We were there for 2 hours and took home a giant £6 pumpkin to support the small family run farm. It brightened my mood in a difficult week and it didn’t hurt anyone

You took your dog for photos at a pumpkin patch? I have no words....

UpInYourHead · 29/10/2023 20:14

COL crisis and people will pay for this rubbish.

COL crisis isn’t impacting everyone too badly. Even if it is, do you begrudge people a fairly cheap day out with their kids? Parents are trying to do their best. And farmers need to make money to, they’re living with the COL crisis too. I wish people engaged their brain before typing.

Contraryjane · 29/10/2023 20:14

00100001 · 29/10/2023 17:32

I presume it's the same thing that draws people to pay to go to lavender fields in the summer?

I used to live near lavender fields. The local roads were snarled with cars full of people wanting to waft around looking rustic. Twats.

CurlsandCurves · 29/10/2023 20:13

Friends of ours have a small holding. They grow and sell Christmas trees, breed animals, etc. This year they grew and sold pumpkins on a small piece of land they had available. Very small scale, but if it’s helped them make a bit more money and people have visited and had fun, then everyone’s a winner I’d say.

TheWayTheLightFalls · 29/10/2023 20:13

We've done this two years running with young kids. £3.50 to get in, we spend a happy hour walking around, carting kids around in wheelbarrows, taking photos, watching tractors go up and down, umming and aahing over this pumpkin or that one, maybe a hot chocolate in the farm shop/cafe, then home. This year we spent £8 on four pumpkins.

It's a shit year and a shit time of year to entertain young kids, so it worked for us. My only criticism of it is that the place had "fill a wheelbarrow for £37 [I think)" and some people were going a bit nuts. I work in food waste and that's a real turn-off for me.

DiscoBeat · 29/10/2023 20:13

That's odd! We've always gone to actual pumpkin fields. Did they cover the whole car park with straw then?

Jellykat · 29/10/2023 20:12

DrMarshaFieldstone · 29/10/2023 19:58

’Wholesome’ doesn’t mean ‘authentically reflective of farming life’ though, does it? We don’t let six-year-olds administer foot-and-mouth inoculations or massage cows’ udders to help avoid mastitis on their trips to family farms either.

Plenty of posters have questioned this pumpkin picking tourism, yet i've been called snobbish childish patronising..... whatever 🙄

No, of course we dont let six year olds do that DrMarshall fgs, but how about teaching kids the names of birds, trees etc.. taking them for a walk to observe nature around us.. or planting seeds to look after, grow things in a pot they can eat.. that to me is more 'wholesome', not going to a Pumpkin patch to toast Marshmallows and get their face painted!

chaosmaker · 29/10/2023 20:11

Isn't it just monetizing a pagan festival imported directly from the states. It'd be more exciting to grow your own.

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