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"Pumpkin picking" WTF

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HauntedGusset · 29/10/2023 17:21

Driving home from a visit to family today there was an absolutely massive traffic jam caused by cars entering/leaving a farm shop that also has a small events centre attached. I last passed the farm shop a few weeks ago and they had some other event on with cars parked all over the field nearest the road. Anyway today the same field was covered in huge pumpkins with families trudging round in the mud "picking" them - but they didn't grow there, they can't have done as the same field was a car park last month Confused They've just been plonked there. Someone tell me why this is a thing?

(And no, I don't have small DC anymore so I suppose I've missed this becoming popular, I was vaguely aware people pick pumpkins but imagined it to be like picking strawberries where you actually pick them fresh from the plant, not like a crapper muddier version of just buying one from Lidl!)

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CombatBarbie · 30/10/2023 12:37

Couple years ago we went to one, some still had the sticker on £1.50.....on weigh in they wanted £25....and people were paying!!

SurprisedWithAHorse · 30/10/2023 12:32

ManateeFair · 30/10/2023 12:29

Why is people talking their kids run about in a field and choose pumpkins any better/worse than taking them to run about at, eg, castle ruins or a beach or the park? It gets them outdoors, and it's a once-a-year thing so it feels like an exciting novelty for them, and they get to carve a pumpkin afterwards. It's not really a big deal, is it? I don't have kids but to me, this just seems like a day out where they get some fresh air and then come home with a pumpkin, rather than a bit of plastic tat from a gift shop. Sounds fine.

Also, sounds like a really good way for farmers to diversify and bring in some much needed extra income.

Because

a) they don't do it themselves and it's not enough for it merely not to be their thing, it must also be a sign of their moral and overall superiority

b) it's become a bit more popular in recent years (it isn't a new thing) and they must hasten to distance themselves from anything popular because otherwise they won't be above the masses.

I'm surprised nobody's claimed it's so terribly working class yet but I'm sure they will soon.

ManateeFair · 30/10/2023 12:29

Why is people talking their kids run about in a field and choose pumpkins any better/worse than taking them to run about at, eg, castle ruins or a beach or the park? It gets them outdoors, and it's a once-a-year thing so it feels like an exciting novelty for them, and they get to carve a pumpkin afterwards. It's not really a big deal, is it? I don't have kids but to me, this just seems like a day out where they get some fresh air and then come home with a pumpkin, rather than a bit of plastic tat from a gift shop. Sounds fine.

Also, sounds like a really good way for farmers to diversify and bring in some much needed extra income.

CandyLeBonBon · 30/10/2023 12:28

KajsaKavat · 30/10/2023 11:05

It’s so much fun and where we go yij can go in the evening and it has a spooky glow up trail with skeletons and lazers, a ferris wheel. It’s a whole thing. I’ve taken my now 16 year old for a few years and we both love it. I don’t mind paying I bit extra for making this season a little less grey and rainy.

That sounds brilliant!

TheBirdintheCave · 30/10/2023 12:05

KajsaKavat · 30/10/2023 11:05

It’s so much fun and where we go yij can go in the evening and it has a spooky glow up trail with skeletons and lazers, a ferris wheel. It’s a whole thing. I’ve taken my now 16 year old for a few years and we both love it. I don’t mind paying I bit extra for making this season a little less grey and rainy.

Oh hey I think I know the one you mean!

mn29 · 30/10/2023 11:31

All for the photos for social media!

AdobeWanKenobi · 30/10/2023 11:13

TheWayTheLightFalls · 30/10/2023 07:27

Do you begrudge your parents making a living @Rossannah ? An odd and oddly spiteful thing to call their customers "mugs".

I agree, what a horrid post. Might be best not to insult your parents customer base when you've posted on here where you are from.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 30/10/2023 11:06

We took the Gdcs to a pumpkin-pick in a huge field, but they had obviously grown there. Much more expensive than buying a couple in Asda, but there were loads of Halloween decorations and other activities, and the Gdcs thoroughly enjoyed it, so it was worth it.

KajsaKavat · 30/10/2023 11:05

It’s so much fun and where we go yij can go in the evening and it has a spooky glow up trail with skeletons and lazers, a ferris wheel. It’s a whole thing. I’ve taken my now 16 year old for a few years and we both love it. I don’t mind paying I bit extra for making this season a little less grey and rainy.

CasperGutman · 30/10/2023 11:01

I've nothing against the activity if people want to do it. But there does seem to be an epidemic of poorly thought-through traffic management associated with it. I ended up stuck in gridlocked traffic for 45 minutes due to one of these near me. IMO local authorities should be given the power to shut this kind of thing down if it causes problems on that scale. Many of those stuck will have been trying to make a journey for a more important purpose (e.g., just about anything!).

mindutopia · 30/10/2023 10:53

I think it's a bit like PYO christmas tree. The ones I've seen have never been on an actual tree farm. The trees are cut. They prop them up in a field. You wander around and 'pick' your tree and someone comes to bag it up and shove it on your car. Costs like £50 more per tree than going to the garden centre, but you get an experience. There's hot chocolate for sale and a Santa's grotto. I'm cheap, and I can grow things myself, so it's not for me, but the PYO farm near us is always massively busy no matter what season and what they have for picking (currently, it's pumpkins).

That said, we grow our own pumpkin patch and go pumpkin picking every year and the kids love it. I have a wheelbarrow full of pumpkins still even after all the carving and all the pumpkin soup.

PersephonePomegranate23 · 30/10/2023 10:46

Really? You can't believe that people enjoy a day out just for the fun of it?

How sad.

I totally agree!

I do take photos but I never post them anywhere and am not active on those types of SM platforms.

I do love seeing the memories of previous years come up on my Google Photos, though. Surprisingly to some, memories of happy times are beautiful things.

Soozikinzii · 30/10/2023 10:41

I've got a couple from aldi but I don't see any harm in a farm visit with snacks etc proba good for the kids to see where things grow ?

IsItFinallySeptemberYet · 30/10/2023 10:37

I feel sorry for some people’s kids 😂 take them pumpkin picking ffs, have a proper day out for once! Rather than taking them to the supermarket (that they probably go to every week) to pick a pumpkin off a shelf 🙄 they won’t be kids forever you know!

HauntedGusset · 30/10/2023 10:31

Bloody hell @RedToothBrush - I'm the OP who didn't get the point of it, and even I think that's harsh 🤣

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mollypuss1 · 30/10/2023 08:11

@RedToothBrush lazy people spend a few hours walking round farms and pushing wheelbarrows and non-lazy people go to Aldi? Am I reading you right?

LolaSmiles · 30/10/2023 07:42

cadburyegg

There's a range of places in my area ranging from the low key to the family photoshoot venue. As soon as someone says they're going to family photoshoot PYO I know by 7pm they'll have photos on socials at the same photo spots that everyone else did last weekend. Bonus for having coordinated outfits or autumnal themed outfits.

It doesn't seem like a very cheap couple of hours by the time you've paid to go in, then paid for your stuff, then paid to have whatever artisan thing is being sold at the food trucks/cafes at a huge mark up.

It's a genius business model and not my cup of tea, but it's a nice day out for families so offline I keep my opinions of that venue to myself.

Cincinnatus · 30/10/2023 07:29

It’s another money making fad I guess. The only ‘pumpkin picking’ I do is pick one from Waitrose.

TheWayTheLightFalls · 30/10/2023 07:27

Do you begrudge your parents making a living @Rossannah ? An odd and oddly spiteful thing to call their customers "mugs".

Apossum · 30/10/2023 07:18

Aphroditee · 29/10/2023 23:55

Who are the mugs exactly?

Punters who want to enjoy and support your parents business?

Well, quite. It’s such a shitty way to talk about their customers! God forbid anyone just have a bit of fun for the sake of a few quid and support local businesses in the process 🤣

RedToothBrush · 30/10/2023 06:32

SurprisedWithAHorse · 29/10/2023 21:48

I think this has just pipped the "dogs at the pumpkin patch are the collapse of society" person to the post. Congratulations, gold medal to you, but honourable mention for the other person.

I am honoured!

As fun as it may be, fuck me, it's a lazy person thing.

I'd rather people bought them at Aldi!

SurprisedWithAHorse · 30/10/2023 06:31

The number of people congratulating themselves for their cleverness in noticing that the price is more than the cost of a pumpkin, who can't grasp that you're paying for the pumpkin plus an activity.

If it's not your thing, don't do it. Is this the new Christmas Eve box on here? Some absolutely harmless thing enjoyed by some families that has become the root of all evil for anyone who doesn't fancy it?

MaryShelley1818 · 30/10/2023 05:33

Crikey there's some miserable people around.

We went to one after school on Friday night, DS5 and DD2. It was on a proper farm so pumpkins home grown but obviously cut for safety. They spent ages selecting a pumpkin each - we paid £5 entry and then because their pumpkins weren't huge they just waved us through at the till. We had tea there (hot sandwiches, chips, drink and cake) then there were some fairground rides and they chose one ride each. DS declared it the best day of his life!! 🤣🤣 It was a lovely couple of hours activity.

TooBigForMyBoots · 30/10/2023 01:06

The fun sponges are out in force on this thread. So glad most posters understand childhood, economics and how to have a good time.Grin

Aphroditee · 29/10/2023 23:55

Rossannah · 29/10/2023 23:30

My parents own a hobby farm with a little petting zoo thing attached.. the new thing is pumpkin picking and they get the Pumpkins in by the pallet at about 60p per pumpkin, throw them all over the barren field and charge people about £6 a pumpkin plus they take exta takings on petting zoo and then the cafe, animal feeds etc. Mugs

Who are the mugs exactly?

Punters who want to enjoy and support your parents business?

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