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"Pumpkin picking" WTF

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HauntedGusset · 29/10/2023 17:21

Driving home from a visit to family today there was an absolutely massive traffic jam caused by cars entering/leaving a farm shop that also has a small events centre attached. I last passed the farm shop a few weeks ago and they had some other event on with cars parked all over the field nearest the road. Anyway today the same field was covered in huge pumpkins with families trudging round in the mud "picking" them - but they didn't grow there, they can't have done as the same field was a car park last month Confused They've just been plonked there. Someone tell me why this is a thing?

(And no, I don't have small DC anymore so I suppose I've missed this becoming popular, I was vaguely aware people pick pumpkins but imagined it to be like picking strawberries where you actually pick them fresh from the plant, not like a crapper muddier version of just buying one from Lidl!)

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funinthesun19 · 29/10/2023 18:07

Screamingabdabz · 29/10/2023 18:03

I’m all for it so YABU, but let’s not pretend we are all doing it for kiddiwinkies to have ‘fun’ as much as we are getting photos to show off and brag about it on social media!

Exactly! It’s not about the kids having fun as much as it is about the haybale family photo 😂🎃👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

Sweetpeasaremadeforbees · 29/10/2023 18:07

Oh I too assumed that you 'picked' your own pumpkin, didn't know they were ready picked. What's the point in spreading them all out in a muddy field? Why not just pile them up somewhere dry and let people sort through them?

Echobelly · 29/10/2023 18:06

We did it about two years ago when our kids were 10 and 13 - I think all the other kids there were under 6 but ours didn't care and enjoyed the picking and climbing the giant pile of haybales. It was daft fun.

Pickingmyselfup · 29/10/2023 18:05

We went on a day out a few weeks ago, we looked at some animals, kids did a few activities as well as soft play. They also had a pumpkin picking session where we were given a voucher to get the kids a pumpkin and went on a tractor to the fields.

Some of them were placed, some still on the vines but the kids had a blast choosing their own pumpkin, going on a tractor and getting covered in mud. Me not so much.

I forgot to take any pictures (apart from of a guinea pig to send to my mum) so it definitely wasn't "all about the gram" It's because it's something different and a lot more fun for the kids than going to the supermarket to get one.

BogRollBOGOF · 29/10/2023 18:05

Mine grew out of this kind of thing just as it started. There's a farm that does it in walking distance from home, and I get the joy of watching the pumpkins grow through the summer and autumn. Fair play to them.

I just know better than to drag a grudging DS1 through that volume of mud 😂

Spinnymop · 29/10/2023 18:05

We went for the first time this year and bloody loved it! The big pumpkins were pre cut but the smaller squashes were still on the vine and had to be wrestled off. Its a fun day out, brings in extra income for struggling farmers, helps small businesses like burger vans, coffee stands, Doughnuts, etc, and I get mum points for 'making memories' with the dc. Win win.

Smallgeranium · 29/10/2023 18:04

It sounds fun, if you have children of the right age. We always do strawberry picking, apple picking and sunflower picking (it’s very rural round us). There’s no harm it it, surely?

Justwondering36 · 29/10/2023 18:04

@midnightblue12 In previous years, I had wondered about the practicalities of the cutting!

This seems like one of the nicer Halloween activities. A clever bit of diversification for farmers.

Luana1 · 29/10/2023 18:04

funinthesun19 · 29/10/2023 17:44

It’s all for social media. It’s so the mum can get a picture.

We go to a pumpkin patch every year, the kids love it and I've never posted about it on social media..For us it's just one of the points in the year that marks the changing seasons, and beats an afternoon at home watching TV or whatever!

itsmyp4rty · 29/10/2023 18:04

Yes I stupidly thought you actually got to pick the pumpkin off the plant until recently. I guess I just couldn't imagine that people would pay £10 to go to a muddy field to buy a muddy pumpkin that's just been dropped there by the farmer. I'd just take mine to the park to play in the mud and buy a nice clean pumpkin from Tesco for £2.50. I guess it's all about #makingmemories but good on the farmers for cashing in on people's need to make everything into an event.

WimbyAce · 29/10/2023 18:04

We go to a local farm 5 mins away and the pumpkins are def grown there, some we had to break the stalks off. Kids love it, is a bit of fun in the fresh air and gives some extra money to the local farm, everyone's a winner in my eyes. Yes more expensive than going to Lidl but it's a bit more fun for the kids. I wouldn't be happy if they were charging entrance fee though.

ChishiyaBat · 29/10/2023 18:03

I've just been pumpkin picking, off the vine though. I'm carving them now and they are far superior to ones you get in lidl, they smell amazing, are soft and easy to scoop and my parrots are going to have a feast!

FrogFighter · 29/10/2023 18:03

You can actually recreate this yourself: buy some pumpkins from supermarket. Chuck in your local park or garden. Get DCs to ‘pick’ them.

or, just grow your own. Pumpkins are easy.

I agree traffic jams and crowds to fight over some pre placed pumpkins seems over commercialised. If you want fresh air, walk to the bloody shop and avoid being one of the ‘sheeple’.

(sorry if a bit shouty, wine has been taken)

Screamingabdabz · 29/10/2023 18:03

I’m all for it so YABU, but let’s not pretend we are all doing it for kiddiwinkies to have ‘fun’ as much as we are getting photos to show off and brag about it on social media!

NerrSnerr · 29/10/2023 18:03

We've done it in the past at our local PYO. It's only about a mile away from us and it a great local place with a free park for the kids so we like to support them where we can. I wasn't organised enough to book pumpkin picking from there this year but doing the Halloween trail tomorrow. My kids love it and it's a relatively cheap half term activity.

Overthebow · 29/10/2023 18:03

Freshair1 · 29/10/2023 17:41

It's naff. It's for the #makingmemories crowd. It's all about the pictures.

It’s really not, maybe for some people but not for a lot of us. My DC loves it, she gets to run around in a field and pick her own pumpkin. It’s cheap entertainment for a few pounds and then you get to carve the pumpkin at home too. If you don’t like it then don’t go to one but don’t assume everything is about photos!

DriftingDora · 29/10/2023 18:03

batsandeggs · 29/10/2023 17:32

It’s designed for kids who tend to love running about in mud and choosing something special to bring home for Halloween. Not sure what’s so offensive about it.

Er? OP didn't say it WAS offensive.🙄

Iamonetoo · 29/10/2023 18:02

eatsleepfarmrepeat · 29/10/2023 17:45

We have pumpkin picking on our farm for two weeks of the year.

We do it to diversify our income, we started a few years ago when the local farm shop closed and it has become very popular ever since. The commodity markets in farming are volatile and we’re absolutely fucked over by the supermarkets at every turn.

We do grow our own, they are purchased by merchants to trade on to supermarkets at a £/tonne, it works out at approx 25p per pumpkin for the growers who carry all of the cost and risk up to harvest. We figured by making it an attraction and selling a fair amount from the farm (at a very similar price to that which the supermarket sells to consumers) we can get a better margin whilst providing something which local families enjoy.

It’s really nice to see lots of children enjoying the mud and the outdoors and it does seem to be popular.

we have previously hosted it in the pumpkin fields where they are grown, but typically at this time of year and particularly after barbet it is very wet and unpleasant. We have to sever all the pumpkins from the plant prior to the picking anyway with knife so we figured it would be a more pleasant experience to bring them into grassed paddocks which are a lot more dry than wallowing in a planted field.

Honestly I think it's great that farmers can diversify, they're having a hard enough time as it is so let them provide the pumpkin experience

NameChange30 · 29/10/2023 18:02

What a bunch of misery guts some of you are!

It's half term, most parents of young children are looking for things to do - bonus points for outdoor activities to give the kids some fresh air and exercise. It's nearly halloween, most people buy pumpkins, farmers can grow pumpkins and need money.

Most of the farms near us make it an event with extras like hay bales to climb on, ride-on tractors, food stalls etc. It's a day out for families and an income stream for them. Win-win.

And if it annoys half of mumsnet I guess that's an added bonus!

JanglingJack · 29/10/2023 18:02

Slugs ate my pumpkin plant back in rainy July 😡

I did actually think these places grew them in my naivety. Oh well DD too old now anyway 🤷

DrMarshaFieldstone · 29/10/2023 18:00

sittinginacafe · 29/10/2023 17:46

It’s all the pointless driving that it involves that makes me despair.

Love to know if you feel the same about the National Trust.

PurpleChrayne · 29/10/2023 17:59

American nonsense.

midnightblue12 · 29/10/2023 17:59

CandyLeBonBon · 29/10/2023 17:27

It's no different to picking out a freshly cut Christmas tree from the garden centre.

It's a but of a fun family activity and is not, believe it or not, compulsory!

Traffic is shit everywhere. Life is a bit grim and miserable atm so I can't begrudge a bit of wholesome family fun like this!

Exactly.

eatsleepfarmrepeat · 29/10/2023 17:59

Justwondering36 · 29/10/2023 17:55

I only realised this year that it wasn’t actually cutting a pumpkin off the vine. Like the OP, I thought it was like the “pick your own” fruit in the summer. I think actually picking it would be more fun but if people are happy then it’s not the worst activity.

So, when we’ve had PYO pumpkin in the actual fields we have had to sever the pumpkin from the plant anyway as they are huge, fleshy stalks. The fields are wet, the vines leaves die away from sept onwards so more earth it exposed, it’s slippery and not pleasant, especially with young children. Picking them and moving them to a paddock for people to pick is a lot more pleasant experience and we’ve had a lot of customers comment to that end.

It’s not for everyone, but I can never understand why people find it such an offensive activity. We also have pigs and any excess is fed to them, it’s quite an efficient crop for us to grow.

HangingStars · 29/10/2023 17:57

We did pumpkin picking at a PYO farm - the pumpkins were grown there but pre-cut and moved to the undercover pumpkin picking area - there were thousands of them, and DC massively enjoyed rooting through them all to find the perfect one that was just the right size and shape with the right type of handle. It was an hour and a half in the fresh air where they weren’t on screens, and they actually got along with eachother, and well worth the £3 fee! Pumpkins themselves were no more expensive than the supermarket.

Though there is a place closer to us that charges like £18 per person for a “pumpkin experience”, and that is clearly insane, but it’s sold out every year!

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