More of a what would you do...
Every year in laws (and some of my family too) buy a lot of presents for the kids. Many of the presents are unsuitable due to DCs' severe learning disabilities (loose batteries, choking parts, made of glass!!) anyway so they get whisked to charity shop ASAP. But, family know we struggle for space in our house, everything bursting at the seams, they know DC don't play with toys really, but every year we get loads even though I have said in the past we're struggling with it. I'm always the bad guy if I bring it up and I also gave recently found out they've been sneaking lots of stuff from DH's childhood (with DH helping) into our garage. Obviously he can keep what he wants but it's really hard to get across the sheer amount he's keeping, and it's now starting to creep into the house, making the communal space less functional.
What would you do:
a) explicitly ask them all to get DC one gift each, preferably from a list (bit joyless, I know, but practical)
b) not say anything and just silently take it all to a charity shop in January (honestly DC won't care).