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Partner doesn't know where he was ??

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Lauryn95 · 10/10/2023 08:56

What would you do if your partner went out to the pub then it progressed to going to town as in late bars and clubs and then you woke up in the morning and he didn't come home ,then he didn't come home til noon the following day and "couldn't remember" where he stayed

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Lauryn95 · 10/10/2023 08:59

Yes I think so too,He's 100% cheated hasn't he

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howsaboutit · 10/10/2023 08:59

I’d be insulted he thought so little of me that when lying he didn’t even try to come up with something plausible!
Even if his memory of the night if blurry he’d still remember waking up somewhere this morning and remember how he got home.
I’d bet money that he cheated on you.

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Lauryn95 · 10/10/2023 08:59

As in he went out the sat came home Sunday noon ,I rang him and texted him and asked his friends at 10am where he was and they all said they lost him in town and Didn't know where he was then when he come home I said where have you been and he said "I don't know" "can't remember" were not speaking now and I don't know what to do ,do I need a divorce?

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LightDrizzle · 10/10/2023 08:57

I’d think he was lying and I’d thank my lucky stars were weren’t married.

newamsterdam · 10/10/2023 08:57

He knows exactly where he was. He just doesn't know you to know where he was.

Devilsmommy · 10/10/2023 08:57

I'd call bullshit. Someone's got something to hide