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Getting rings cut off

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BlackForestHotChocolate · 01/10/2023 19:31

At the end of August I took my dog for a walk, I wasn’t holding her lead properly and she pulled slightly but I think it bent my finger back/at a funny angle. It was immensely painful at the time but within a few days the pain subsided a bit so assumed no break/fracture. I couldn’t get my rings off as my finger was so swollen and painful but not ridiculously painful. It went down slightly but 7 weeks later and I still can’t get them anywhere near off and it feels as if the circulation is getting cut off where the rings are digging in.

Firstly does anyone have any idea what I may have done and secondly has anyone had their rings cut off, would you give to a jeweller for that? And if so does anyone have any rough cost of getting platinum rings ‘welded’ back together after? 🤦‍♀️ Thank you . First picture is the swollen one, second picture is my other hand for reference!

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DimplesToadfoot · 02/10/2023 00:17

I had to have my engagement ring cut off after a horse riding accident, I went to a local jeweller, he cut the ring off for free, then I left him with it to repair it.

It wasn't until years later that I realised he'd stolen the diamonds and replaced them with cubic zirconia 😞

Gardengirl108 · 02/10/2023 00:17

Have you tried the dental floss method yet? My rings were incredibly tight and having tried everything, was looking like I’d have to have them cut off (after a bit of a scare when I had to have them taped up for an MRI). Tried this and amazingly it worked. Good luck!

How to Remove a Stuck Ring (Hint: Dental Floss is Involved)

If you've ever tried on a ring that's a size too small, you're familiar with a certain sense of panic. While cooling your hand or holding it above your head ...

https://youtu.be/eJhynjCjgTk?si=yNri_RU1Dakmrlwj

Insommmmnia · 02/10/2023 00:16

Georgeandzippyzoo · 02/10/2023 00:10

I watched the Barnsley hospital programme a few days ago. A young lad needed his ring removing and went to the hospital. They tried several different tools, none worked, and the doctor called the fire station and the WHOLE crew AND fire engine turned up to cut it off, (still took them over an hour) so I wouldn't worry that you turned up at the station!!

😂That does make me feel better thank you!

Georgeandzippyzoo · 02/10/2023 00:10

Insommmmnia · 01/10/2023 20:50

I had mine cut off at a fire station too, I had an MRI the next day and I'd tried everything I could at home, I didn't even think of a jewellers though, I feel bad for taking up the fire fighters time now

I watched the Barnsley hospital programme a few days ago. A young lad needed his ring removing and went to the hospital. They tried several different tools, none worked, and the doctor called the fire station and the WHOLE crew AND fire engine turned up to cut it off, (still took them over an hour) so I wouldn't worry that you turned up at the station!!

saltinesandcoffeecups · 01/10/2023 23:24

Had to have mine cut at a hospital due to an injury. Hurt like hell at the time. The way my ring is designed it had to be cut at multiple points to get off. Took it to my jeweler and the fixed them both up like new. I think it was a couple of hundred to get them fixed.

RosesAndHellebores · 01/10/2023 22:44

My wedding ring is white and yellow gold and has beading on the edges. I broke my wrist in a bad fall. We got my engagement and eternity rings off (they were a tiny bit bigger) but the wedding ring wouldn't budge. It was cut off at hospital and I had surgery later.

A local independent jeweller resized it and repaired it with laser. It isn't perfect but after 30 years that's fine. The repair cost £185. I nearly fell off the chair as the ring cost £160 in 1991. I nearly fell off again when the jeweller said "seriously, it's 18ct and heavier than it looks, you'd pay £2k for that today" !!!!!!!!

Evasmissingletter · 01/10/2023 22:33

lots of videos on you tube using thread or dental floss. Try that … it worked for me in similar situation

Totaly · 01/10/2023 22:21

Go to the fire station. It’s quick, no waiting round.

hellohelp · 01/10/2023 22:19

What else do firefighters do? I had no idea you could go to them for a ring stuck on your finger!

Is this a common thing to know that I've only now discovered?

Counciltelly · 01/10/2023 21:06

I did it by bending back my finger like you did

Counciltelly · 01/10/2023 21:06

I pulled the ligaments in my finger. X rayed and no Break but swollen and sore for 6 months plus. Ended up at orthopaedics and doctor there said it had healed very well considering. I’ve now 90% of movement back but as the previous poster says it is a bit squint looking.

dogscatsandbabies · 01/10/2023 20:59

Have you lost any movement in your finger? Or does it move further than the others? There are a number of ligaments around that joint that can be injured when a finger is pulled / stretched. These ligaments can scar as they heal and create a permanent thickness to the joint

See if you can get some coban wrap (it's often known as vet wrap) and gently wrap some around the finger with no more than 50% stretch on the wrap. Keep that on for 3-4 hours and see if the swelling goes down a bit.

Insommmmnia · 01/10/2023 20:50

I had mine cut off at a fire station too, I had an MRI the next day and I'd tried everything I could at home, I didn't even think of a jewellers though, I feel bad for taking up the fire fighters time now

NewName122 · 01/10/2023 20:48

Cut it off ourselves to save going A&E when this happened. I couldn't watch and do not recommend it to people who do not have a trustworthy family member. Before this we tried the string trick (see youtube).

CherrySocks · 01/10/2023 20:45

Waxed thread worked for me after watching a YouTube video

Toddlerteaplease · 01/10/2023 20:39

I went to a local jeweller to have mine cut off. Though I think they stretched it more than necessary to get it off. But fortunately the setting isn't damaged.

KnowledgeableMomma · 01/10/2023 20:38

I broke my finger and needed a ring cut off. We had small enough tools we were able to do it at home but our jeweler friend (who repaired it after my finger was healed) said he cuts rings off for free. So a jeweler would totally cut it off for you.

GhostsInSnow · 01/10/2023 20:38

Wouldn’t be trying anything that might make the finger worse by trying to force them off. I’d go to the walk in tbh, they can also cut them off. If it’s swollen like that so far after the event it needs looking at properly.

AnneElliott · 01/10/2023 20:35

The fire service have sets of tools to take rings off. If you live close to a station pop down and they'll try and help.

Molly54320 · 01/10/2023 20:21

My fingers swelled in pregnancy. The doctor said I could get it cut at the hospital but that they care more about my finger than my ring and might do a bad job cutting it which might make it difficult for the jeweller to fix again!
So went to the jeweller where the rings came from, and they cut them for free. It will cost £30 each to get them fixed again (so £60 all together) so not a big cost!

Zoomizoom · 01/10/2023 20:17

Has mine cut off in pregnancy, was free at a jewellers and then £200 to have them both put back together

mrswhiplington · 01/10/2023 20:09

mouse70 · 01/10/2023 20:00

I had mine cut of at fire station.

I know someone who had theirs cut off at a fire station. Might be worth asking.

mouse70 · 01/10/2023 20:00

I had mine cut of at fire station.

DaftyLass · 01/10/2023 19:53

I fell in a hiking situation, and ended up breaking my hand, while in a tiny island.
I had to wait for the tides to change to get a boat back to the mainland, to get to a hospital, by then it had swollen like crazy and both my engagement ring and wedding ring had to be cut off, in multiple pieces.

I was sure I'd get it mended, at a slightly larger size, due to the sentiment. There were 18k white gold.
I saw the price, and started wearing my great grandmother's band instead

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