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Refusing to pay tradesmen

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Wifeoftrades · 27/09/2023 19:01

DH is a tradesman and has finished job. The customer is refusing to pay and it's quite obvious now that this was always his intention. He has admitted that there is no problem with the work but he can't afford it and never could but it needed doing. DH is out ££££ on materials and paying his employees.

I'm just so sick of tradespeople being treated like this, you wouldn't believe how common it is. There is basically no chance of him ever seeing that money.

How would you like to go to work for a week and then have your company say that they've decided not to pay you? Please do not hire someone if you can't pay them.

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Vettrianofan · 27/09/2023 20:42

That's incredible that he doesn't charge a deposit. Kitchen fitter charged us around 70% upfront payment then we settled the rest on completion of work. This was all in writing before work started though.

Wifeoftrades · 27/09/2023 20:40

Feeling a lot better about his prospects of getting paid after reading all of the suggestions on this thread.

It's just you hear so many stories similar to the ones people are sharing here of people who never see a penny it's heartbreaking.

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Mygosh · 27/09/2023 20:40

Don't try to remove work! It counts as criminal damage.

rhino12345 · 27/09/2023 20:39

My dad is a music teacher and I've helped him a couple of times with ones who don't pay.

There's a template you can download online for threatening court action. Very reliable as they usually panic after they've received that to their address!

Bailiffs - we've had to use them once. It was costly but it was a family who'd racked up thousands of pounds of bills and not paid (he also sourced instruments and tunes pianos etc)

Just keep phoning them. Time consuming but if you're relentless enough they will just give in. Even asking if they can do installments here and there.

There are other more extreme things you can do 😂 but the above tend to work quite well

Wifeoftrades · 27/09/2023 20:38

Palmasailor · 27/09/2023 20:10

It doesn’t matter that they’re worthless.

the real problem is your dp doesn’t want the confrontation.

trust me. Go back and start taking it apart. See what happens

as me how I know.

He is not scared of confrontation. But turning up to a property where the person has already made threats to do things like harm themself and say DH attacked them and trying to remove the work is not going to end well. I've suggested a bodycam in any future conversations he has in person or in writing is better.

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Applesaarenttheonlyfruit · 27/09/2023 20:37

OP your husband needs a signed engagement document before undertaking any work. If there is a contract in place, stage payments, and photo evidence of completion, he has to sue the homeowner. A strongly worded letter from a solicitor (we used a standard one) can often do the job. If you show real intent, plus you’ve got all the evidence, dated, which you present, most people buckle. Those that don’t, you take action.

Surely there is room for trade bodies to offer legal protection to trades people?

fuckssaaaaake · 27/09/2023 20:36

That's disgusting. I've always paid after but only because that's what they agree to but I would have paid half first if they asked. How dare he basically steal your partners services

2jacqi · 27/09/2023 20:35

Wifeoftrades · 27/09/2023 19:06

Sadly this isn't standard practice in his industry so customers would probably feel uncomfortable being asked to do so. Downpayments are sometimes done and I'm not sure whether one was paid in this case but the final invoice is not getting paid

Actually you would be surprised how many tradesmen go through the courts to get their money!!! My husband owns a company who does that legal work and I know there are builder, plumbers, sparkies, joiners, vehicle hires, plant hires! every type of company does! I know this because I process the documents!!!!

KvotheTheBloodless · 27/09/2023 20:35

bellabasset · 27/09/2023 20:31

Once you've got a!County ourt judgement put a charge on the property. Then issue a demand noticewhich will allow you to issue proceedings for bankruptcy. It worked for us, what was funny was the debtor had no idea we had charges on the property and his solicitor had to hand the proceeds over. I can still remember taking the call and my solicitor laughing at the other solicitors chagrin that we'd been sneaky. I'd paid an estate agent to check properties for sale so we knew I advance when they were up. I wish I'd gone to the auction now!. He partially mortgaged the other so every month when he pays that he knows it's because of us.

This. It'll be a long time coming but you'll get the money eventually.

If the person who owes the money has any assets like a car, CCJ can be passed to bailiffs for enforcement. If he works, a percentage of his pay can be deducted each month automatically (assuming he's not self employed).

Don't let this go, send the letter then take him to court.

Wifeoftrades · 27/09/2023 20:34

2jacqi · 27/09/2023 20:19

Does your husband know where the client works? You husband needs to see a solicitor about lodging a wage arrestment on the client. This will then be taken regularly from the clients wages before he gets them. His employer has to do this by law if he is served with the documents. All legal costs for the this also have to be paid by the client and are automatically added onto the debt so your husband does not lose any money. It might take time but it will eventually be paid off. Incidentally, what job did your husband do for the client?

Edited

I've never heard of this so thank you for that I will definitely look into it. I'm not sure if he knows where he works but realistically it's not hard to find out information about many people these days especially if they're on social media.

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Nursercurser · 27/09/2023 20:33

Is there any way you could report him to the police as I think this sounds like fraud?

PonkyPonky · 27/09/2023 20:31

Small claims isn’t time consuming. I’ve done it a few times as I work for a company of tradesman and this shit does happen. Just send a couple of warning letters attached to emails first and this is all you really need to upload as evidence that you’ve tried to get payment from him. Usually when they get the first letter from the court, they pay up. Plus they have to pay the fee also. Don’t let him get away with it.

Wifeoftrades · 27/09/2023 20:31

SENlife · 27/09/2023 20:03

My husband is a tradesman. It has happened to him multiple times, but if they ask for money up front the customer accuses of being a cowboy and after running off with the money (which he would never do, too honest and massively undercharging)
It also happened to his mate which sent his business under, what made it worse is it was a local cafe and when he approached them they used cancer as an excuse 😡 and clearly had no intention of paying and had been turning round to trades they owed thousands to and going oh by I have cancer (never high risk btw) now they have the locals all praising there achievements but none of the locals know that they got there through thieving and destroying tradesmens businesses and families. Makes my blood boil

That's appalling!!!

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bellabasset · 27/09/2023 20:31

Once you've got a!County ourt judgement put a charge on the property. Then issue a demand noticewhich will allow you to issue proceedings for bankruptcy. It worked for us, what was funny was the debtor had no idea we had charges on the property and his solicitor had to hand the proceeds over. I can still remember taking the call and my solicitor laughing at the other solicitors chagrin that we'd been sneaky. I'd paid an estate agent to check properties for sale so we knew I advance when they were up. I wish I'd gone to the auction now!. He partially mortgaged the other so every month when he pays that he knows it's because of us.

Wifeoftrades · 27/09/2023 20:30

Takeitonthechin · 27/09/2023 20:03

Get them to pay instalments weekly/ monthly
Take out what you've put in
Or take something of a similar value, jewellery, tvs, PS5 etc

I don't think more theft is what's needed to resolve this situation I'm afraid

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SENlife · 27/09/2023 20:29

The guy that lost his business etc doesn't want the hassle of people giving him abuse which would happen unfortunately

SheSaidHummingbird · 27/09/2023 20:28

@SENlife Name and shame on local media? Why not tell the people who are supporting the cafe?

redguitar123 · 27/09/2023 20:28

And his professional insurance should cover his legal costs to pursue this.

Mygosh · 27/09/2023 20:27

Is the customer willing to pay in installments? I once had a customer who got me to fit a boiler and said he had no money. I said I was prepared to wait and he paid by cheque over the following 3 months.

You are right about small claims. There was a woman in my area who was a professional non payer. She was buying and selling houses, getting lots of trades in and never paid a penny. My ex colleague took her to small claims and she had a huge list of things that weren't completed. One was where he had taken the wooden floor up, she complained there was gaps 🤷 he decided that the extra work would take weeks to complete and had to write the money off.

Much better to deal directly with the customer.

redguitar123 · 27/09/2023 20:27

Are you saying he's had nothing in advance? I'm sorry, that's hugely naive. Completely standard for a big project to pay maybe 20% upfront, then the rest in 20% instalments during the job and just leave the last 20% for the end and after snagging.

saltinesandcoffeecups · 27/09/2023 20:27

Good call I forgot about those.

ETA; this was in regards to lien process in the US.

Hankunamatata · 27/09/2023 20:25

Lessons were learned in our family with this. Deposits now taken, midway through work at least half payment has to be made then then rest on the day work is finished before leaving the house. It's all explained before work is started and written out in contract.

Vinrouge4 · 27/09/2023 20:22

I’ve noticed more and more that companies want paying in advance. Whether it’s work done in the house, logs delivered, boiler serviced etc. sadly that is the way to go now. Deposit in advance and final payment before the job is finished.

2jacqi · 27/09/2023 20:19

Wifeoftrades · 27/09/2023 19:01

DH is a tradesman and has finished job. The customer is refusing to pay and it's quite obvious now that this was always his intention. He has admitted that there is no problem with the work but he can't afford it and never could but it needed doing. DH is out ££££ on materials and paying his employees.

I'm just so sick of tradespeople being treated like this, you wouldn't believe how common it is. There is basically no chance of him ever seeing that money.

How would you like to go to work for a week and then have your company say that they've decided not to pay you? Please do not hire someone if you can't pay them.

Does your husband know where the client works? You husband needs to see a solicitor about lodging a wage arrestment on the client. This will then be taken regularly from the clients wages before he gets them. His employer has to do this by law if he is served with the documents. All legal costs for the this also have to be paid by the client and are automatically added onto the debt so your husband does not lose any money. It might take time but it will eventually be paid off. Incidentally, what job did your husband do for the client?

BIossomtoes · 27/09/2023 20:18

Brefugee · 27/09/2023 19:09

Of course it's a possiblity. If the property is compromised, that is not your DHs problem.

I think it would definitely be his problem!

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