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Do you wash your back?

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uhaw · 23/09/2023 21:30

And if so, how? I usually let the soap from hair run over it in a shower, but not sure if that’s actually cleaning it!

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BananaPyjamaLlama · 24/09/2023 13:38

@SecretSoul @starrynight21 Ummm really?

Actually I do wash mine.......... but Im in and out of the shower within 5 minutes. I do not smell stinky.
People that stink are those that arent washing at all. Or not washing their clothes often enough. They arent specifically not washing their pits, they arent washing enough at all.

IDriveMySupernova · 24/09/2023 11:09

Also laughing at all the variations of loofah.

I have a long-handled brush and give it a good scrub. I feel so invigorated afterwards.

I have definitely sat next to or been in close-proximity to people who apparently don’t wash their genitals. It really does smell.

smartiesneberhadtheanswer · 24/09/2023 08:46

@CrunchyCarrot

Not specifically but it all gets washed from soap and shampoo run off.

Waitingandwaitingg · 24/09/2023 08:42

starrynight21 · 24/09/2023 05:25

You might not say anything, but PHEW ! Yes your fanny can smell appalling for those poor people sitting next to you. In my long life I'd say that the people who've told me " I don't smell bad .......my fanny doesn't need soap" etc, they are the ones who absolutely reek when you are next to them.

Or if you go in the loo immediately after someone, you can smell their dirty body and particularly their downstairs!

letmesailletmesail · 24/09/2023 08:38

I used to get bad spots on my back which the GP thought might be caused by shampoo or conditioner run off so I've washed it ever since. I've got more flexible as a result!

Mothership4two · 24/09/2023 08:32

HillbillyDarlene · 23/09/2023 22:20

I wash arm pits and front of my body with a puff thing, inbetween my legs with my hand and shower gel, soapy toothbrush up the arse and and a loafer for my back

Is the 'loafer' your DP?

Westfacing · 24/09/2023 08:29

HillbillyDarlene · 23/09/2023 22:20

I wash arm pits and front of my body with a puff thing, inbetween my legs with my hand and shower gel, soapy toothbrush up the arse and and a loafer for my back

Soapy toothbrush and a loafer?

Woollymonster · 24/09/2023 08:26

The most surprising thing for me on this thread is hearing about donkeys resetting hair.
I have a lovely mental picture of donkeys working in the salon.

BatshitCrazyWoman · 24/09/2023 08:26

agent765 · 23/09/2023 22:00

I use a long African net washcloth. A couple of quid on Etsy/eBay/Amazon. It goes in a wash bag in the machine with the towels.

It dries quickly so even between laundering I'm happy it doesn't stay damp enough to harbour germs.

I hang mine on an over-door ironing hook (Lakeland) that hooks on the shower screen so the cloth can drip dry between showers.

I physically wash every inch, head to toe. It exfoliates my skin and keeps it smooth and healthy. I worked in the NHS for years and the number of people coming in with skin problems that could have been avoided if they'd washed properly and regularly was incredible.

I use something similar. With bar soap.

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 24/09/2023 08:21

I think my favourite thing about this thread is all the different spellings of loofah! I didn't realise so many people used them! I haven't had one for decades - I used to find it went all manky!

I wash all of my body using my hands and a bar of soap, in the shower every morning. I can (just about) reach all parts of my back, as I'm fairly flexible. I'm not at all obsessively hygienic (and often find MN bonkers on that score tbh), but it wouldn't occur to me to miss any bits out when I'm washing. I like a bath, but only have time for that once a week at the weekend, when I often use some body scrub.

Slowlylosingmymind101 · 24/09/2023 08:18

I lather armpits, feet, and I clean genitals etc but back and things I let the soap run over. Honestly I have quite good skin and I put it down to not using lots of different chemical and no make up or skin cosmetics. I use a tiny bit of soap and water on my fave and only get one spot on my period. I think the cosmetic industry have women in a chikehold and unless you specifically need a product for overly oily or overly dry skin or eczema a etc then you don't need to load your skin. Let it breathe!

Cupofteafortwo · 24/09/2023 08:13

Yep. Over the shoulders then up from the waist. But I am Hypermobile so may make it easier.

EarringsandLipstick · 24/09/2023 08:09

saltinesandcoffeecups · 23/09/2023 23:42

🤣 this reminds me of my favorite commercial….

That's amazing! 'Shiny suds' 😂

CrunchyCarrot · 24/09/2023 07:08

Surely washing your arse is a bigger priority than pits?

This cracked me up! 😂There are priorities? 'oh no, I have only a drop of body wash left - let me see, oh yes, here's my list - arse! Sorry pits, you are a lower priority, you will have to wait!'

Bbq1 · 24/09/2023 06:39

smartiesneberhadtheanswer · 23/09/2023 21:42

I soap under my arms and wash no other part of me, just assume run off from shampoo etc will clean me.

Mumsnet is so weird with all the constant washing of body parts and sheets

You wash no other part of you? 🤢

Fluffyfluffkins · 24/09/2023 06:20

TomatoSandwiches · 23/09/2023 22:09

Ah no not the human stew! 😂

😂😂
I too prefer baths. A good soak, scrub then rinse off with shower faucet.
I always wash and exfoliate my back.

SecretSoul · 24/09/2023 06:01

BananaPyjamaLlama · 23/09/2023 23:32

Newsflash. You are sitting next to people, chatting with people etc with that same routine (or very little extra) daily. And you've never noticed because its not a noticeable issue.

We know we’re sitting next to those people. Because invariably they bloody stink.

If you don’t give your nether regions a proper clean, there’s a very distinctive kind of sweaty, yeast-like odour that wafts around. Totally different to BO but I think it’s actually worse! I know someone like this and her house actually reeks of it too, it’s genuinely grim.

I don’t obsessively scrub my back or legs, occasionally they’ll get a proper scrub but rarely. I do scrub my arms when I shower, and my neck, chest, under arms, and down below, front and back. Also, I soap below my boobs every day - that area is one of the hottest and sweatiest and needs washing at least once a day. Might be less of an issue if you’re smaller up top.

But fannies and arses really do need washing properly. People who have to sit next to you will be thankful.

starrynight21 · 24/09/2023 05:25

BananaPyjamaLlama · 23/09/2023 23:32

Newsflash. You are sitting next to people, chatting with people etc with that same routine (or very little extra) daily. And you've never noticed because its not a noticeable issue.

You might not say anything, but PHEW ! Yes your fanny can smell appalling for those poor people sitting next to you. In my long life I'd say that the people who've told me " I don't smell bad .......my fanny doesn't need soap" etc, they are the ones who absolutely reek when you are next to them.

starrynight21 · 24/09/2023 05:21

Stressybetty · 23/09/2023 21:38

Got a loofah strap I put shower gel on like this Back Loofah Exfoliating Belt. Luffa Back Scrubber Strap. Easily Reach to Wash & Scrub. Quality Hand-Made Loafer Sponge. Easy to Keep Clean and Hygienic. 100% Natural Shower & Bath Scrub Brush Pad. amzn.eu/d/0YLdP5S

I have one of these too. So easy to use, gives your back a good scrub.

Mothership4two · 24/09/2023 05:18

Yes with a long handled wooden back scrubber and sulphur soap otherwise I still get spots on my back. I can feel the conditioner on my back until I wash it off. Don't shower daily though or brush up my bum! 😳

RantyAnty · 24/09/2023 04:48

A long Korean towel.
It exfoliates very well

blahblahblah1654 · 24/09/2023 04:31

I don't scrub my back. Might reach to give it a wash but I assume the shower gel, water and shampoo from elsewhere will clean it, but I definitely clean down there with shower gel. If you use the toilet daily you need a proper clean. As long as you aren't inserting soap inside you it's not going to do any damage. Aren't you a bit stinky if you don't clean down there properly?

lap90 · 24/09/2023 00:31

Letting soap run over your body isn't cleaning anything properly.
There's a reason why we scrub the likes of dishes and don't just let water run over them.
A loofah is fine to use.

honestyisnotthebestpolicy · 24/09/2023 00:06

@BananaPyjamaLlama

Newsflash. You are sitting next to people, chatting with people etc with that same routine (or very little extra) daily. And you've never noticed because its not a noticeable issue.

It gives a heavy boak in the bedroom though 🤢

villagee · 23/09/2023 23:58

I scrub every inch with pears or dettol soap. Not sure how you lot that 'let the water run down' feel clean Confused