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Anybody here knowledgeable about contraception?

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Askingabout · 22/09/2023 19:52

Sorry I’m posting for traffic. I’m not particularly knowledgeable about contraception but need some advice. It’s not for me it’s for DS’s GF. She’s 18 and NC with her mum.

Shes’s confided in me that she’s having terrible problems with contraception. Her mum took her to get the implant 4 years ago when she was 14. Ever since she’s been bleeding virtually daily. Family planning clinic told her to take the combined pill alongside having the implant but the bleeding never stopped.

She went today to have the implant removed as she’d had enough and has come away with the mini pill.

It seems on the occasions she has gone she hasn’t been advised much about her options - maybe because she’s so young possibly.

She’s worried that because she’s bled so much for four years she’s completely ‘messed up her body’ and is upset she has somehow made herself infertile with all the hormones (I reassured her this is very unlikely), she doesn’t know if she can / should immediately start the mini pill (she took her combined pill this morning) or leave a gap?

Should I advise her to see the GP or practice nurse? She’s always light headed and often feels nauseous- I’m assuming from the blood loss?

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dementedpixie · 22/09/2023 20:36

They don't have the exact same hormones. There are different types of mini pill that have different side effects as they have the different hormones.

Copper coil can lead to heavier more painful periods too so she may not want to try it if she is already bleeding a lot.

Lovecatsanddogs · 22/09/2023 20:02

Mini pill and implant have same hormones. I would recommend a copper coil from the sexual health clinic. My dd was on mini pill and said coil is the best thing ever with no hormones. If she asks for local anaesthetic at time of insertion.

dementedpixie · 22/09/2023 19:58

Has she had blood tests to see if she's anaemic?

Was she given a reason as to why she was given the mini pill rather than continuing with the combined pill? The mini pill can also cause erratic bleeding although it can also stop periods.

She could start the mini pill tomorrow and then after 2 days of pill taking would be covered against pregnancy.