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How much do you spend ?

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Justmeandthem · 18/09/2023 20:15

Just has this conversation with a friend we both have 2 children
and a dog.
our food shopping bills are miles apart
I do small weekly shops and a big quarterly shop.
but averaging it out monthly I spend around 400-450month
this includes
cleaning supplies / dog supplies / treats / hair / soap
basically everything.

OP posts:
Citygirlrurallife · 19/09/2023 08:10

Should add we pretty much cook everything as well - the only Convenience good we get is in the yellow sticker section!

Bookish88 · 19/09/2023 08:08

DH and I each put £450/month into our "groceries" pot. So £900 total. It can be tight, and occasionally we'll need to top it up, but that generally covers food, toiletries, etc for 2 adults, 5yo DS and two dogs. Takeaways when we have them 1-2 times a month don't come out of the grocery pot, so that would be extra.

Citygirlrurallife · 19/09/2023 08:08

2 adults, 2 teens, 2 cats and a dog

honestly I can’t believe how much we spend and I go to Tescos and Lidl (and occasionally the market but not often cos it’s expensive), we do get a veg box but I’m prob going to cancel it. We can easily spend £150/week and I’m not drinking at the moment, meat is eaten by only 2 family members maybe once a week, fish by 3 of them once a week, we don’t buy meat replacements

EatYourVegetables · 19/09/2023 08:08

2 adults, 2 kids, homemade meals for all (except school lunches). Between £150 and £200 a week. I use YNAB so this includes the weekly shop and top ups; I’m not lying to myself. I’m horrified but can’t seem to bring it any lower.

User17439824 · 19/09/2023 08:05

About £500-£600 a month for two retired adults

Wanttoshavemyhairoff · 19/09/2023 08:03

Too much 😭

2 adults , 2 school going children

Around €110 euro weekly shop and €30 in butchers
Then top of during the week around €50

Children take packed lunches to school and I take a lunch to work

NotFastButFurious · 19/09/2023 07:53

We had this conversation at work one day and the people who claimed to have such low supermarket bills seemed to forget that they were then paying for 2 lots of school lunches and the adults were buying lunch at work 2 days a week, and they probably have a takeaway most Saturdays! It also depends what sort of dog you have and what you feed it - you can’t compare the food bill for a small dry food fed dog and a big breed that’s raw fed!

CrazyHamsterLady · 19/09/2023 07:48

In August, we spent £346.28 for two adults.

AliasGrape · 19/09/2023 07:42

About £100 - £120 a week. 2 adults and a toddler.

Where we shop depends on time/ what else we’re doing/ what particular things we’ve run out of that week but it’s usually between Sainsbury’s, Aldi and an Ocado delivery (the Ocado often works out cheaper, certainly than Sainsbury’s - probably because I’m much more likely to stick to the list that way.

I don’t love how much everything has gone up, but at the same time there are certain things I’m not going to swap for cheaper options. When we buy meat and fish (we eat about 75% veggie meals so it’s not lots) I’m quite choosy for example. I get the expensive yogurts that don’t have as much added crap for DD and the total 5% for me because it’s my favourite and I don’t like own brand ones as much. I also but crosta and mollica wraps and Bertinet or Jason’s breads that meet the non UPF/ campaign for real bread criteria at least most of the time, occasionally get a standard supermarket loaf but trying to reduce UPF overall. The compromise is we don’t eat very much bread!

The ‘weekly shop’ usually comes in from £65-90 but then I get milk and eggs delivered, get cleaning products from the refill place or via smol, and usually top up on fresh fruit/ veg at least once so that’s what takes it over the £100 mark.

NoSquirrels · 19/09/2023 07:32

ASGIRC · 18/09/2023 21:53

Just mentioned this in my previous reply... Or cleaning supplies!

I last bought washing up liquid months ago, and it is still going strong!!! I am now running out of dishwasher tablets, but the last time we bought some was a year ago!

i bought some deodorant last month... But everything else has been MONTHS ago!!

How many in your household?

I buy dishwasher tablets more frequently than washing up liquid, but they come in a box of 50 (from Lidl) and the dishwasher is on at least once a day, more at weekends/holidays/if we’re hosting guests. So I buy those every other month at a minimum. Washing powder, bin bags, kitchen roll, new sticky rollers for pet hair on clothes, kettle descaler, new cloths/sponges - I’ve bought all of those in the last 2-3 months.

Then add 2x teens toiletries - nothing fancy - sanitary protection, toothpaste for a family of 4, deodorant, shampoo, shower gel, seasonal things like sun cream or bug spray, paracetamol etc. It all adds up.

faban · 19/09/2023 07:30

Ive got a shop coming today , snacks, fruit, milk etc- fresh ingredients for one meal and a couple of freezer bits and it's £100, hello fresh came yesterday and I still need meals for the weekend. Need to have a look at why im spending so much!

Boomchuck · 19/09/2023 07:29

rhino12345 · 18/09/2023 22:04

I think this often. What are people buying? We spend about £380 a month and eat very well. But it's all homemade quick dinners mostly, and not brand name stuff.

I mean, in our case it’s the fresh stuff that really costs a fortune. That and, weirdly, laundry detergent. Cheese, milk, meat, fruit and vegetables, multi grain bread, etc. We get through maybe a bottle of wine a week, but it’s not extravagant wine. I do try to buy organic, which I know is more expensive, but I re-iterate that it’s mainly from Lidl. My kids snack on fruit, so constantly re-stocking the fruit bowl does get expensive.

My kids don’t get school lunches, and DH works from home, so I wonder if some who are doing it all on 100/week either aren’t eating lunches from the weekly shop or maybe get free school lunches? DH and I get through maybe half of a bag of coffee beans every week.

I am honestly so curious to see what £100/week for a family of 5 adults includes.

A weekly 7 day dinner menu (which I make from scratch) for us might look like:

  • spaghetti bolognese and a side salad
  • homemade soup with fresh bread
  • some kind of meat-based tray bake with salad
  • pork chops or pan fried chicken breast with cous cous and broccoli
  • tagliatelle in a white wine sauce with broccoli
  • homemade pizza with a veggie tray
  • a chicken roast dinner with mash and roasted veg (provides the chicken for soup the following week)

We eat well but I wouldn’t call it extravagant fare. We get takeaway once a month, if that.

faban · 19/09/2023 07:28

Easy £500, prob more. 2 adults, toddler and a cat

Autumnloverr · 19/09/2023 07:22

(Following on from my last post)

Last week for our 3 x 6-8ppl meals I cooked

Korma
2 x jars of sauce £3.50
Packet of Baby corn and mange tout £2.30
1kg chicken £6.49
2x packets of garlic and Coriander naans

Bolognese
750 mince £4.99
2x Chopped toms £1.20
Garlic bulb 24p
2x red peppers £1.10
Mushrooms 89p

Fish Pie
2x Fish pie mix £8.30
Potatoes £1.25
1x Leek 50p (ish)
frozen peas £1.45

Total £33.85

We bulk buy rice/pasta and spices so always have those.

That leaves around £55 for salad bits/breakfast bits/simple lunches like soups/sandwiches/fruit etc etc

(Edited, forgot a couple of ingredients!)

Applesaarenttheonlyfruit · 19/09/2023 07:13

toddlermom99 · 18/09/2023 22:33

No @genesis92 we don't 'live off toast' we have very substantial meals, thanks for your concern. Smile

Can you tell us what? I’m a good cook, barely eat meat and can’t get close!

Autumnloverr · 19/09/2023 06:40

2 adults and 1 preschooler here. We spend around £90 a week including cleaning stuff/household toiletries and top up shop. I’ve found that cooking for 6-8 ppl saves us lots of money. Less ingredients over all but larger quantities of the things you do get seem to cost less. We put 2 portions in the freezer for following week so there is always a variety of home made ready meals available. I only cook about 3 main meals a week.

DuvetCoverNightmare · 19/09/2023 06:22

2 adults, 2 DC I think we spend £150 a week but in reality once you add in wine, toiletries, coffee it’s probably closer to £200.

Augustus40 · 19/09/2023 06:19

£100 Asd a and at least £30 Home Bargains Savers etc. This includes cleaning supplies toilet roll fresh flowers. Me and 18 yr old ds.

Clingy · 19/09/2023 06:17

Where do I shop? I have a weekly Ocado delivery. Buy cleaning products every couple of months from Aldi, have washing and dishwasher tablets, coffee beans, cat food pouches and little tins on subscribe and save from Amazon. Dried food and cat litter from Zooplus.

1ltr Shampoo and conditioner about once a year online. I buy nice toiletries online from wherever has them on offer.

So a variety of places for both economy and convenience.

We eat lots of fish and fruit and veg. Probably three pieces of fruit a day for me but my teen takes three pieces to school every day and has more at home.

Food costs have gone through the roof. I was only thinking yesterday when I went to add a tin of salmon to my shop - £4.75 for a tin of salmon.

Coka · 18/09/2023 23:23

Around 350-400pm for me and one primary aged kid. We eat a lot of simple meals that you dont need a lot of ingredients for, meat and 2 veg type meals or pasta. Then will make a few nice meals too but not everyday

TheFormidableMrsC · 18/09/2023 23:00

I spend on average £300 a month on food shops but that includes a couple of top up
shops. There is only me and one 12 yo. He has meals at school so no packed lunches. Today I spent £50 in Aldi for the week but I didn't need loo roll, washing powder or other cleaning products. I meal plan and batch cook and that keeps costs down.

Threeboysadogandacat · 18/09/2023 23:00

I’m actually heartened by some of these posts. We are 4 adults, a seventeen year old, a dog and a cat and I’m spending the best part of £200 a week. Around £160 for a supermarket delivery and £40 ish top up shop at the Co-op, mostly fruit and milk. We don’t eat out or takeaway so that’s everything for the week but it’s twice what I was spending pre Covid. …And my cat is tiny but has a big appetite.

How much do you spend ?
Joeylove88 · 18/09/2023 22:52

We were spending roughly £600-£850pm this is for 2 adults, a baby and 2 cats. We are now down to £500-600a month because I was banned from doing the food ordering 😬

This all includes nappies, formula/baby jars, toiletries, cat biscuits and wet food etc. My spending did get really silly on a couple of occasions but it was usually last minute online ordering when I realised we had ran out of things and getting to the shops is sometimes alot harder with a baby.

glossypeach · 18/09/2023 22:49

I’m ashamed to admit I spend £100 a week tesco delivery on just myself and my four year old. It wouldn’t be so expensive but I’m vegan, he isn’t so I technically have to buy two lots of everything to meet both of our dietary requirements. It also includes all laundry stuff, cleaning supplies, health and beauty things. Basically everything as I’m disabled and don’t go to any other shop, so there’s no added costs. I don’t drink, I don’t smoke. I don’t really get any luxuries for myself. It’s essentially just basics each week that I cannot get the shopping cost any lower. Two years ago my costs was half of what I pay now, but prices really have gone up.

Ilovemycar77 · 18/09/2023 22:38

We are definitely £250 a week (Waitrose)
However m, we are a family of 4 children, 29,18,17 & 13. Two dogs and 3 cats.
my cats food included in this as they only eat fresh whole chicken and tuna!
yes I do spoil them rotten, but they also can’t eat cat meat as it upsets them.
this also included a bottle of spirit, bottles of lager and 2 bottles of wine.
we freshly prepare everything every day and two youngest have pack ups.
it used to be under £200, food and drink has gone up hugely.