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Why the need to do this so early?

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Binannoyance · 17/09/2023 06:29

Wheelie bins. When do you deliver it to the roadside for emptying?

Every bloody weekend one of my neighbours pulls her bins out and bashes them around to straighten them up at least a whole 24 hours before they’re due to be collected.

We’re on a road of mainly working people who are up and out early every day. I have to be up early 6 days a week. Sunday is the only day I don’t have to be up and out early and I’m awoken before 6am to the sound of bin thunder.

She will then keep walking down her drive to put things in the bin all day.

For info, she does it every week, she is semi retired, I haven’t spoken to her about it as she took a dislike to us shortly after we moved in 9 years ago and I don’t want to make anything worse.

It’s not the biggest deal in the world but I’m sitting here grumpy I was woken up when it still had a 5 on the clock! Would I be unreasonable to push her in with her damp grass clippings and shut the lid? (Joking!)

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FatherJackHackettsUnderpantsHamper · 18/09/2023 10:02

Just have a word with her, let her know it's waking you up

There's no way that she doesn't already know that she will be waking people up. Even the 'straightening up' that she also insists on doing sounds like it's calculated to make maximum noise for maximum disturbance.

I wonder if she's just one of these selfish people with a self-imposed very, very tiny world, who thinks it somehow makes her 'better' than everybody else, just because she arbitrarily gets up very early (and likely has an afternoon nap anyway), and wants everybody to know that. It's amazing how many of these people will choose random routines for themselves and then think that others should be expected to do the same, or otherwise be rightly criticised for their 'failure'.

I imagine she is, and she will also be one of those people who "always" does [insert pointless task designed to irritate other people and make herself feel superior].

FatherJackHackettsUnderpantsHamper · 18/09/2023 10:02

Just have a word with her, let her know it's waking you up

There's no way that she doesn't already know that she will be waking people up. Even the 'straightening up' that she also insists on doing sounds like it's calculated to make maximum noise for maximum disturbance.

I wonder if she's just one of these selfish people with a self-imposed very, very tiny world, who thinks it somehow makes her 'better' than everybody else, just because she arbitrarily gets up very early (and likely has an afternoon nap anyway), and wants everybody to know that. It's amazing how many of these people will choose random routines for themselves and then think that others should be expected to do the same, or otherwise be rightly criticised for their 'failure'.

OliveWah · 17/09/2023 20:20

Just have a word with her, let her know it's waking you up and ask if she would mind doing it at a more neighbour-friendly hour. If she's worried she might forget if she doesn't do it first thing, you could offer to take her bin out at the same time as you do yours.

Intelligenthair · 17/09/2023 19:38

Send me her bin, I’ll tip it over the bonnet of the annoying dickhead next door who likes to rev his fucking orange fucking sports car at 6 a-fucking-m

PrincessHoneysuckle · 17/09/2023 11:53

The evening before

FatherJackHackettsUnderpantsHamper · 17/09/2023 11:51

It’s a few minutes of noise.

It's a few minutes of entirely unnecessary noise, made deliberately at a time when they know that most people will be trying to sleep.

If somebody has a small child who is woken an hour or two early by the noise of the bins on a weekend day, and then can't/won't go back to sleep, that will have a real negative impact on the parents' whole day - for absolutely no reason whatsoever.

DeerWatch · 17/09/2023 11:32

Our two opposite neighbours both put their bins out at 10 am Sunday morning and our rubbish is not collected until Monday early afternoon. They put their bins in only area where visitors can park.

Sparklecats · 17/09/2023 11:26

My first thought is that it could be a genuine health problem causing memory loss/anxiety and she’s trying to maintain independence/lower anxiety by putting them out in advance.

My second thought is maybe she feels safer putting them out when it’s light rather than last thing at night when she could be attacked in the dark.

SplendidUtterly · 17/09/2023 11:20

YANBU.
We put ours out between 7-10pm on Sunday night. The sound of us doing this seems to summon my surrounding neighbours and within half an hour of ours going out all their bins are out too!

MonumentalLentil · 17/09/2023 10:57

Glue her bins shut one night.

Seeline · 17/09/2023 10:54

Our bins are collected at around 5.30/5.45am. So people put their bins out the night before. Recently this seems to be getting later and later - the last few weeks I have been woken at around 3.30 by noisy bins. Hardly seems worth trying to go back to sleep at that point.....
And then every other week our garden waste bins are collected the day after the ordinary bins, at the same time. So two days in a row of late putting out/early collection.

zingally · 17/09/2023 10:54

I put mine out the night before, otherwise I risk missing the collection. They seem to rock up whenever they feel like it. Which can be any time between about 5:30 and 9am.
If they've been and gone by the time I leave for work at about 7:30, I'll quickly bring them in again. Otherwise they'll continue to sit out until I get home at 5ish.

Superlegs · 17/09/2023 10:51

FatherJackHackettsUnderpantsHamper · 17/09/2023 10:35

It might just be her routine and she doesn’t think, some people need it explaining to them.

She must be either very selfish or very dim, if so. What are the actual benefits to anybody in putting it out early on a Sunday morning instead of on Sunday evening or Monday morning?

With bin collections, the council dictate the routine for everybody - it isn't really an individual choice.

Maybe she is, but the choice is being woken early every Sunday morning by it and post on Mumsnet, or you can speak to her and ask her to stop. Some people need it explaining.

gingercat02 · 17/09/2023 10:51

Garden bin Sunday afternoon/evening as they come early Monday morning. Other 2 Tuesday morning as we leave for work as they come in the afternoon

Disturbia81 · 17/09/2023 10:40

Evening before like everyone else, they collect at 7am

CleverLilViper · 17/09/2023 10:39

FatherJackHackettsUnderpantsHamper · 17/09/2023 09:02

Move to the middle of the country if you don't want to be disturbed.

I don't get this mindset at all. Why is it a binary choice of either no noise whatsoever or otherwise no reasonable expectation of peace ever?

Living in a built-up area doesn't automatically give you the right to be wantonly selfish, with no need or justification whatsoever.

It’s a few minutes of noise.

If a few minutes of noise truly bothers you that much the only option is to live in isolation.

If it was excessive and going on for a long period of time, the complaint is valid. As it’s not, the complaint is just silly.

Conkersinautumn · 17/09/2023 10:37

Its expected noise in a residential area, which is annoying. But you can predict it and ear plugs exist.

FatherJackHackettsUnderpantsHamper · 17/09/2023 10:35

It might just be her routine and she doesn’t think, some people need it explaining to them.

She must be either very selfish or very dim, if so. What are the actual benefits to anybody in putting it out early on a Sunday morning instead of on Sunday evening or Monday morning?

With bin collections, the council dictate the routine for everybody - it isn't really an individual choice.

FatherJackHackettsUnderpantsHamper · 17/09/2023 10:32

The council changed refuse collectors a few years ago to working every day, we were the unlucky ones that got a Sunday. I’m sure it was a cost saving exercise.

Ah, how annoying. I'd have thought they'd have to pay workers more to work on a Sunday, so it wouldn't save costs; but councils do have their own (often illogical) ways of doing things.

I'll bet, if you regularly made the same amount of noise early on a Sunday morning - using power tools or mowing the lawn - they would be after you for antisocial behaviour!

GearChange · 17/09/2023 10:25

That was in reply to @FatherJackHackettsUnderpantsHamper

GearChange · 17/09/2023 10:25

The council changed refuse collectors a few years ago to working every day, we were the unlucky ones that got a Sunday. I’m sure it was a cost saving exercise.
There aren’t really any streets in the whole council area that get too congested for the bin lorries as it’s a suburb of a big city and a lot of rural villages.

Superlegs · 17/09/2023 10:20

Have you spoke to her. It might just be her routine and she doesn’t think, some people need it explaining to them.

Wildthingsrevenge · 17/09/2023 09:52

Our council say not to put them out till 5pm the night before. They start collecting at 5am though and I am fed up being woken at that time by the banging and dragging of bins!

FatherJackHackettsUnderpantsHamper · 17/09/2023 09:50

Our bins get collected on a Sunday morning so get woken up early every Sunday.

Wow, that's unusual. Does the council have a particular reason for choosing Sundays? Is the road extremely busy in the week?

Flossflower · 17/09/2023 09:50

In our road everyone puts their bins out the day before. Usually the afternoon or evening before and never at a time when anyone could be asleep. They are collected from 7am on the day. I didn’t think they were allowed to collect the bins before 7am. The same as noisy building works. I just wish milkmen would come at reasonable times.