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Trans husband

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Fedupwashedout · 15/09/2023 20:07

am I unreasonable? My husband of 20 years is a trans woman. He asked if the relationship was sustainable and I told him I didn’t find him as a woman attractive. He took offence and said he’d support me no matter what. I support him and love him I just don’t find him sexually attractive as a woman.

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dementedpixie · 15/09/2023 20:12

Will you stay with him?

BeautifulGnome · 15/09/2023 20:12

That sounds like a lot to take in! Did this just come out of the blue for you? I don't think you're unreasonable at all. I'm trying to imagine how I'd feel and failing! But I know I couldn't imagine finding my DH attractive as a woman. Personally I would have no idea how the relationship could survive this

Lingfield01 · 15/09/2023 20:11

YANBU, on so many levels

TowerRaven7 · 15/09/2023 20:09

No way in hell are you being unreasonable. If my husband told me this I’d tell him to sashay herself out the door.

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