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Make up

433 replies

ettieb · 04/09/2023 08:17

Do you wear make up every day? I do...I know I look better and younger when I wear it and feel so much better. I know so many people who don't wear make up on a daily basis who look stunning when they put make up on to go out. Why wouldn't you want to look the best you can all the time? It doesn't need to take a lot of time...5 mins for basic eye liner..mascara.. blusher and lipstick...I have a friend in her 60s and if we go out she wears lipstick and mascara and looks 20 years younger! I also would wear make up if I'm just at home hanging out with my DP...I want to look my best for him. I find it baffling that people will do their hair and make up to go out with with work colleagues but don't do the same on a daily basis for their partner...

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SuperCallieFragilistic · 04/09/2023 08:39

I also don't agree that people look better with makeup ... like a PP said, they look different. Whether it's 'better' is entirely a matter of opinion. But the make-up industry is making a lot of people a great deal of money by convincing us to think that way...

CyberCritical · 04/09/2023 08:36

I don't agree that people look better with make up on. They look different and your perspective of that may be that it's better but that isn't everyone's perspective.

I wear makeup maybe 5 times a year and then it's a bit of mascara and some eyeshadow, have never found a foundation that I feel comfortable wearing, last time I tried was 16 years ago when I was a bridesmaid and I felt fake.

teenysaladandsniffofarose · 04/09/2023 08:35

Because who needs to wear a full face of makeup to do the school run, walk the dog, work from home, take the kids to softplay etc?

Plus I think being bare faced or absolute minimal makeup is more "in" now. Foundation with bronzer, eyeshadow and lipstick just looks a bit tacky in the day imo.

anothertrainwreck · 04/09/2023 08:32

I do not. I find it too uncomfortable to wear every day and can’t achieve a “stunning” look in five minutes so it’s too time-consuming for me. I am quite content with my appearance without it, don’t care about the appearance of others, and don’t subscribe to the beauty standard where I am supposed to look younger than I am.

I do like makeup and beauty though, and love to do it for a more special occasion, it’s just not an everyday thing for me, maybe once a week or so.

CassiniG · 04/09/2023 08:31

I'm outdoors walking/hiking for four to six hours or more some days and I always wear make up.

Foundation and powder ing with sunscreen have definitely helped my skin and given me protection especially in the winter months.

I would never leave the house without make up on. I like to always look my best.

Allthatwegotisthispalebluedot · 04/09/2023 08:29

I don’t wear make up if I’m just hanging about at home with my partner because that feels like an immense waste of time. He also doesn’t expect me to ‘look my best’ for him like some fifties housewife! I do wear it when I leave the house (eg for work or for a whole day out but not if I’m just nipping to the local shop). I have an extremely good skincare routine which shows (imo, of course!) and I’ve had permanent make up on my eyebrows so even when I don’t have make up on I sort of do iyswim?

I LOVE make up though. I only ever wear it for me because it makes me happy. No one should feel pressured to wear if it they’re not bothered or actively dislike it though.

KimberleyClark · 04/09/2023 08:25

No. I used to wear a bit when I was working but not once I retired. I’ve just never found it makes that much difference. I had a professional makeup job done for a black tie do pre Covid and although it looked OK it wasn’t the transformation I thought it would be! I have naturally dark pink lips and cool pinky toned skin and I think I look fine without it and so does DH.

andrainwillmaketheflowersgrow · 04/09/2023 08:19

Nope. I work outdoors/with animals so there's absolutely no point.