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Upper/Upper-Middle Class Nicknames

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Slickly · 15/08/2023 21:44

I grew up upper-working/lower-middle class, state educated, but we moved in Y5 and I went to a good grammar. I've spent the last 20 years in Australia. My DH is upper-working class, a lot of his uni friends went to prestigious public schools. We have just moved back and have seen a lot of DHs old friends. What is with the nicknames that have nothing to do with actual names, talking of names like Minky, Binky, Bunty, Berrie, Minty, Nixxy etc.
I met a grown woman who introduced herself as something similar to these, others were used on children/teens.
AIBU to think these are so cringeworthy? Why do they do this? Do you call yourself by a random unrelated nickname?
I know some small children who might go by a sweet nickname, but not teens or adults, I find it so odd!!

OP posts:
Meatus · 15/08/2023 21:48

Do you call yourself by a random unrelated nickname?

No, but then again I don’t go around describing myself, or my husband, by class.

LBFseBrom · 15/08/2023 21:48

I don't think it's unusual for nicknames to stick for a lifetime. Nothing to do with class.

Comedycook · 15/08/2023 21:47

Yeah they love this shit...along with red trousers

MojoMoon · 15/08/2023 21:46

The aristocracy tend to recycle names within a family so nicknames help distinguish which George/Henry/etc you mean.