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Update - too large for flight

119 replies

nearlyemptynes · 09/08/2023 10:44

I posted a few weeks ago about how worried I was about fitting in the seat on the plane on our family holiday. Half of the people who replied were lovely with real life stories and practical advice. Half were really cruel and horrible. Mumsnet removed the thread due to how horrible it got. To remind everyone I am a size 24.
Well we have just returned from the most wonderful holiday in Crete. There were NO issues on the flight, other than needing a seat belt extension. We flew with Easyjet. The seats were spacious and comfy and the table in front came down completely flat. It was such a relief. Thank you to all who gave helpful advice.

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JustMaggie · 10/08/2023 20:06

I'm so happy you had a good time! People can be mean. Just remember not to take it personally. It's not about you 🙂

DinaofCloud9 · 10/08/2023 16:26

Oops sorry I forgot to say I'm happy for you and glad you had a good holiday.

DinaofCloud9 · 10/08/2023 16:26

I'm surprised the tray came down. A couple of years ago I was a size 20 and couldn't get the tray fully down although I didn't need an seatbelt extender.

QueefQueen80s · 10/08/2023 16:21

Agree that jet2 are spacious surprisingly!

SugarPlumpFairy3 · 10/08/2023 11:28

theyareonlynoodlesmichael · 10/08/2023 10:58

Great tip I have never flown Jet2 but just saw they fly to Faro which is where we have a holiday booked next year.

They are a great airline, enjoy 😊.

theyareonlynoodlesmichael · 10/08/2023 10:58

SugarPlumpFairy3 · 09/08/2023 22:56

Yes, Jet2 are lovely and roomy 😄 I’m a size 24 and don’t need an extension with them.

So pleased you had a lovely holiday!

Great tip I have never flown Jet2 but just saw they fly to Faro which is where we have a holiday booked next year.

SugarPlumpFairy3 · 09/08/2023 22:56

LakeTiticaca · 09/08/2023 13:13

Good news. Jet2 seem to have quite roomy seats as well, I found 😀

Yes, Jet2 are lovely and roomy 😄 I’m a size 24 and don’t need an extension with them.

So pleased you had a lovely holiday!

Catwoman1985 · 09/08/2023 22:46

I'm so glad you had a lovely holiday. Some people are arses. I'm pleased they didn't ruin it for you.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 09/08/2023 22:30

So glad you had a lovely holiday!

PixieLaLa · 09/08/2023 22:25

I remember your post, glad to hear you had a great holiday OP Wine

Bluehasnoclue · 09/08/2023 21:38

So glad you were fine & had a fab time OP! Now you won’t have to worry for your next holiday!

lordloveadog · 09/08/2023 21:34

So glad you had fun!

Much better to be fat than a git.

Irridescantshimmmer · 09/08/2023 18:57

It is so good you had a wonderful time on your holiday OP. Sorry to hear some people had been brutal in their comments. What goes round cones back round again and with a bump.

Its best to focus on the positive comments because they make life worth living.

mraladdinsir · 09/08/2023 18:49

Amazing update. Glad you enjoyed and had a safe flight.

VinEtFromage · 09/08/2023 17:48

Fabulous 😁 I'm glad it all went ok & you had a good holiday!!

I was on your previous thread. Lots of nasty posts (I'd rather be fat than have such a nasty mouth!!)

I will just say though, to the pp claiming the tray tables are always fine, they not for me because I carry pretty much all my weight on my stomach.

Hivaluegirl · 09/08/2023 17:31

it is really horrible how people treat larger people in regards to flights. My dad and mum are large so I always think people might abuse them if they go abroad.

FuckertyFuckFuckfuckery · 09/08/2023 17:25

i remember your post @nearlyemptynes , so glad it went well and you had a lovely time

mondaytosunday · 09/08/2023 17:24

So happy it worked out but you can not convince me that the seat was 'spacious '!!! Even when I was a size 12-14 they are uncomfortable and restrictive (I do have long legs though and feel jammed in).
But so happy you had a good flight!

cloudydays97 · 09/08/2023 17:22

@Kernsworld agree completely

Namechange666 · 09/08/2023 17:18

Some people are just antifat and they will waste no time in telling people their opinions. It's awful. Got no time for bullies and their nasty mouths.

So glad you had a wonderful flight and it was okay for you.

TinkerbellefromYorkshire · 09/08/2023 17:11

I fly a few times a year.. same size as you.. jet2 l don't need extention and plenty of room.. Ryanair l need extension and not as much room. I'm so glad you had a fabulous holiday and as for those people being nasty .. Internet trolls.. dont waste your time and energy on them.

FrenchandSaunders · 09/08/2023 16:55

Glad your holiday went so well OP. I remember your thread and some of the arseholes who posted .... what is wrong with people ffs.

Great update.

KnickerlessParsons · 09/08/2023 16:47

We flew with Easyjet. The seats were spacious and comfy and the table in front came down completely flat

Are you sure that was EasyJet? 😊

Nottogetapenny · 09/08/2023 16:40

Thank you for up dating! So pleased you had a lovely holiday, and you don’t have to worry for your next trip! I was sure you would be fine, you didn’t need the unkind or negative comments from some people!

GonnaGetGoingReturns · 09/08/2023 16:29

Kernsworld · 09/08/2023 16:08

There is no need for meanness, or anyone giving the OP “advice” like they all did last time or anyone insulting her. But here is also no need for utter nonsense. It’s just as unhelpful. A size 24 is not nothing. We all know that. The OP knows that. Im overweight and I know I am. Someone saying “oh, that’s nothing” is not helpful or kind. It’s idiotic. We all know. Just don’t say anything if you can say something sensible.

I would say if you want to and only if you want to, I joined WW at the start of this year, lost almost a stone but put it back on again but there are success stories, a few people have lost half their body weight.

The great thing about them and the classes are it’s generally non judgmental, the one strict consultant we had when our usual one was on holiday I said I didn’t like her and why. No way am I going to be barked at by a sergeant major type! Our usual consultant has put on a bit over her holiday and has a weakness for Cadburys mini eggs!