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Violin or cello

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Saschka · 07/08/2023 22:10

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DS’s school gives them the opportunity to learn either cello or violin in year 2 (a charity provides tuition and loans them an instrument). This is obviously a fantastic opportunity, and I’d really like DS to stick with it.

They get to pick the instrument. DS doesn’t know which one to pick. He likes the sound quality of both. I play the piano but I’ve never played a string instrument, so I don’t know which one to choose. I’ve considered things like the size of a cello etc, and I’m not really interested in the relative future orchestra potential of each instrument - this is a hobby.

He is not a child with a huge amount of patience for making mistakes - he’s bright, lots of things come quite easily to him, and he has to be encouraged to stick at things that he can’t do easily first time. So I’m a bit worried he’ll try an instrument like the violin, make a horrible squeaky noise, and not want to persevere.

So, which instrument has the quickest learning curve to making a decent sound? Once he is making some sort of noise with it, he’ll probably stick with it. I just want him to get over that initial “I can’t do this” stage as quickly as possible and enjoy making sounds on it.

YABU - cello
YANBU - violin

OP posts:
LorraineInSpain · 07/08/2023 22:18

I’m biased, but cello.

Violin is admittedly easier to transport but there isn’t a much worse sound than beginner violinists.

Trivium4all · 07/08/2023 22:17

It's a bit of a "how long is a piece of string" question, tbh. I'd probably go with cello, but a bit for "future potential" reasons: bass instrument players are valued in many types of ensemble/musical styles, so he'd never be short of people to play with. Either way, if he does stick with it for a little while, he should still be able to transfer to the other one, if he does prefer it later, with some skills transferring well.

BrunchBunch · 07/08/2023 22:17

Cello.. More ergonomic position that violin, nicer low sound, good bass lines but often still get melody in orchestra.

Flittingcandlewick · 07/08/2023 22:17

Cello. But only because I LOVE the sound and tone

ManxRhyme · 07/08/2023 22:15

For sound cello. For logistics though I'd go with violin. Transporting a cello to school weekly is a pain in the bum.

cardibach · 07/08/2023 22:13

Cello. The sound of practice will be less grating for being lower pitched.