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To consider myself working class?

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TheCatsKnickers · 06/08/2023 17:50

I'm fully aware that it doesn't matter, but for the sake of argument - basically an ongoing debate with friend who insists I am middle class - which of us would be correct?

My background:
Dad probs upper working, good job but no higher education, bought our house and subsequent houses without mortgage. Mum from educated family but was SAHM. Grew up in MC area and schools, kept horses but more rough and tumble than 'posh'. Had a few years off too travel and have fun in late teens largely funded by parents, then went to uni late and studied fine art.
This, according to my friend cements me as MC.

The present day:
Followed my passion and became a painter. Didn't want to marry or have children so chose to rent. Preferred this as could move around and experience different places. Bit of a free spirit, but had to accept some financial insecurity for the pleasure! Am now in 40's and still similar, very content with long term DP but, I presume, not typical for many my age.
I have a decent 5 figure sum in savings although we received only a smallish inheritance due to both parents needing care in old age (they had also given their second property to an aunt and uncle who developed health issues in later life).
My income is somewhat fluid and would possibly terrify some, but I have intermittently earned very, very well and often receive high payments for my work (anywhere from £200 to £1k per commission or piece), but some months are quite the opposite.
So my lifestyle is not standard and has some financial insecurity, but I made my own choices.
Therefore, since I don't own a home or have a private pension I perceive my status to be 'working class', regardless of my background privileges and lifestyle. My friend argues not!

Which of us is correct?

OP posts:
SnipSnipMrBurgess · 06/08/2023 17:54

Jesus christ you are NOT working class

Mutabiliss · 06/08/2023 17:54

Technically anyone who needs to work is working class.

However, in terms of British society and expectations I would say your upbringing and current situation are firmly middle class.

Squirrelblanket · 06/08/2023 17:54

You are not working class. Pulp wrote a song about people like you. 😂

Sigmama · 06/08/2023 17:53

Agree with friend

Popsicle42 · 06/08/2023 17:53

You are absolutely not working class.

Nuffaluff · 06/08/2023 17:52

Your friend is correct.

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