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Question10 · 03/08/2023 23:07

I have booked a holiday to Dubai in a 5 star hotel on the palm. The plan is to stay in the resort for the week & enjoy the pool etc. AIBU to worry about going to Dubai? One of my friends has told me that she would never go there because of their strict laws and she’s got me worried. I’ve done some googling and I’m still a bit worried. Will I be able to wear a swimming costume at the pool? Do I need to cover up? If you have been to Dubai before, I would really appreciate your opinion.

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Noicant · 22/11/2023 05:44

PDA’s between adults are discouraged but holding hands is fine, of course you can cuddle your kid, people are really nice to kids across the GCC. Extra nice if your kid is polite and well behaved.

Valerianandfoxglovesoup · 22/11/2023 05:44

parietal · 03/08/2023 23:33

I'd never go to Dubai because the government has an awful record on human rights and women's rights and climate change But I imagine you'll be safe enough if you stay in resorts and don't take illegal drugs etc.

Oh no, my human rights to break the law are not respected 🤣🤣🤣 nobody has to take drugs do they?

Fancylike · 08/08/2023 18:52

HalfasleepChrisintheMorning · 08/08/2023 17:39

I’m going in October, staying at Le Royal Meridian.

My 11 year old son is very openly affectionate to me- holding hands, hugs and kisses. He still sometimes sits on my knee! Will that be ok as he’s my child? He’s still a couple of inches shorter than me. OTOH after 17 years of marriage DH and I can keep our hand off each other in public no problem.😂

My holiday wardrobe is either strappy midi dresses/ skirts and tops or loose mini dresses but with sleeves. Mini for me is mid thigh at the shortest! Will pack a cotton shawl.

Oh my gosh, you are really overthinking this. Kids have an amazing time in Dubai, everyone caters to them. Mothers are also looked after, of course you can cuddle your son in public.

HalfasleepChrisintheMorning · 08/08/2023 17:39

I’m going in October, staying at Le Royal Meridian.

My 11 year old son is very openly affectionate to me- holding hands, hugs and kisses. He still sometimes sits on my knee! Will that be ok as he’s my child? He’s still a couple of inches shorter than me. OTOH after 17 years of marriage DH and I can keep our hand off each other in public no problem.😂

My holiday wardrobe is either strappy midi dresses/ skirts and tops or loose mini dresses but with sleeves. Mini for me is mid thigh at the shortest! Will pack a cotton shawl.

TunnocksOrDeath · 08/08/2023 14:27

So you don't mind going on holiday to a country that shits all over people's human rights, uses torture, and turns a blind eye to abuse of the foreign workforce who do most of the actual work, provided you can wear a SWIMSUIT by the pool??

You have bigger problems than your sartorial choices.

Human rights in the United Arab Emirates - Wikipedia

Human rights in the United Arab Emirates - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_rights_in_the_United_Arab_Emirates

Hearmeout · 08/08/2023 14:13

My DD finishes work early on a Friday, Saturday off and works part of Sunday, maybe it does very company to company.

pharamondtravel · 08/08/2023 09:21

Triptastico · 08/08/2023 07:34

I love the MN's bleating about Dubai. These are the same people who are quick to recommend a city break to the lovely Budapest. Really? I wouldn't step food in Victor Orban's right wing Hungary. Try being openly gay there.

My male, gay hairdresser would never return there to live.

Which posters are "bleating about" Dubai and also recommending Budepest, precisely?

Triptastico · 08/08/2023 07:34

I love the MN's bleating about Dubai. These are the same people who are quick to recommend a city break to the lovely Budapest. Really? I wouldn't step food in Victor Orban's right wing Hungary. Try being openly gay there.

My male, gay hairdresser would never return there to live.

Isthiscorrect · 08/08/2023 06:50

@cymbidium @tartareistasty
Sheik Mo declared the weekend Saturday/ Sunday back in January 2022. Schools compressed their week to be Monday - Thursday with a half day Friday. Big business is Monday to Friday in keeping with the majority of the rest of the world. Some companies allow employees to have Friday afternoon for prayers. Theoretically the employee is meant to return to work. In reality that doesn't always happen.
Regarding brunches. Well that's interesting. Most moved to Saturday, some stayed as Friday for a while and some moved to Sunday.

Tartareistasty · 08/08/2023 06:38

cymbidium · 07/08/2023 23:28

What do you mean? Friday is the big weekend day in Dubai.

Depends on company as I understand. Some do Friday or at least half off, some don't anymore. But it's the Jumuah and lots of people still keep the Friday afternoon/eve as main event meeting up families etc.

cymbidium · 07/08/2023 23:28

user556378 · 07/08/2023 23:16

Yeh except the weekend is Saturday and Sunday these days...

What do you mean? Friday is the big weekend day in Dubai.

user556378 · 07/08/2023 23:16

Quisquam · 07/08/2023 13:48

I generally wore t shirts with short sleeves and cropped trousers below the knee, going out and about in Dubai. If I wanted to go into a mosque, I had to wear long sleeves and trousers, and a head scarf. Alternatively, the mosque lends women visitors an abayeh (spelling?); but it’s very hot on top of clothes! Actually, we went to Oman recently and I wore the long trousers, sleeves and head scarf in the grand mosque. I felt cooler than in short sleeves, cropped trousers, a sun hat and loads of sun cream!

I didn’t swim, but I have no doubt if I had wanted to, I’d have been ok in a swimming costume, so long as I covered up, outside the pool area. (We stayed with a relative in an apartment block with its own pool).

I would have been more worried about swearing and PDAs in public! You can drink in the big hotels, but our relative warned us, we had to be able to walk down the street in a straight line afterwards. Not that it was a problem, as we got a taxi there and back. I recommend going for brunch in a big hotel on a Friday! It’s fantastic!

Yeh except the weekend is Saturday and Sunday these days...

Tartareistasty · 07/08/2023 16:11

About 70% of Dubai population are South Asians (similar number for whole UAE) .
The problem is that the worst is usually done by own people. Every time there was an article about my nationality people being saved from modern slavery situation in uk, usually agriculture, you could bet all your savings it was our people leading it. And you would not lose.

Trickleg · 07/08/2023 14:17

Trickleg · 07/08/2023 14:16

This. Absolutely this

Was trying to reply to @SpottyWindow ’s post about privilege, to agree that you’ll be fine as a holidaying westerners, just don’t be poor and brown.

Trickleg · 07/08/2023 14:16

This. Absolutely this

Quisquam · 07/08/2023 13:48

I generally wore t shirts with short sleeves and cropped trousers below the knee, going out and about in Dubai. If I wanted to go into a mosque, I had to wear long sleeves and trousers, and a head scarf. Alternatively, the mosque lends women visitors an abayeh (spelling?); but it’s very hot on top of clothes! Actually, we went to Oman recently and I wore the long trousers, sleeves and head scarf in the grand mosque. I felt cooler than in short sleeves, cropped trousers, a sun hat and loads of sun cream!

I didn’t swim, but I have no doubt if I had wanted to, I’d have been ok in a swimming costume, so long as I covered up, outside the pool area. (We stayed with a relative in an apartment block with its own pool).

I would have been more worried about swearing and PDAs in public! You can drink in the big hotels, but our relative warned us, we had to be able to walk down the street in a straight line afterwards. Not that it was a problem, as we got a taxi there and back. I recommend going for brunch in a big hotel on a Friday! It’s fantastic!

cymbidium · 07/08/2023 13:40

cymbidium · 07/08/2023 13:27

Anyone been to the museum of the future, what was it like and was it worth it?

Ok read on tripadvisor, doesn’t look very interesting apart from the beautiful building.0

cymbidium · 07/08/2023 13:27

Anyone been to the museum of the future, what was it like and was it worth it?

FrenchandSaunders · 07/08/2023 13:07

I understand the need for sun and a complete rest, staying in the resort and enjoying the facilities etc. What I don't get is why go all the way to Dubai for that? Is it the price? Is a 5 star there better and cheaper than Europe ... or possibly the time of year? When are you going?

PossiblyNotOne · 07/08/2023 12:54

Go visit the malls and the old part of Dubai. All the gold is a sight.

crushercreel · 07/08/2023 12:35

Barbadossunset · 07/08/2023 11:36

Hearmeout · Today 11:16
Only on MN can you ask a question about clothes and get a lecture that nobody, not a single soul, asked for.

Yes - and there’s so much hypocrisy here about travel. People rave about Cuba - “oh the people had nothing but they were so happy” with no mention of Cuba’s appalling human rights record.
I asked a poster upthread if she’d go to Iran, China or Malaysia to name a few and no answer.

If someone starts a thread about Dubai people are going to give their opinions on Dubai.

Are the same posters who are raving about Cuba also the ones criticising Dubai?

SpottyWindow · 07/08/2023 12:29

You will be fine. You are a westerner not a migrant worker from the Indian subcontinent. Your privilege will keep you safe.

InSpainTheRain · 07/08/2023 12:19

It's fine. We nor married either bur in resorts there are no issues. Obviously no drugs, don't get drink outside the resort, if you go shopping then cover legs to knees and cover arms to be respectful, wear ehatever at the pool but cover to go inside. I've always found it very safe.

Tartareistasty · 07/08/2023 12:04

I have presumed this is because its all done within certain hotel or resort confines.

Most buildings here have pools. There are restaurants on every corner, it's amazing. You can find anything from 10 dirham shawarma to expensive restaurant. Lots of happy hours (though in many cases the prices still give me eye twitch). I think there are 4 places with alcohol licence within 15 min walk from mine. Not that I walk now in summer anywhere but building's gym😂
It's very social place ime. I have ME inlaws and there is always something going on.

Ohmylovejune · 07/08/2023 11:48

I have a friend whose daughter lives and works in Dubai. She is always swimming, out drinking and eating - moreso than anyone else I know on sm. I have presumed this is because its all done within certain hotel or resort confines.

I've never been there because there doesn't seem to be much to attract me (I can't sit in the sun for long and don't like shopping) but I'm.all for trying anywhere once and probably will go one day. The hotels look fabulous.