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I know it's a TAAT but....

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CaroleSinger · 03/08/2023 08:08

The lady who's sil wouldn't stop calling her DH? Has it been zapped? I was following with hope for the poor op 😞

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Mellowautumnmists · 04/08/2023 08:56

There's been a few fake thread's recently. Is it the school holidays to blame, youngsters with too much time on their hands.

I believe one very nasty one was was deleted yesterday (announced the death of someone from what I can gather?).

MySugarBabyLove · 03/08/2023 17:23

TBH I don’t think it makes sense to suggest that the sockpuppeting was from others on the thread. To establish that MN HQ would need to have looked at every user on the thread, and why would they do that?

And where was all the troll hunting? I read the majority of that thread and I didn’t see it, and usually when there is and MN HQ have no reason to doubt the OP they’ll put a message on the thread telling posters to rein it in. But I didn’t see much of it in the first place.

I think it’s worth remembering that there have been genuine threads here over the years. I’ve been here for 17 years and when MN was much smaller posters recognised each other’s names and talked openly about their lives etc. There was the poster whose dd died of SIDS when she was two and MN’ers did a mile walk to raise money for the SIDS foundation, Misdee’s dh who waited for a heart and had a transplant (I often wonder about her), Onlyjoking whose dh had a brain tumour, and expat’s dd who passed away, and all of those were genuine, so it doesn’t necessarily follow that every emotive thread is a fake.

But there are often signs that it likely is. The scenario yesterday was believeable to a point, my BIL’s SIL was a bit like this when his brother died, not taking him away etc but constantly calling him, wanting him to come over and help her with things etc. But that was in the beginning, and she moved on with her life over time.

But when the OP started becoming more and more dramatic to the point that when she messaged the SIL to say that DH was on his way with MIL who was being moved and she responded that it wasn’t anything like becoming.a widow so young and that this was the house where her babies were born… I mean come on. It’s clear the OP got carried away at that point, probably because she was being believed, and people will believe anything in some instances.

UncertainSmiler · 03/08/2023 16:15

OhComeOnFFS · 03/08/2023 11:53

There is one very dramatic thread on here this month which is so clearly a fake and yet everyone's hanging on every word.

Does it involve an incontinent cousin?

blacknredsweeties · 03/08/2023 16:11

One poster commenting under different names

gingerguineapig · 03/08/2023 16:06

I was wondering that too. Here is the explanation:

Sock puppet account - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sock_puppet_account

BreakHerOffAKitKat · 03/08/2023 16:02

Can someone tell me what is sock puppeting? I've heard of Troll hunting but the socks is a new one on me!

Hibiscrubbed · 03/08/2023 15:46

What was the potentially fantasy outcome of the thread? Did the SIL start calling him by the dead husband’s name?!

It was interesting to me as my H looks exactly like his brother, and my SIL can be a bit..odd with my one. 😂

CherryMaDeara · 03/08/2023 13:47

SaleOfTwoTitties · 03/08/2023 08:42

This thread has been deleted

We've had to remove this thread due to the amount of sock-puppeting and troll-hunting.

that's the message. If the op is genuine, I hope they are alright. It sounded awful.

That seems to mean the OP could have been legit but other posters piled on as sock puppets.

MN should have moved the thread to relationships or 30 day thread.

OhComeOnFFS · 03/08/2023 13:43

@baroqueandblue The one that runs and runs?

baroqueandblue · 03/08/2023 13:04

OhComeOnFFS · 03/08/2023 11:53

There is one very dramatic thread on here this month which is so clearly a fake and yet everyone's hanging on every word.

Are you thinking what I'm thinking..?

AnSolas · 03/08/2023 12:12

VickyEadieofThigh · 03/08/2023 09:47

There's been a number of fake threads on here recently.

Why does anyone waste their time making them? What's the point? What do they get out of it?

I seen a thread on MN where someone was testing one of the web AI so I guess if you had a new AI AIBU would be a good marketing test demo??

Beenhereforever1978 · 03/08/2023 11:57

@OhComeOnFFS some of the harmless ones are quite fun. Sharon and the T Rex in Asda for example.

OhComeOnFFS · 03/08/2023 11:53

There is one very dramatic thread on here this month which is so clearly a fake and yet everyone's hanging on every word.

Keyworks · 03/08/2023 11:52

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blacknredsweeties · 03/08/2023 09:51

I don't think it was fake. If it was they would have said. I think the sock puppeting ???? was from others?

Manicpanicatthedisco · 03/08/2023 09:51

I didn't think it was fake - so if it was I think it was pretty well done. And I got overinvested. I've been accused of making up a thread before when I hadn't though so I tend to give the benefit of the doubt.

IncompleteSenten · 03/08/2023 09:48

Attention

VickyEadieofThigh · 03/08/2023 09:47

There's been a number of fake threads on here recently.

Why does anyone waste their time making them? What's the point? What do they get out of it?

gingerguineapig · 03/08/2023 09:36

stiltonbriecheddar · 03/08/2023 08:37

I didn't think that was a fake thread!

I did respond to it, but I had my suspicions that it was fake. I didn't report it or say anything nasty about trolls though.

CaroleSinger · 03/08/2023 09:29

Yeah it was a bit far fetched I suppose. I couldn't understand why the op was constantly making excuses for the sil. Every updated post had me balking at the screen thinking wtf?! lol 🤣

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PuzzledObserver · 03/08/2023 09:06

I was really annoyed too.

UncertainSmiler · 03/08/2023 08:58

Never get emotionally overinvested in a thread in here. There’s so much bullshit.

MySugarBabyLove · 03/08/2023 08:57

Tbh I Think shevoverplayed her hand when the mil was being moved and she sent back the message saying it wasn’t as bad as being widowed young and this being her babies’ home.

SaleOfTwoTitties · 03/08/2023 08:42

This thread has been deleted

We've had to remove this thread due to the amount of sock-puppeting and troll-hunting.

that's the message. If the op is genuine, I hope they are alright. It sounded awful.