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Beansprout30 · 01/08/2023 00:28

Im on a family holiday,
me, kids, reluctant hubby and my mother in Cornwall. Worked hard all year for this break, me and mum like to wrap up for the great British summer and sit outside for a drink and a chat and some CF has just ‘sssh’ us at 11.15, some guy trying to sleep. Are we being unreasonable?! No music, just a mum and daughter chat outside our house after a crazy day with the kids ……

OP posts:
Thelastofbus · 01/08/2023 00:38

If somebody asks you to be quiet after 11:00 at night, you bloody well oblige! It’s a lovely idea to be sat outside chatting under the stars, but it’s not fair if it is keeping someone else awake,

XenoBitch · 01/08/2023 00:37

YABU in that the only CF is you. If you need to chat outside, do it earlier.

dizzydizzydizzy · 01/08/2023 00:36

My neighbours often wake me up saying goodbye to visitors. Talking is very disturbing. So, yes, you are probably being U to be talking outside so late.

PriamFarrl · 01/08/2023 00:35

And that ‘cf’ has most likely got to get up in the morning and go to work if you are in a holiday cottage. After 11 take it inside. Voices carry more than you might think.

BPDprincess · 01/08/2023 00:30

Are you on a holiday park, or staying in an airb'n'b/similar?