We have been having issues with stepson since our wedding a year ago. I think it mainly stemmed from a few issues we have had with his mum, she started demanding more money and things became tense between us all.
Long story short he was incredibly rude & disrespectful to me recently, the worst its ever been. Dh told him to apologise but he said no.
We are due to have him tomorrow he has said he doesn't want to which is fine, but now DH is pandering to him and offering to take him out for some 1 on 1 time so that he can see him but ss doesn't have to come over.
AIBU to think that is the worst thing to do? Surely this gives the impression that he doesn't actually have to apologise and that he in some way isnt at fault? It's as if DH is rewarding him.