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Things that give you the absolute RAGE!!

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strawthatbrokethecamelsback · 22/07/2023 11:33

DH has just put the dishwasher on a long cycle in the middle of the day 😡 I have all of his family coming shortly for a meal to celebrate his birthday.

surely everyone knows that during the day it’s a short cycle and overnight it’s a long cycle.

now I have to wait 3 bastard hours for it to finish with the pots building up.

of course slightly lighthearted but what does give you the rage?

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chaosmaker · 29/09/2023 20:21

Idiots that don't check their headlight clamps or headlights to make sure they are pointed where they should be and not in the eyes of oncoming drivers. Already noticing this as the nights are drawing in. Usually drive with a dipped rear view mirror which helps with not being blinded from behind at least.
Dazzling headlights are dangerous for everyone including pedestrians and cyclists that the driver may not see. I think there should be a maximum limit on the wattage/dazzle of headlights anyway.

SouthCountryGirl · 29/09/2023 11:01

When you're at the doctors and there's a parent who allows their child to just make noise.

I'm not expecting silence just don't let them crawl (they were 4 or 5) around making noise

gingerguineapig · 29/09/2023 10:58

Agree boy racer cars are such a pain.

Also agree with Christmas starting too early. Please no Christmas events before 1 December or at least the first Sunday in Advent.

Also agree about religious schools being allowed to exclude local children because they don't have the right bit of paper.

LinMortisanass · 23/09/2023 22:43

The fact that my local secondary school has a terrible reputation for fights and bullying, and the only other schools I can apply for are both churchy and there's no way we'll get our son in without a Baptism certificate. We have no choice really, our son is destined to end up on a rubbish school. Makes me both angry and sad.

JaneyGee · 23/09/2023 22:27

What gives me the rage? The fact that I’m sitting near in noise cancelling earphones to shut out the screeching and exploding sound of boy racer cars. They woke me up twice last night, and they’ll wake me up again tonight. The police do FA about it, in spite of numerous complaints. They race around the country lanes near me, with souped up engines, and modified exhausts that pop and crackle and bang. I’m SICK of it.

Iamtheonwandlonely · 23/09/2023 22:06

The word "naice"
Does my head in

TheGhostofLoganRoy · 23/09/2023 02:29

I've got one: people who react to being challenged or disagreed with by just making up absolutely insane lies to attack the other person out of thin air.

This happens in real life occasionally but it seems to happen all the time on Mumsnet nowadays, and it's just so freaky.

I can't count how many times I've seen (and it's happened both to me and to others) conversations that go like this:
Person 1: I believe X.
Person 2: I strongly disagree with you, I believe Y.
Person 1: I am disgusted that Person 1 brags that they torture hamsters for fun!

And it's like... you've literally just invented that out of thin air? The word "hamster" doesn't even appear once in this thread? And the argument had nothing to do with hamsters, or animal rights, or pets, or anything related to hamsters?

I don't know why it gives me the rage so much -- I think because it just feels like playing dirty. Ugh, I hate liars so much.

LittleMissUnreasonable · 23/09/2023 00:32

OMG I feel rage just reading this! Angry Reminds me of one of the couples in my street ... They had a baby (now a year and a half old,) and her name is Millie. He is OK,, but SHE (the mum,) keeps calling her 'Milky Moo Moo' as a nickname, and crying out 'awww milky Millie,' and 'mee mee moo, my little Milkie angel.'**
@PurpleButterflyWings

Oh no that's grotesque, I'm surprised you don't end up projectile vomiting when they start talking 🤐

Iamtheonwandlonely · 22/09/2023 23:01

There's a house opposite me and it's navy,all navy.
And it gives me so much rage when I pass it.
It's so not needed but it bugs the shit out of me.

CordyD · 21/09/2023 23:01

People that throw litter from their car windows when they're driving along. The expectation that some other poor mug will tidy up after them. Makes me rage!

toadasoda · 21/09/2023 22:32

Tilllly · 21/09/2023 22:24

When I run the country, Cmas music will be banned until 10th December

Hear hear!

And adults who 'get excited' for it in November. Seriously, who is coming down your chimney? Enjoy it, fine, but talking about how excited you are makes me seriously wonder what is lacking in your brain or your life.

Tilllly · 21/09/2023 22:24

Cattenberg · 21/09/2023 17:52

I agree and I’d add - shops playing Christmas music early. I actively avoid the shops as much as possible from October to mid December as I can’t stand it. If Christmas songs were only played for a week or two each year it would be fine!

When I run the country, Cmas music will be banned until 10th December

Meowandthen · 21/09/2023 20:40

Rape apologists, female ones especially. 😠

Glasgowgal200 · 21/09/2023 18:45

people who keep parking on the yellow zig-zag lines outside the high flats - they are painted there for a reason. its not necessarily the same people doing it but everytime i look out the window there isat least one car parked on the zig-zags, its people being lazy as it is right in front of the main entrance!!!!!!!

AmIAutumnalNow · 21/09/2023 18:37

Seen on another thread and I'm sitting on my hands

"I asked DH and he said..."

Cattenberg · 21/09/2023 17:52

I agree and I’d add - shops playing Christmas music early. I actively avoid the shops as much as possible from October to mid December as I can’t stand it. If Christmas songs were only played for a week or two each year it would be fine!

chaosmaker · 21/09/2023 14:00

Ships putting seasonal tat up months early. November will be when Easter Eggs are in stock...

Fashion - just why? Adds to the throwaway culture. Just buy stuff you like and wear until it falls apart.

Smoking anything - again, why?

HunterHearstHelmsley · 20/09/2023 16:54

GypsyTartForSchoolLunch · 20/09/2023 16:36

People who stop at the bottom of the stairs/entrance to the platform on the tube. They've either got loads of suitcases or are in a group with friends and just chat and get in the way whilst I'm trying to get to work!

Or just after the ticket barrier so you're trapped in no man's land..

PurpleButterflyWings · 20/09/2023 16:50

And yes to the fucking annoying 'YAY IT'S NEARLY CHRISTMAS' fuckers ! Hmm

It's SEPTEMBER you fuckwad. We still have a holiday to come yet - next couple of weeks, and a mid Autumn wedding, and Halloween and Bonfire night, and 3 birthdays of close family members. All before the end of October. Fuck off with Christmas. I don't want to KNOW until after Halloween.

I like Christmas, but FFS, it's September. Get a grip!

PurpleButterflyWings · 20/09/2023 16:47

LittleMissUnreasonable · 12/09/2023 11:17

Really sicky smug phrases when someone's had a baby
"Newborn bubble"
"Milky snuggles"
"Cocooned ourselves"

It just makes me think of a family sat in a dark room which smells of stale milk with the curtains closed, cocooned in a blanket

OMG I feel rage just reading this! Angry Reminds me of one of the couples in my street ... They had a baby (now a year and a half old,) and her name is Millie. He is OK,, but SHE (the mum,) keeps calling her 'Milky Moo Moo' as a nickname, and crying out 'awww milky Millie,' and 'mee mee moo, my little Milkie angel.'

WHAT. THE. ACTUAL. FUCK? Confused

I die a little bit inside every time I hear her say it! 😫

GypsyTartForSchoolLunch · 20/09/2023 16:36

People who stop at the bottom of the stairs/entrance to the platform on the tube. They've either got loads of suitcases or are in a group with friends and just chat and get in the way whilst I'm trying to get to work!

GypsyTartForSchoolLunch · 20/09/2023 16:32

Everything!

TheGhostofLoganRoy · 20/09/2023 16:19

Literally everything to do with estate agents.

Estate agents who ignore your viewing request/offer - sorry to you not want to sell the house??

Estate agents who phone you once at 11am on a weekday and act shocked and affronted that you don't answer, while simultaneously saying they can't entertain offers from anyone not in full time employment.

Estate agents who insist on not using any form of communication other than the phone. Get into the 21stC mate!!

Unrelated:

People who assume that I'm my mate's carer just because he uses a wheelchair and I don't. Nope just two mates out together.

People who think that everything anyone else does is for the sole purpose of impressing them. "Ohh my sister in law bought a new car, she just does it to try to impress me, snobby cow." Or "oh her next door swans past with her designer handbag swinging from her arm, why does she work so hard to show off to me?" Like who the fuck are you that anyone would give a shit about impressing you. I'd bet money none of those people are thinking about you at all. Just sheer narcissism.

ToWhitToWhoo · 18/09/2023 23:24

Meowandthen · 18/09/2023 21:50

People who never stop talking about Christmas. It’s only mid-September and I have already seen people asking if it’s too early to put up a bloody tree.

Do what you like in your own home but please STFU about it until after Remembrance Day. Stop wishing your life away.

I find that odd and a bit of a bore, but it doesn't give me the rage. What DOES give me the rage is if people wish me a 'white Christmas'. Snow round here makes paths and pavements slippery and treacherous, and due to disabilities I can't manage icy paths safely, so I become housebound. So it's like wishing me a prison sentence! In any case, I doubt that it was snowing in Bethlehem.

FernFae · 18/09/2023 22:25

People who brag on FB and social media look at me look at me crap
People taking constant selfies of themselves on FB daily with Said bragging posts
People who like to copy you
oddly enough my sil is all of these things 🙄 but yeh people like that ....

People who hurt wildlife and animals