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Settle a private v state argument for me?

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Givemyheadpiece · 19/07/2023 08:17

Friend sent kids to prep schools, and now doing senior private schools til GSCE.

then the plan is to put the kids in state school for A levels to ‘fool’ the Uni admissions people - Oxbridge in particular- into thinking the kids were state schooled all along and get them into good unis - as many universities are now trying to give more bright state schooled/ low income kids a chance to get in.

I told her that they can see which school the kids studied at pre 6th form and that will be considered -

YANBU - of course it won’t fool admissions
YABU - she’s right, you can go Eton all the way then switch for A levels and no-one will know

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ThanksItHasPockets · 20/07/2023 09:17

Givemyheadpiece · 20/07/2023 08:53

Friend of a friend teaches at this 6th form and says that the majority of private pupils who go there struggle with working independently, they’re used to being spoon fed.

interestingly also said that most of the pupils are from state school… I wonder if that’s just a numbers thing - there are more kids in local state schools than private- or if they are unofficially prioritised state kids … I could ask but I suppose she wouldn’t/couldn’t say!

Don't forget that the privately-educated only comprise about 8% of all secondary-aged students. Most students full-stop are from state schools, but it's easy to forget this if you spend too much time on MN Grin. Please don't go looking for positive discrimination that doesn't exist.

I imagine it's also self-selecting. If the sixth form is very well-regarded in the area there is little incentive for the local state schools to set up their own sixth forms and they are likely to remain 11-16 - if you're a headteacher in south Cambridge there's not much point setting up a sixth form to compete with Hills Road, for example. Independent schools are more likely to have sixth forms and as long as the families can afford it (and aren't trying to game the system) they are less likely to move their children.

Givemyheadpiece · 20/07/2023 08:53

Friend of a friend teaches at this 6th form and says that the majority of private pupils who go there struggle with working independently, they’re used to being spoon fed.

interestingly also said that most of the pupils are from state school… I wonder if that’s just a numbers thing - there are more kids in local state schools than private- or if they are unofficially prioritised state kids … I could ask but I suppose she wouldn’t/couldn’t say!

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RampantIvy · 20/07/2023 08:15

AndIKnewYouMeantIt · 19/07/2023 10:45

She sounds lovely. 😐

I went to a very, very good state 6th form (Greenhead) which regularly sends 30 or so to Oxford and about 15 to Cambridge. The reason those unis like it is that the "feeder" schools are bog standard, OFSTED-middling local high schools, so I assume it fills some sort of quota.

However the girl I know who got into French at Cambridge transferred to Greenhead from QEGGS for that exact reason, and it did seem to work.

Greenhead takes loads of pupils from QEGS and WGHS, and also Silcoates because it is by far a better 6th form. Parents can then save the money they would have spent on school fees. Quite a few pupils travel there from schools in South Yorkshire as well.

Widening participation will look at where the child was aged 16 and were for secondary - this will fool no one

Your friend is wrong. Gaming the system doesn't work. Posters saying that it does have probably missed the point that the successful applicant would have got in anyway regardless of where they were educated.

What I would say to the friend though is, a state sixth form will be a very different beast to a private school one, and not all students cope well with a transition from a high structured and learning-managed environment to one where students are expected to do a lot of independent study themselves.

I agree.

Many a private school student has had the wheels fall off when moving to a state sixth form for this very reason. Some will cope, of course, but many more will not.

And this is especially true of students who were privately educated all the way through to A levels and then find the lack of hands on approach at university a big culture shock.

Givemyheadpiece · 20/07/2023 07:50

Finally Oxbridge is starting to recognised that WC kids don’t always have a lot of extra curricular activities or music grades etc

I was a young carer who was asked about my ‘lack’ of interests outside of school… I was asked why, if I loved singing and was in the - free- school choir why I didn’t have any grades in it. Was I bad at it?
Why didn’t I play an instrument?

It didn’t seem to occur to them that so had neither the time nor money to do any tho g other than study and be a carer.

Hopefully things have changed now…

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Givemyheadpiece · 20/07/2023 07:45

‘Here’s a thought - why don’t they just make schooling anonymous on the application form? Discrimination is much harder this way.’

we do this at work - but honestly, once in interview you can tell a LOT a bout someone including background, ‘class’ graduates quite often bring up their own schools and background.

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redskytwonight · 20/07/2023 07:37

Sunnysideup999 · 20/07/2023 06:59

Here’s a thought - why don’t they just make schooling anonymous on the application form? Discrimination is much harder this way.
ideally ethnicity and gender too - although this is harder to do at interview stage

Other than school results most of the "application form" is a free format personal statement. Private school children are likely to have had more opportunities relating to things to put in it, and more help in creating it. On paper private school children generally "look better". Disabled children, children with SEN, children who are young carers and other children who have specific challenges will look worse. Some of this is currently balanced out by the school statement, but if you are anonymising schooling ....

yogasaurus · 20/07/2023 07:01

It goes on. Children at DC’s independent school leave for the local sixth form (naice area) so they can have a taste of ‘walking to school and being independent’

It works.

Sunnysideup999 · 20/07/2023 06:59

Here’s a thought - why don’t they just make schooling anonymous on the application form? Discrimination is much harder this way.
ideally ethnicity and gender too - although this is harder to do at interview stage

Givemyheadpiece · 20/07/2023 06:48

‘I am fairly sure I am correct in saying that all Oxbridge offers are min AAA, never less.’

not quite and there are plenty of kids at this 6th form excelling. Despite being from a wide range of back grounds and it’s being non selective… it’s almost as if bright kids in a good school don’t need to be spoon feed in private education…
in fact one of the criteria to get in is an interview where it’s made very clear that independence is key to their way of teaching.
So you, you family have to be aware of that and know you’re up for it. Otherwise there are a couple of other more- like- school 6th form options in the town that many opt for

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Happytohelp2 · 19/07/2023 23:08

Oxford tutors get data on not just school type pre AND post 16, but also about achievement levels at those schools and % eligible for free school meals. She’s fooling no one.

smilesup · 19/07/2023 22:55

Wincher · 19/07/2023 09:28

I sometimes wonder whether it goes the other way - if I were to send my kids private for sixth form, would universities take into account that their GCSEs were obtained at an inner city comp, or would they be treated as private school kids with no other context taken into account?

Hopefully they will realise that your DC are getting the advantage of a private school education a bet for a few short years and also they are not dealing with poverty.

ThanksItHasPockets · 19/07/2023 22:49

Stellaroses · 19/07/2023 22:45

I am fairly sure I am correct in saying that all Oxbridge offers are min AAA, never less.
No the context doesn’t change the offer.

Oxford now has funded foundation years for some subjects as part of their access programmes. They have min requirements of BBB but other contextual factors are also considered.

Stellaroses · 19/07/2023 22:45

I am fairly sure I am correct in saying that all Oxbridge offers are min AAA, never less.
No the context doesn’t change the offer.

Tingalingle · 19/07/2023 22:33

Cyclingmummy1 · 19/07/2023 19:59

They must be mad!

But Givemyheadpiece says :
'this 6th form in question is one of the best in the UK. Private or State. On 'outcomes' that is - either 'high value' uni admission or employment. Mostly Uni though. It's non-selective and incredibly diverse, yet still does very well.'

Sounds like they'd be mad NOT to make use of it. And as someone suggested upthread, they may need to save fees and save face.

Cyclingmummy1 · 19/07/2023 19:59

They must be mad!

Givemyheadpiece · 19/07/2023 17:52

Good, I'm glad to know that admission decisions are more than the last school someone went to.

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DaisyThistle · 19/07/2023 16:53

Unis 100% look at where they did GCSEs. Especially Oxbridge. 6th form switching is frowned upon. Won't rule you out if you are a good student but certainly you won't get any state-educated levelling of the playing field. And you'd better get 3-4 A*s too, having had a privileged start.

hettie · 19/07/2023 16:53

Tbh I think it's a bit of a myth that private school students are being disadvantaged in the university entrance system. They are still over represented at Oxbridge and Russell grps just not as ridiculously dominant

Almahart · 19/07/2023 16:45

There's loads of this going on where I live. I think pps are spot on when they say it gives universities an easy way to increase percentage of state educated pupils without trying too hard.

Fwiw, I work in an area much sought after by Oxbridge types and we do all our recruitment completely blind to where people have been to university. There is definitely a confidence to them but I wouldn't say that they do better over all - intellect is what really makes the difference, not polish and there are plenty of v bright kids from other universities.

Tingalingle · 19/07/2023 16:39

How to make an entrance on Day 1 of the first year!

Givemyheadpiece · 19/07/2023 15:48

‘I know it's a typo...
but I do love the idea of 'a great segway into Uni'

or did I mean it literally 😅??

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Tingalingle · 19/07/2023 15:27

I know it's a typo...
but I do love the idea of 'a great segway into Uni'

Spendonsend · 19/07/2023 15:26

thedancingbear · 19/07/2023 14:58

Fgs. There’s no such thing as a contextual versus a ‘normal’ offer. Oxbridge uses contextual data to assess the extent of student’s’ achievement in getting the grades they have, and to help understand potential.

kids from ‘ordinary’ backgrounds get into top universities based on talent and effort. They are not charity cases stealing places from more ‘deserving’ backgrounds.

I am not sure why my reply made you feel I think they are charity cases stealing places? Couldnt be further from my thoughts. Must just be the way i worded it.

I apologise if i have misunderstood but i thought contextual offers were made when certain criteria were met such as being a looked after child, or going to a really low performing school, and that the offer could be a grade lower than the 'normal" entry requirements. I dont think just plonking your child in a normal state school is the kind of thing that leads to lowering the offer grades.

Are you saying all offers are contextual its just some contexts mean AAA is certain subjects is neeed and in other contexts AAB is needed with less strict requirements on the subjects.

And as i said i have no idea if someone is more likely to get an offer at from a state or private school but most offers are going to be to based on meeting the advertised entry requirements, so meeting the advertised entry requirements still seems like a goodplan to me.

spir1t · 19/07/2023 15:14

Oxbridge have rigid targets for WP but, as things stand, the main stated targets of 'x% from state schools' is a very blunt instrument indeed. It can even be a way of avoiding taking students from underprivileged backgrounds because what you find is that these 'state school entrants' tend to be from grammars, academies and excellent comps with wealthy catchment areas. Yes I
Oxbridge monitor ACORN and POLAR data too, but these real signifiers of disadvantage don't seem to make the WP headlines in quite the same way. It all just gets fudged within the yearly claims of '75% of students from state schools in 2022, an increase of 2% on 2021!' or some such.

thedancingbear · 19/07/2023 14:58

Spendonsend · 19/07/2023 14:12

It wouldnt work for contextual offers

Whether it would work for just getting a normal offer at all i dont know.

I think overall getting the best grade you can is the best way to get to the university you want.

Fgs. There’s no such thing as a contextual versus a ‘normal’ offer. Oxbridge uses contextual data to assess the extent of student’s’ achievement in getting the grades they have, and to help understand potential.

kids from ‘ordinary’ backgrounds get into top universities based on talent and effort. They are not charity cases stealing places from more ‘deserving’ backgrounds.

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