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Swansandcustard · 04/07/2023 07:35

On holiday in a villa with a pool. Have previously done so and love the freedom and privacy.

We built our own holiday, and the villa is an AirBnB, again which we’ve done previously.

This year it’s been a bit off-putting following our arrival and interactions with the owner.

We had a nightmare at the airport UK side with the parking airport shuttle not running as advertised (barely at all) and only just getting on the flight, so when we landed we were a bit frazzled. Got thru customs, bag claim and picked up car and headed to grab some food as we hadn’t had time at the airport before flying.

we’d just started eating when the villa owner called and asked when we would be there. I said probably between 3-4. He said very curtly, ‘I need to know EXACTLY when you’ll be here, to the minute. Call me when you’re leaving’. I thought it was a bit rude, but…and did as he asked.

When we arrived he was at the villa. And proceeded to spend 30 minutes telling us what we couldn’t do.

Don’t put lots in the fridge - just one drink at a time
Don’t turn the aircon too low, it will be too cold for you and may make you ill.
Don’t wear sun cream in the pool - shower it all off, have your swim, get out and reapply.

There were lots of other rules too, but these were the ones that stuck out. Overall it felt very unwelcoming, quite rude and frankly unrealistic. If I don’t wear sun cream, I don’t go in the pool full stop. I am very ginger fair and would burn immediately.

We’ve holidayed all over the med and never heard the like - people don’t let dc play in water without sunscreen, surely?

Aibu or is he?

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StrawberryWater · 04/07/2023 08:01

I’ve encountered way too many people like that via Airbnb so I also avoid.

Ignore him, enjoy your holiday and stay in a hotel next time.

Lazylikeasundaymorning · 04/07/2023 08:01

Sunscreen can react with pool water chemicals and go cloudy and irritate the skin, I suspect that might be his reasoning. I think there are some kinds that don’t do this but not sure which ones https://platinumpools.com/sunscreen-impact-on-pool-water/ Having said that I would still use it, just give it time to dry before going in the pool maybe?

Can Sunscreen Affect a Swimming Pool’s Water? - Platinum Pools

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https://platinumpools.com/sunscreen-impact-on-pool-water/

TeeBee · 04/07/2023 08:00

He sounds a bit of a twat. I'd just ignore him and enjoy your holiday as you see fit.

littleripper · 04/07/2023 07:56

This is why I do not stay in AirbnB. Just enjoy your week and book a hotel next time.

babbscrabbs · 04/07/2023 07:49

After a few bad experiences with Airbnb I avoid it now. Would rather stay in a hotel or cottage via an agency.

Orchidgal · 04/07/2023 07:47

Not sure what I think of this. Air BnB is massively undercutting the hospitality industry, although the ‘hospitality’ element is often totally missing. It’s literally people looking to make money out of people staying in their homes, and so there are more ‘rules’ than there would be a hotel or actual holiday property run as a full time business with service in mind.
Maybe this is a case of you get what you pay for?

Mummanoodle · 04/07/2023 07:41

Sounds like the owner is a little OTT with his way of ‘welcoming’ guests. I don’t know why he said not to wear sunscreen in the pool - did he explain? I’m sure he won’t know if you do, like you say most of us would to protect ourselves. Overall though, you’re on holiday so relax and enjoy. Don’t dwell on the things that have happened that are just minuscule annoyances

Irritateandunreasonable · 04/07/2023 07:40

Ignore him.

he can’t be that controlling if he wants to rent his property out - maybe this just isn’t the right business for him but that’s not your problem. Enjoy your holiday.