Marriage

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Lillabetty · 02/07/2023 19:19

Me and partner have been together for 6 years 2 kids together 4 and 5months. I've always had trouble with my mental health has got worse over the years due to PND ( I am getting help)

AIBU to tell me partner I'm unsure on the relationship anymore because he said we aren't and most likely never will marry because of my mental health. Marriage hasn't been on the forefront of my mind at all but hearing those words broke my heart

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veryfluffyfluff · 02/07/2023 22:06

he wants to get married (said it in the past) just not to me because of my mental health that's what I mean. Your mental health issues are part of you

AnneLovesGilbert · 02/07/2023 22:03

Has he said why, specifically? Are you getting proper help with your mental health?

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Lillabetty · 02/07/2023 22:02

No hasn't hinted that he wants to split. Absolutely he doesn't have to get married he wants to get married (said it in the past) just not to me because of my mental health

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veryfluffyfluff · 02/07/2023 22:01

I mean it sounds like he's telling you it's over

Dacadactyl · 02/07/2023 22:00

YANBU to tell your partner that not being married is a deal breaker for you, no.

DustyLee123 · 02/07/2023 21:57

Is he saying that he wants to split ? It’s ok for him to not want to get married.

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