To keep "trying" when it could clash with sisters wedding?

I had the same issue, but we’d been trying for over 2 years already (secondary infertility). We had a brief discussion about whether to stop trying for the month that would have put my due date a few days after my sister’s wedding. We decided to carry on regardless and amazingly that was the month I got pregnant! I ended up giving a speech at the wedding within days of my due date. We stayed up until the first dance then sloped off to bed. DS hung on for another 11 days before being dragged out of me very unwillingly 😄
I think it was the fact I was almost not wanting to get pregnant that month that made my body relax enough to allow it to happen in the end. My sister and family were all absolutely fine with it, and delighted for us.

It's not wedding madness fussing about make up or shoes, its being at your sisters wedding. Which I'm sure is not only important to OP and sister but other family members too.

If you’re fertile you’ll conceive sooner or later, one month isn’t going to make a massive difference.

I wouldn't wait given your age. You get 12 chances a year and nothing would make me throw away a month and the chance of a baby for the joy of attending a wedding for one day at 8 months pregnant.

I can’t even believe this is a thing

do people care this much about weddings IRL or is this a MN thing? I’ve honestly never seen this wedding madness IRL like what I read on here sometimes

Keep trying…that could be the magic egg and you would never know if you missed your chance.

I would miss a month tbh but only one month.

Personally wouldn't wait, but it took me two years to conceive starting at 38.

If it's important for you to be there, I would hold off for a month. It's would be tricky enough to be there at 36wks pregnant or with a 2-4 week old baby - but those situations you could work around.

If you were to get pregnant next month meaning that you are 40 weeks pregnant on the wedding day, you're simply not going to be able to travel to the wedding (unless the baby has made an appearance a couple of weeks early).

I’d keep trying. You might wait 2 months only to have the baby come 2 months early. Just keep trying and you’ll cross that bridge when you come to it!

I skipped a month TTC as my sis was getting married abroad, At worst I would have been 7 months along, it didn't happen in that time anyhow so wasn't relevant. It was France so flight travel wouldn't have been an issue if i was pg. What did annoy me was my 2 sisters constantly joking about how they hoped I wasn't trying and how awful would it be to have a pg bridesmaid or a newborn at the wedding etc so I obviously didn't tell them. I thought they were ridiculous. But I am so glad I was at my sisters wedding, missing would have been awful and not gone down well believe me

For reference I’ve done both. Went to family wedding 4 hours away at 38 weeks. Went to family wedding with two week old after a bad c-section. Both exhausting and a bit mad but fine.

Crack on. It’s perfectly possible to go to a wedding heavily pregnant or with a newborn. Maybe not whilst in active labour, you might steal the limelight there.

Some of the replies on here are batshit (to me). Don’t try because you might give birth near her wedding date but a month later is ok? WTF? so you’d be 8 mo pregnant at the wedding and might give birth early?

RIDICULOUS. Try now.

People saying “skip 2 months because you don’t want to take a newborn to a wedding” 😂

If you were 38 on cycle 6+ I’d say crack on but at cycle 2 I think I’d take the ‘risk’ for the wedding.

I'm sure she'd rather a niece or nephew than a wedding photo.

I was in a similar position last year, but I ended up falling pregnant and feeling very guilty about it (although my sister was so lovely about it) only to loose my beautiful little girl at 25weeks. I don't say this to upset but that you never know what is around the corner and you have to do what is right for you, at the time, the world works in mysterious ways ♥️

Just bear in mind you might want to pause for 2 months as you won't be wanting to take a newborn to Devon either.

I’d skip this one month then crack on again next month.

I don't know if I'd stop trying because of wedding but saying that, I would have stopped trying to avoid a July/August born baby as my first was late August and I found her being so small starting school really difficult. I was only 27 at the time though so would've taken my chances.
Also, my cousin was induced on my sisters wedding day. She really didn't mind at all and was thrilled for them, especially as they'd lost 2 babies.

Keep trying. Spoken as someone who missed my best friends wedding as I was giving birth. She got it, we worked through it. We had a bizarre Skype (yeah I'm old) call in the morning with me in my contractions and her in her wedding makeup. Life happens. X

Keep trying. Even if you waited a month or two and then fell pregnant you could give birth early, be having a difficult pregnancy, have morning sickness etc. Unless you’re planning on stopping trying until after the wedding )which sounds bonkers to be there doesn’t seem much point in trying to be so precise.

1 month wont make any difference to your fertility. For the sake of one month, I'd hold off

I would have gone to a wedding heavily pregnant if we weren't in lockdown but then I was doing pretty heavy exercise right the way through mine. Not a humble brag, just a reminder that you can still do things when you are pregnant, we aren't in Tudor times any more when pregnant ladies were confined to bed rest!