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Growth spurt???? Help!

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NameChangeThreeThousand · 18/06/2023 14:46

Anyone with boys ... Is this a growth spurt??

Age 11

Exhausted doing a sport he has done 6 times a week with no problems ever! Now adding time, not improving, looking knackered

Sleeping in middle of the day

Grumpy and irritable

Eating loads, then eating nothing

Feeling "ill" for a few days, then better, then "ill" again

Sore knee

???? Or does this sound like illness?

Or could some of this be symptoms of hayfever? (which he also has quite bad)?

If it's a growth spurt if sorts. How long does it last?

Thanks!

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Summer1912 · 19/06/2023 14:09

Doesnt sound like growth dd has grown loads this year from 50th centile to 90th.
Maybe little more sleep but none of other issues you are saying.
Has he actually grown a lot. I think over 10cm here this year. When usually 6cm.
Plus for her hormones kicking in and spots etc

HitsAndMrs · 19/06/2023 13:37

This is just a small picture but there are a few red flags in your post. I'm a physio and if he came into clinic I would be referring him to GP for further test.

Night pain is usually inflammatory response - can indicate something underlying - if it is unremitting at night it wakes him up then he needs an urgent referral.

Again - fatigue (yes, it's normal for teens to be tired but this sounds like it isn't his normal)

Stomach pain etc - all these things add up.

Hope you get some answers. May well be something simple like an iron deficiency but I wouldn't ignore.

DancingShinyFlamingo · 19/06/2023 13:08

I definitely think you’re right to get it checked out with doctor. It could just be heat, growth spurt, lots of exercise etc clashing together but it sounds a notable change and worth checking out and being sure.

MySoCalledWife · 19/06/2023 13:02

@QueenMabby yes, that’s it, it was Osgood-Slatter

i was clumbsily remembering 😄

greenacrylicpaint · 19/06/2023 12:57

if the leg pain is one sided and/or without obvious cause then go see a dr.

have a look at osgood-schlatter, crmo and see if that could fit the symptoms.

yipeeyiyay · 19/06/2023 12:51

Osgood-Shlatter disease is common at this age. Osgood-Schlatter disease is a condition that causes pain and swelling below the knee joint, where the patellar tendon attaches to the top of the shinbone (tibia), a spot called the tibial tuberosity. There may also be inflammation of the patellar tendon, which stretches over the kneecap.

It settled over time when everything catches up.

I suspect he is growing. He'll probably be an early shooter. One of my sons shot up around 12

NameChangeThreeThousand · 18/06/2023 20:09

Thanks all

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maddening · 18/06/2023 19:03

When you go to the doctor make sure you right down all the symptoms as it is easy to forget details in the appointment

ShandaLear · 18/06/2023 19:00

If he’s doing a lot of exercise in hot weather dehydration is the first thing to rule out as it can be the cause of most of those, along with not sleeping properly (could be the heat and hay fever) so I would rule these out before thinking about growth spurts or anything more serious.

QueenMabby · 18/06/2023 18:51

MySoCalledWife · 18/06/2023 17:07

The pain in leg thing is normal, my son had it around that age

Took him to the GP, who asked if he is very sporty. I say:no, normal. GP asked what our normal was, so I said he did cricket, karate and tennis, in total doing sport 5x a week. GP said that is a lot, and not a bad thing, but in boys that age it can cause more pressure/stress on tendons and bones, and that the bones and muscles don't grow exactly at the same rate, so sporty boys that age are very prone to knee pain, and a weirdly "loose" knee. And they grow out of it

My boys also always got tired towards the end of the school year and were tired from school work/sports and in need of a break

Grumpiness also normal at that age Grin

If he has ongoing stomach issues you may want to get that checked though!

Similar but I was just coming in here to suggest the knee issue might be Osgood Schlafters. It's quite common in children who do a lot of sport and are having a growth spurt. My DS had it in both knees at various points during the ages of 12 and 14.

Have a look at this:

www.esht.nhs.uk/wp-content/uploads/2021/03/0907.pdf

I can't help with the rest but hope your gp has some answers.

MySoCalledWife · 18/06/2023 17:07

The pain in leg thing is normal, my son had it around that age

Took him to the GP, who asked if he is very sporty. I say:no, normal. GP asked what our normal was, so I said he did cricket, karate and tennis, in total doing sport 5x a week. GP said that is a lot, and not a bad thing, but in boys that age it can cause more pressure/stress on tendons and bones, and that the bones and muscles don't grow exactly at the same rate, so sporty boys that age are very prone to knee pain, and a weirdly "loose" knee. And they grow out of it

My boys also always got tired towards the end of the school year and were tired from school work/sports and in need of a break

Grumpiness also normal at that age Grin

If he has ongoing stomach issues you may want to get that checked though!

Popcorn121 · 18/06/2023 16:59

I have 2 teenage boys, I would say that falling asleep during the day is highly unusual for an 11 year old. This is something associated with much younger children or old people. It is definitely harder to wake kids up the older they get and they take any opportunity to have a lie in but they don’t tend to have daytime naps.

Jonniecomelately · 18/06/2023 16:54

Sounds like my son before he was diagnosed with diabetes. He was sleeping loads. Does he have a weird taste in his mouth and is he extra thirsty?

BlueDuckBlue · 18/06/2023 16:45

CanOfGerms · 18/06/2023 16:33

Sounds to me like there are so many things it could be, it would be wise to take a robust list of symptoms with him to the GP as soon as you can get an appointment.

This ^

Also , just a thought. Is he taking a different antihistamine than last hay fever season? Was thinking of possible causes of day time sleepiness .

CanOfGerms · 18/06/2023 16:33

Sounds to me like there are so many things it could be, it would be wise to take a robust list of symptoms with him to the GP as soon as you can get an appointment.

Jumbojem · 18/06/2023 16:18

I have a sporty 14 yr old boy and everything you say chimes with him, getting slower, knees (sometimes ankles) hurting, grumpy, eating.
BUT not the sleeping in the day part, and that does sound more unusual. Unless it's just because he's not sleeping so well at night due to the heat?
Sounds like you are going to GP anyway, you know him best and clearly he's not his usual self.

NameChangeThreeThousand · 18/06/2023 16:13

CanOfGerms · 18/06/2023 15:57

What is the knee issue?

I dont really know! He complained of a sore knee about 3 weeks ago. He'd bee playing basketball and I just thought maybe he'd bashed it (he had a few bruises on his arms and legs after basketball, so it seemed to make sense he might have bashed it, but he couldn't remember That happening). On and off since he's been commenting on a sore knee. It doesn't always seem to be worse with exercise though, but generally worse at night. Sometimes he doesn't mention it all. So I wondered if it was a growth thing, or would just go away.

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NameChangeThreeThousand · 18/06/2023 16:10

Lotus717 · 18/06/2023 16:09

I would second getting his blood sugars checked.

Yeah a few people saying this/diabetes etc.. I'll ask doc tomorro

Thanks

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NameChangeThreeThousand · 18/06/2023 16:10

RenegadeKeeblerElf · 18/06/2023 16:03

Might be worth getting a diabetes test, any weight loss or excessive thirst?

I haven't noticed either if these. He has been hungry a lot though, and now you mention it he did randomly wet the bed last week (which he's not done for 2 years). Which may be related.

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Lotus717 · 18/06/2023 16:09

I would second getting his blood sugars checked.

NameChangeThreeThousand · 18/06/2023 16:09

Toomuchrubbishonnetflix · 18/06/2023 16:00

How are his bowel habits? I ask because he sounds exactly like my daughter (swimmer, trained 16 hours a week, couldn’t do it any more, got slower & slower, fell asleep constantly in the day time, ached all the time, very lethargic) and she after many months of blaming growth spurts etc turned out to have coeliac disease. Probably isn’t but have a look at the symptoms - it may be worth testing for.
She was 13 when it started and had grown a lot so it was hard to spot but much better now we know what it is. Good luck!

I think his bowels are normal. He did say he had a sore stomach today though (rare for him). But what your daughter experienced with swimming does sound a lot like what DS is going through. I hadn't thought of coeliac - he eats a hec of a lot of pasta! So if it is, that would make sense. I will ask doc tomorrow. Thanks

He's still asleep ..

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saltinesandcoffeecups · 18/06/2023 16:04

Honestly it sounds like dehydration to me.

RenegadeKeeblerElf · 18/06/2023 16:03

Might be worth getting a diabetes test, any weight loss or excessive thirst?

Toomuchrubbishonnetflix · 18/06/2023 16:00

How are his bowel habits? I ask because he sounds exactly like my daughter (swimmer, trained 16 hours a week, couldn’t do it any more, got slower & slower, fell asleep constantly in the day time, ached all the time, very lethargic) and she after many months of blaming growth spurts etc turned out to have coeliac disease. Probably isn’t but have a look at the symptoms - it may be worth testing for.
She was 13 when it started and had grown a lot so it was hard to spot but much better now we know what it is. Good luck!

CanOfGerms · 18/06/2023 15:57

What is the knee issue?