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SunsetsInVenice · 12/06/2023 22:35

Working for 9 hours just twice a week with hour commute there and back.

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Unexpectedlysinglemum · 12/06/2023 23:49

Why don't you change to early and late shifts? Spread the hours out over more days? Won't work for her with a Long commute but might for others

Hearti · 12/06/2023 23:39

Ugh!! So the £13 actually includes a little bit of holiday pay entitlement because it’s a zero hours contract. So it’s in effect £13 per hour and no holidays

Hearti · 12/06/2023 23:33

£13 per hour is low pay for an adult. If they were to walk it would be slightly bearable, however paying for buses or trains or car petrol/car upkeep makes it pointless

Hearti · 12/06/2023 23:29

An hour each way to too far to travel for such a low paid role.

kingtamponthefurred · 12/06/2023 23:27

I wouldn't get out of bed for that kind of money, even without a commute.

coffeecupsandwaxmelts · 12/06/2023 23:22

Whenwillitallmakesense · 12/06/2023 23:08

You keep repeating that you pay well but there's obviously something off-putting to applicants if they keep turning down the job. This is at least the second time you've posted about this so you must know whatever you're doing or offering is just not working. You come across as quite passive aggressive, the way you keep insisting that it's a good job offer and that people should be expecting to work long hours, accept a two hour commute as standard etc. Maybe it's your demands and interviewing technique that's putting people off.

I knew the posting style seemed familiar.

TheChosenTwo · 12/06/2023 23:22

@Newname211 yes definitely, I didn’t put it in my post because it wouldn’t have just gotten longer but there will of course be unlimited amounts of reasons why people wouldn’t want to or be able to work longer days and would prefer more but shorter shifts.

Redebs · 12/06/2023 23:20

unvillage · 12/06/2023 23:09

Ugh this. I usually started at 8:30 on paper, but was always called into a room the moment I got there (usually 15 minutes early), and never, ever went home on time. Usually was there until close at 6. That's day nurseries. Absolutely exploit their staff./

OP wants them to be on zero-hours too

Redebs · 12/06/2023 23:19

Having read some of your other threads OP, I can see there might be more to it than just the low pay.
Perhaps consider how you treat other people - neighbours, nanny, colleagues 🤔

This might seem harsh, but I think a bit of self-reflection might be called for if you want to get people willing to work for you.

Better than coming onto the internet to complain about them as if it's their fault in some way.

Newname211 · 12/06/2023 23:17

TheChosenTwo · 12/06/2023 23:11

Presumably she knew how long the commute was before she applied though! Lots of you saying you wouldn’t do that commute for those 2 long days, if you did 3 days you’d be spending even longer commuting for the same pay.
I mean, I absolutely wouldn’t be commuting for those wages either but then I most certainly wouldn’t be applying.
Quite a few of our local schools have several vacancies for school support staff, formerly a desirable role for the school hours and term time working but people can no longer afford to do these jobs as the pay is just too low for it to be compatible with raising a family or even just living alone.

Maybe they can only do short days for other reasons, for example maybe they have pets, elderly parents, grandchildren, study commitments, a sick partner etc.

LaPerduta · 12/06/2023 23:12

We can't recruit for love nor money.

Well you say that, but have you actually considered offering a higher hourly rate?

TheChosenTwo · 12/06/2023 23:11

Presumably she knew how long the commute was before she applied though! Lots of you saying you wouldn’t do that commute for those 2 long days, if you did 3 days you’d be spending even longer commuting for the same pay.
I mean, I absolutely wouldn’t be commuting for those wages either but then I most certainly wouldn’t be applying.
Quite a few of our local schools have several vacancies for school support staff, formerly a desirable role for the school hours and term time working but people can no longer afford to do these jobs as the pay is just too low for it to be compatible with raising a family or even just living alone.

unvillage · 12/06/2023 23:09

Notimeforaname · 12/06/2023 23:06

No, I would not do that .

I did for a time, work in a nursery open from 7.30-6pm.

Staff start times were all staggered, some staff there for opening 7.30, more arrive at 8.30, then 9.30 and 10am. Staff go home 4pm, 5pm, 6pm and 6.30.

No way wouid I do 8-6 in a nursery with 2 hours commute on top.

Ugh this. I usually started at 8:30 on paper, but was always called into a room the moment I got there (usually 15 minutes early), and never, ever went home on time. Usually was there until close at 6. That's day nurseries. Absolutely exploit their staff./

PurplePear7 · 12/06/2023 23:09

It’s the commute that would put me off - regardless of the length of shift!

Doing two long shifts would be more cost effective for petrol/parking/bus fares than 4 shorter ones though.

Whenwillitallmakesense · 12/06/2023 23:08

You keep repeating that you pay well but there's obviously something off-putting to applicants if they keep turning down the job. This is at least the second time you've posted about this so you must know whatever you're doing or offering is just not working. You come across as quite passive aggressive, the way you keep insisting that it's a good job offer and that people should be expecting to work long hours, accept a two hour commute as standard etc. Maybe it's your demands and interviewing technique that's putting people off.

unvillage · 12/06/2023 23:07

You also need to be aware that many early years practitioners have children of their own, and therefore can only do shifts revolving around their own childcare.

8-6 is just not viable for many practitioners. Split the job, hire several people for part time hours. It gets complicated but it's going to be very hard for you to hire experienced early years practitioners to do 8-6.

I'd do it but a) commute and b) I like my work-life balance. I work 3 days a week at a preschool and it's wonderful. I would never want to work at a day nursery ever again.

Notimeforaname · 12/06/2023 23:06

No, I would not do that .

I did for a time, work in a nursery open from 7.30-6pm.

Staff start times were all staggered, some staff there for opening 7.30, more arrive at 8.30, then 9.30 and 10am. Staff go home 4pm, 5pm, 6pm and 6.30.

No way wouid I do 8-6 in a nursery with 2 hours commute on top.

mycatsanutter · 12/06/2023 23:04

My dd works in a nursery at £11 an hour ,she does 10 hour days , she would love £13 an hour ! I suppose it depends what the woman's circumstances are as most people couldn't live off doing 18 hours a week .

Newname211 · 12/06/2023 23:04

Overthebow · 12/06/2023 23:02

The staff at my DCs nursery do shorter shifts. Some do the early start and finish early, some do the later shift. They are all lively and the nursery have no problems recruiting or retaining staff.

Same in every nursery I know. Normal shifts; some staff do mornings and others do evenings. Only accept as many early drop off/late pickup kids as you can staff.

coffeecupsandwaxmelts · 12/06/2023 23:04

SunsetsInVenice · 12/06/2023 23:03

10 years in nurseries. 2 in management.
I know there is a recruitment crisis but we pay well, much more than other nurseries in the area.

Just because you pay more than others doesn't mean you pay well.

Why do staff have to work ten hour days without a paid break? Can't people do shifts?

unvillage · 12/06/2023 23:03

SunsetsInVenice · 12/06/2023 23:01

Well, I just wondered what the general view was. As I said, I thought most applying to nurseries would know how long the shifts can be.

Early years jobs are variable. Not all nurseries observe the same hours as yours, and not all expect a full 10 hour 8-6 shift. £13 ph is a fantastic wage though - I would have leapt at that as a newly qualified practitioner. Look at local colleges and unis with early years qualifications.

SunsetsInVenice · 12/06/2023 23:03

10 years in nurseries. 2 in management.
I know there is a recruitment crisis but we pay well, much more than other nurseries in the area.

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Overthebow · 12/06/2023 23:02

Lovely not lively

coffeecupsandwaxmelts · 12/06/2023 23:02

SunsetsInVenice · 12/06/2023 22:57

8AM-6PM with unpaid break. Honestly for nurseries, the rate of pay is very good but she will be better off as some of you have said, looking for something closer to home or working in a different childcare role if she doesn't want those long hours.

I wouldn't work a 10 hour day plus a 2 hour commute for £117 🤷‍♀️

I mean, can you blame her?

Overthebow · 12/06/2023 23:02

SunsetsInVenice · 12/06/2023 23:01

Well, I just wondered what the general view was. As I said, I thought most applying to nurseries would know how long the shifts can be.

The staff at my DCs nursery do shorter shifts. Some do the early start and finish early, some do the later shift. They are all lively and the nursery have no problems recruiting or retaining staff.

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